Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 522

KangTuo · #**7816** 30-08-2010, 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

Dont you think the risks are too great to take to marry someone that you dont trust and takes 3 years to trust her?

This is what bothering me in thinking marrying my vn gf.

I think it is not time to get married or is it rich people got more worries about dividing the assets when marriage fails?

Trust you g/f, marry her. Don't trust, don't marry. Like that no headache

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

"ask your lawyer to draft a wedding contract and let her sign it." - Yes, have to inform her when the time come, and lets see

Number 1 thing in the letter: "CANNOT use woman chartered law against you"

shysaint · #**7817** 30-08-2010, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Number 1 thing in the letter: "CANNOT use woman chartered law against you"

Number 2 : What's mine is mine .... What's yours is yours ....

xyman · #**7818** 30-08-2010, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

How long have you know her before you decided to marry her?

Show to your parents that you love her and at the same time you show love to your parents too , and also can manage your famiy business.

Well, for my case, I told my mum where I know my wife and what she do and why she come here work?

Communications is important !

Well, at least your parents still give their blessings to you .... back to that , COMMUNICATIONS is very important!

Your parents is not the only one in Singapore that do have reservations .... about foreign bride ....

SO this could be the reason why they still have reservations ....

No worries , like I said , COMMUNICATIONS is very important part of building relationships... remember you are the link bridge .... Your BX is important and need to be happy, so does your parents ....

Got one time I was quarreling with my mother over the phone and my bx was beside me. After I put down the phone, she ask me why I quarrel with my mother. She ask me to say sorry to my mother when I reach home and ask me to love my mother.

They can be fierce like tiger, hard as rock and yet gentle like a rabbit

KangTuo · #**7819** 30-08-2010, 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Well, for my case, I told my mum where I know my wife and what she do and why she come here work?

you are very daring to tell the truth to you family members.

shysaint · #**7820** 30-08-2010, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

you are very daring to tell the truth to you family members.

hahahah ... I also duno why I say ....

Hurricane88 · #**7821** 31-08-2010, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

Thanks Pak Hurricane.

"ask your lawyer to draft a wedding contract and let her sign it." - Yes, have to inform her when the time come, and lets see

No problem la...you are welcome...to be with Vn gal,,,you must play the Vn culture better than them...actually the Vn gal are simple minded ppl and easily satisfied...just ensure dun expose them too much too soon...

Titan303 · #**7822** 02-09-2010, 12:44 AM

My mum is nagging me to get married, can bros here advice me on ways to get a Vietnam wife? Use match making agents in Singapore? Much thanks to all that reply.

tym733 · #**7823** 02-09-2010, 01:47 AM

I need advice on how to get a Vietnam wife, its time to settle down. Thanks in advance to all that give advice.

Honey Boon · #**7824** 02-09-2010, 12:05 PM

don't be lazy la... just read thru everything in this thread before asking more specific questions la ....

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Originally Posted by tym733

I need advice on how to get a Vietnam wife, its time to settle down. Thanks in advance to all that give advice.

xyman · #**7825** 02-09-2010, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Titan303

My mum is nagging me to get married, can bros here advice me on ways to get a Vietnam wife? Use match making agents in Singapore? Much thanks to all that reply.

One way is to go down to Joo Chiat and take your pick. You just need to pay a tips of 20 - 50 to see if they are suitable for you.

It is much cheaper to look for agent which charge large fees. But be warn that you may end up spending more....

naemlo · #**7826** 02-09-2010, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Titan303

My mum is nagging me to get married, can bros here advice me on ways to get a Vietnam wife? Use match making agents in Singapore? Much thanks to all that reply.

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Originally Posted by tym733

I need advice on how to get a Vietnam wife, its time to settle down. Thanks in advance to all that give advice.

Just go to the market or supermarket and buy.

Hurricane88 · #**7827** 02-09-2010, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Titan303

My mum is nagging me to get married, can bros here advice me on ways to get a Vietnam wife? Use match making agents in Singapore? Much thanks to all that reply.

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Originally Posted by Titan303

I have been nagged to marry. Is picking a wife from those agents good?

You posted this in "Vietnamese Wife in Singapore" thread on 30 Aug 2006.

After 4 years you still asked the same question...

shysaint · #**7828** 02-09-2010, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

You posted this in "Vietnamese Wife in Singapore" thread on 30 Aug 2006.

After 4 years you still asked the same question...

4 yrs ago VN GALS URGLY 4 yrs later GALS PRETTY mah .......

shysaint · #**7829** 02-09-2010, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Just go to the market or supermarket and buy.

hahhaahhhaahahahahahahahahahaha ......

jf66312 · #**7830** 02-09-2010, 02:12 PM

hi bros,

sorry was busy these few days so didnt get to see your replies..

thank you so much for all your advice & pointers..

yup..my bxa did go to hotel with clients..it was hard in the beginning but i've learnt to accept..

i've also learnt not to question her about her past work..as like all bros here..the future is more important...i've also tried to distance her from her WL frens...

but sometimes its difficult as she herself at times is quite playful also...

i have 2 other bros who married with her close fren so i try to keep this circle of frens closer so as to break away from her WL frens...

it was hard in the beginning but i can feel the change in her...

my parents now are better but they are just worried that i will spoil her cost parents being parents, they understand my character inside out...

i think having a VN wife or even a foreign wife, guys as husband need to spend time to teach them & get them to understand our culture...

my only main prob is my bxa dun speak chinese..but she can converse in English...
though her english is not fantastic too...

to answer bro shysaint question..i only knew my bxa for about 6mths b4 i married her...now thinking back , i am quite shock myself too..

but i believe in fate...i guess its what brought me & her together...& i definitely want to see this journey through with her....