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it's the pressure and jitters in me to dine with them bcuz i cant be myself. VB or PRCB will do such things for u no matter what. it doesn't make a big fuss to them. they auto do it one. peel shell/take tissue/take drink/see u cough will pat your back/see u tired will msg your head/shoulder etc... it's nothing to them bcuz they r programmed to do this to their men.
This is something where guy appreciate and like whereby sg girl will not do.Recently i went KFC with one of my friend.My friend girlfriend is those pretty and like to carry branded goods type.
Guess what my friend do?He actually peel off the chicken skin and tear into small pieces and give her eat cos he know she no like to eat chicken skin.She did not even say a thank u to him.
Well i was thinking,sg man service sg girl but is the opposite when u are with your vietnam girl/wife.
But when courting,those sg man will do anyting in order to win that sg girl but after marry,is totally different liao haha
My wife still peel prawn and crab shell for me like a i am her baby
This is something where guy appreciate and like whereby sg girl will not do.Recently i went KFC with one of my friend.My friend girlfriend is those pretty and like to carry branded goods type.
Guess what my friend do?He actually peel off the chicken skin and tear into small pieces and give her eat cos he know she no like to eat chicken skin.She did not even say a thank u to him.
Well i was thinking,sg man service sg girl but is the opposite when u are with your vietnam girl/wife.
But when courting,those sg man will do anyting in order to win that sg girl but after marry,is totally different liao haha
My wife still peel prawn and crab shell for me like a i am her baby
My personal obervation is that the more highly educated the gal is, the more demanding she will be, irregardless of her nationality. The highly educated and rich in Vietnam are about the same as these singapore gals. I think i have mentioned before about my first gf in Vietnam. She is from the higer society in Vietnam, father is politician and family very rich. She speaks good english, been to a lot of different countires. But her temper sucks big time. She's just as demanding as singaporean gals, temper just as furious and expects me to treat her like a queen. Why torture myself?
Some parts like your VB says she knows what you are thinking reasonates. My Vb also says she always knows what I am thinking, when in fact, most of the time she is wrong.
My main takeaway from this is that should I visit her folks, I will prepare some presents from Singapore so that I may not need to go into the awkward part of having to give money to her folks. Maybe senior bros could shed light on this practice.
Enjoyed reading and upz you with my humble 10 pts.
There was once i ask my wife what to buy as a small gift to her mother since i staying at her house.She say no need but if i want just give her money better.What she like,she buy herself
OK,i think is also more pratical so i say i will give her around $200 sing and she say is ok.I treat it as a hotel stay cost.Sometime when i go,i dont even give a single cents but her mother still treat me good.
It really depends cos like u,i also feel awkard when giving money.But dont be shy if u give like give little bit cos always bear in mind that if her side is good,this little bit of money is only a gesture to them.
Give a lot will spolit them.Always be stingy and poor when approach
My personal obervation is that the more highly educated the gal is, the more demanding she will be, irregardless of her nationality. The highly educated and rich in Vietnam are about the same as these singapore gals. I think i have mentioned before about my first gf in Vietnam. She is from the higer society in Vietnam, father is politician and family very rich. She speaks good english, been to a lot of different countires. But her temper sucks big time. She's just as demanding as singaporean gals, temper just as furious and expects me to treat her like a queen. Why torture myself?
There was once i ask my wife what to buy as a small gift to her mother since i staying at her house.She say no need but if i want just give her money better.What she like,she buy herself
OK,i think is also more pratical so i say i will give her around $200 sing and she say is ok.I treat it as a hotel stay cost.Sometime when i go,i dont even give a single cents but her mother still treat me good.
It really depends cos like u,i also feel awkard when giving money.But dont be shy if u give like give little bit cos always bear in mind that if her side is good,this little bit of money is only a gesture to them.
Give a lot will spolit them.Always be stingy and poor when approach
Thanks bro for sharing.
I asked her recently again and she says don't give money to parents, just buy gifts for them like wine. I intend to buy Tiger Balm too, since they work hard in the fields.
For kids, can give some pocket money like $20 or so, anyshe she only has another 2 sibling, so that should be ok.
Recently, she wanted me to pass money to her friend for her first and said she would return to me. It was only a few hundred SGD so I thought it is ok even if she does not return me the money as I she had never asked me for any money.
But to my surprise, she returned the money to me in a week as promised. Told me that her parents told her that never to take other people's money. Her dad also doen't want her to be with foreigners. Seems like a rather level headed vb with good values...
