Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Good luck bro. Update us from the Internet shop there.

only 5000 per hour...chirp chirp...

[lugi]

Originally Posted by SingViet

TET coming soon. How many bros here going back to be god of fortune ?

GF grandma tell GF ma to tell GF to ask me go for TET..

GF tell me straight off stay in Singapore...

I tell GF cam on for being understanding...

I say I will give a little money to them..

GF says u rich ah.. if want give.. give me...

Report finish roi..

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by lugi

GF grandma tell GF ma to tell GF to ask me go for TET..

GF tell me straight off stay in Singapore...

I tell GF cam on for being understanding...

I say I will give a little money to them..

GF says u rich ah.. if want give.. give me...

Report finish roi..

Simple straightforward report...... good!!! hahaha
My wife just told me she's planning to bring my 3 kids back to province for new year next year, i was like `what the fxxk!!' But no choice also, next year is 10 years roi, cannot always prevent her from going back for TET.

[lugi]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Simple straightforward report...... good!!! hahaha
My wife just told me she's planning to bring my 3 kids back to province for new year next year, i was like `what the fxxk!!' But no choice also, next year is 10 years roi, cannot always prevent her from going back for TET.

if the kids don need to go school ok lah..
but in Sillypore only 2 days holiday, if the kids need to travel like this sibei tiring...

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

this coming TET will be my 1st time experiencing being god of fortune.
my girlfriend tell me there are about 30 pax (family + relative)

going vn on CNY eve till 28 jan.

Just curious, what is the rate for ang pow ? children agak agak how much ? Adult how much ?

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Good luck bro. Update us from the Internet shop there.

update as in?how much he spend as a 'CAI SHENG YE' over there

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by lugi

GF grandma tell GF ma to tell GF to ask me go for TET..

GF tell me straight off stay in Singapore...

I tell GF cam on for being understanding...

I say I will give a little money to them..

GF says u rich ah.. if want give.. give me...

Report finish roi..

Your little money should only go to her parents and nobody else and dont give too much.Up to now,i only give a ang bao to her mum,even her sister and her nephew,i did not give,even during tet.

My wife did not request but i know she got give to her nephew who is 10 years old.Actually i rather they dont like me than a habit to them.And her sister is not marry so i deem as no need.

But her mom did 'protect us' by telling us who not to give when those tom,dick,harry or those people who only appear on tet come and visit her house

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by lugi

GF grandma tell GF ma to tell GF to ask me go for TET..

GF tell me straight off stay in Singapore...

I tell GF cam on for being understanding...

I say I will give a little money to them..

GF says u rich ah.. if want give.. give me...

Report finish roi..

Yurs is just GF now, so its ok not to go. If she is yur wife, her grandma, ma will be yur in laws. U still can no go n no give money?

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Golden question

But her mom did 'protect us' by telling us who not to give when those tom,dick,harry or those people who only appear on tet come and visit her house

for those tom,dick,harry or those people who only appear on tet come and visit her house, best to ACT BLUR n pretend not to understand TV or pretend say Singkapoor no such practices.

[lugi]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Yurs is just GF now, so its ok not to go. If she is yur wife, her grandma, ma will be yur in laws. U still can no go n no give money?

I guess I am lucky here.. my GF says don need me to travel all the way there even when married... as I told her I need 2 days to travel there, and 2 days to come home... and I cannot be away for so many days... so she hieu...

It's all up to me whether I want go or not...

I just gave her 3 million this round to be given out as red packet. How much she wants to give and who she gives to is up to her. There's her parents, 2 younger sis and one elder sis who is married.

She did not ask anything from me, i just gave her willingly.

[lugi]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Your little money should only go to her parents and nobody else and dont give too much.Up to now,i only give a ang bao to her mum,even her sister and her nephew,i did not give,even during tet.

My wife did not request but i know she got give to her nephew who is 10 years old.Actually i rather they dont like me than a habit to them.And her sister is not marry so i deem as no need.

But her mom did 'protect us' by telling us who not to give when those tom,dick,harry or those people who only appear on tet come and visit her house

You have a good wife and understanding in laws.

Mine is looking to be this way as well... hope things don change after marriage

[lugi]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Just curious, what is the rate for ang pow ? children agak agak how much ? Adult how much ?

I remembered seeing some guide on this in this thread...

Something like..

In laws - 2 mil
Siblings - 500k to 1 mil
Children - 0 to 500k

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by vietboy

for those tom,dick,harry or those people who only appear on tet come and visit her house, best to ACT BLUR n pretend not to understand TV or pretend say Singkapoor no such practices.

Normally i just keep quiet and let my wife handle but before going,i will always get prepare her mom ang bao,the rest i also dont know my wife got give or not cos she never mention anything to me.Maybe she give herself

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by lugi

GF grandma tell GF ma to tell GF to ask me go for TET..

GF tell me straight off stay in Singapore...

I tell GF cam on for being understanding...

I say I will give a little money to them..

GF says u rich ah.. if want give.. give me...

Report finish roi..

Actually since she is so understanding,u should keep quiet about giving the little money.She how she react or whether she voice out anything when close to tet

[lugi]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Actually since she is so understanding,u should keep quiet about giving the little money.She how she react or whether she voice out anything when close to tet

This sum is insignificant to me. When I pass her the money, she say no need since not married and she will keep the money for me. Instead, she use part of it to pay for my hotel stay there.

Her parents also did not ask a single thing from me thus far, they are still busy raising money to build their house in the province. They hope I will not look down on them and would like to get the new house built before we hold the wedding there. Her dad actually did not want her to marry a foreigner, as he was worried about the social divide. But after he met me, he approved as he found me super keo kiet.. he like...