__________________ Why are guys more rational? Becos they have 2 heads.
My personal obervation is that the more highly educated the gal is, the more demanding she will be, irregardless of her nationality. The highly educated and rich in Vietnam are about the same as these singapore gals. ...... But her temper sucks big time. She's just as demanding as singaporean gals, temper just as furious and expects me to treat her like a queen.
I asked her recently again and she says don't give money to parents, just buy gifts for them like wine. I intend to buy Tiger Balm too, since they work hard in the fields.
For kids, can give some pocket money like $20 or so, anyshe she only has another 2 sibling, so that should be ok.
Recently, she wanted me to pass money to her friend for her first and said she would return to me. It was only a few hundred SGD so I thought it is ok even if she does not return me the money as I she had never asked me for any money.
But to my surprise, she returned the money to me in a week as promised. Told me that her parents told her that never to take other people's money. Her dad also doen't want her to be with foreigners. Seems like a rather level headed vb with good values...
Can buy our famous eagle oil to them too.They only like made and buy in singapore cos is real haha
Can buy our famous eagle oil to them too.They only like made and buy in singapore cos is real haha
good idea bro, and I also last won a portable OSIM foot massager in a lucky draw, never got to use it, so maybe this can be given to them, Singapore Brand leh..
__________________ Why are guys more rational? Becos they have 2 heads.
Its really going to be quite a shocking experience for Singaporeans when they first go to the village to meet the `relatives' of their potential spouse. I remember when i first went with my wife to her village in Ben Tre in 2003, i kanna big big shock. She introduced me to almost all of her village. It seems that almost everyone living there is her relative. From her father's side to her mother's side, can kill leh. Everyone i must give some money, minimum 50k for kids. During that time, still using the old notes, like toilet paper. My wife asked me to changed like 6 to 7 million VND (if i didn't remember wrongly) and exchange rate was like S$1 = 7000VND then. Meet this and that, everyone must give VND. I was like... knn... i am santa clause huh? Go back 1 day, finish all VND. I still have to take out my S$ to change for VND at the market. Ever since that trip, i dread going back to her village.
bro,your old note description remind me when i first went there in 2004.I was shock when they gave me their small notes.A pierce of crumpled brown paper like come out from the rubbish bin
Later they come out with plastic notes,then is at least better but those notes is still around
Put it simply, I'm going there at my own terms, not there specifically to see her parents or for them to see me. And I told her so. She said yah lah.. you always want FUN.
I've told her that I'm really a poor guy in Singapore struggling to make ends meet. And for the few times we went on holidays, I only book those 2-3 star hotels and eat at small restaurants, never those lavish ones. She has never asked me for anything in return.
At least so far so good for me. I always try to understand what they deem most important, their families etc. and I will tell them how much I love my family too. I would want to work hard and give them a better life, and she would agree whole heartedly. I would usually stop at that as I think that already sinks in. Maybe, she thinks I am at her level, striving hard to provide for the family so can empathise with me.
Things may change in the future, but at present, things are going well.
Remind me of the first time when i first know my wife or that time girlfriend.
I went and visit her and she bring me out to eat.We went to a place,not really a restaurant but look more like a small villa deco,i guess bro frequent there will know there is a lot over there.
I think was expensive so i stop her before going in and ask her is it expensive.she say no but i told her if eat inside i no enough money to pay how?
she double check with the security cum bike attendant uncle and she told me is cheap.Indeed it turn out cheap haha
One way to make her know i am poor and in the end she pay haha
nice plot u hv. i got something similar as u but not as good as you. need to learn from u. and thanks to the experienced bros here who advise me
wah u book 2-3 stars hotel?! i only stay in 1 star ler... haha US$20 only let her know im kiam ku one and i think she sense it well. everytime when comes to money she know what i am thinking.
for my case,years back when i first visit my wife's family at the village.i only give 'jian mian li' to her really close family members.when i say close,it means only her immediate family members which are her mother,2 elder sis and 1 younger bro.all the rest who appear to see me this 'endangered animal',my wife tell me just BO CHAP!!!!....
On my marriage day,still got one couple with 1 daughter come with no ang bao and eat.(one of my wife relative)
Guess what they give us,A nice present wrap with beautiful wrapping paper and WOW,is a photo album inside.
NA BEI,really no shy,3 ppl eat,give one photo album that cos less than 3 usd.
On tet,they came to her house,my wife try not to entertain them and her mother say dont talk to them and let them leave faster cos they bring their daughter here to get ang bao.still got the face to ask her daughter to greet me gong xi fa cai
In the end,sat for 1 hour and left empty handed,or be good
15-10-2011, 09:47 AM
