Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 502

naemlo · #**7516** 10-08-2010, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by xyman

haha... i know the average salary is around 200 like that. But i dun want her to work too hard. 800 is someting which i can afford for her. Also, if I find out anything, i still can walk out on her anytime if she is unfaithful.

I am quite surprise on guy giving so much money to a ger in oversea. U making her a little princess, eat, sleep, laze around whole day. Even she is working, she will not want hardship job cos why bother when she has 800 monthly to spend.
I dunno whether this is helping or destroying her. I will rather pay most part of the 800 for her study and the rest for her to spend.

Anyway, end of the day, it is your choice and your money. Hopefully she keeps the spare money for saving and not for her boy friend in Vietnam.

Out of curious, how much u give to your parents monthly??

shysaint · #**7517** 10-08-2010, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

It is more tiring when you are thinking of lies to lie to her. Every weekend I need to lie to my galfriend in order to cheong till early morning the next day.

Agree .... Fully Agree .....

Guess Bro KT must have stock up alot of reasons ......

xyman · #**7518** 10-08-2010, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo;5102397\

Out of curious, how much u give to your parents monthly??

About the same..

Hurricane88 · #**7519** 10-08-2010, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by xyman

haha,, she everytime say "dou ma, ka koo concat".. hope i spell it correctly.

wow...your bx scold your mother "tieu ni ma" in cantonese or "kan nin bu" in hokkien...supposed to be "du ma" in tieng viet...hope you dun mind me pointing out...

SureScore · #**7520** 10-08-2010, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Anyway, end of the day, it is your choice and your money. Hopefully she keeps the spare money for saving and not for her boy friend in Vietnam.

Out of curious, how much u give to your parents monthly??

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Originally Posted by xyman

About the same..

Well this is what we share and learn. We can't expect others to be like you or me. Thank you to this thread that I learned not to jump into a bottomless pit.

naemlo · #**7521** 10-08-2010, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

wow...your bx scold your mother "tieu ni ma" in cantonese or "kan nin bu" in hokkien...supposed to be "du ma" in tieng viet...hope you dun mind me pointing out...

This type of ger I will avoid, basically no manner and education.... "du ma" is very strong words, translate directly is "f your mother"

If in HCMC, I hear this to me, my temper will immediately boil. U can scold me but not my parents.

shysaint · #**7522** 10-08-2010, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

This type of ger I will avoid, basically no manner and education.... "du ma" is very strong words, translate directly is "f your mother"

If in HCMC, I hear this to me, my temper will immediately boil. U can scold me but not my parents.

So 'Du Ma' means that , I was wondering what is that .... Now I learnt something new ... heheheh ...

I educate my BX not to used this 3 words "KNN" ... coz it's bad ... she ask me what it meant coz she heard her friend scolding their boyfriend using these 3 letter words ....

The only word she used on me is 'con cac' / 'your cock '... hahahahah ... the way she say damn cute ... I teach her this ... hahahaha ...

When she angry coz i made her angry .. she will say 'con cac' ... hahahah ..

When I say "want to do anot" , she will reply ..." do, do your cock, everytime do" ... hahahha ..

What a relationship we had ... hahhhaha

xxxx4 · #**7523** 10-08-2010, 08:26 PM

Finally finished reading all the 500 pages.
I found this thread is amusing as well as entertaining. Some of the posts are really funny

Also i learned so much about viet gals here. Thanks to Bros Singviet, Sha_ga, KT, Cassanova, Hurricane and all that i forgot to mentioned.

I only been to HCM twice so far, weekend stay only and i found it's interesting place remain me my place i growth up with.

I have 1 question to Bro Hurricane, are the gals in 166 karaoke can ta bao? Been there once with 3 friends at last visit, and i found the chicks there are soo fresh and decent standard

xxxx4 · #**7524** 10-08-2010, 09:26 PM

Damn hard to post in this forum.....

GLHunter · #**7525** 10-08-2010, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by xyman

hi everyone, I got some question to ask and I know is answer in other post. My question is if I give my ba xa $800 a month for her in Vietnam, is it more than enough? my friends give their ba xa 400 a month or 100 a week and they say is enough.

For me, because I love my ba xa very much, i planning to give her $800 every month (no flame me on spoiling market ok).To me, I just want her to have a stable life and don't work so hard. am I foolish to think this way?

Also, do you guy really fly down to vietnam every month to accompany them?

My ba xa everytime quarrel ask me to look for other vietnam girls or say want to leave me. But when I told her i meet my ex viet gf for dinner, she very upset and cry a bit...I really don't understand woman (regardless of where they from).

i used to think the same way as you bro. but sad to say, too much money pumped into a relationshiip will almost surely resulted in;
1. she become a spendthrift / cannot spend wisely
2. we gradually transform from a bf to an atm machine
3. you save, give her spend, in the end, both no saving / not much savings

Hurricane88 · #**7526** 11-08-2010, 05:51 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxx4

Finally finished reading all the 500 pages.
I found this thread is amusing as well as entertaining. Some of the posts are really funny

Also i learned so much about viet gals here. Thanks to Bros Singviet, Sha_ga, KT, Cassanova, Hurricane and all that i forgot to mentioned.

I only been to HCM twice so far, weekend stay only and i found it's interesting place remain me my place i growth up with.

I have 1 question to Bro Hurricane, are the gals in 166 karaoke can ta bao? Been there once with 3 friends at last visit, and i found the chicks there are soo fresh and decent standard

First thank you for your compliments and fyi, I haven been to 166...if you wan to ask gal out then when you first get in there speak to the namasan to let her know you wan gals that can ta bao so she will intro those gals can...why dun you share with up your experience during your last 2 trips...

RealEstateGuy · #**7527** 11-08-2010, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by GLHunter

i used to think the same way as you bro. but sad to say, too much money pumped into a relationshiip will almost surely resulted in;
1. she become a spendthrift / cannot spend wisely
2. we gradually transform from a bf to an atm machine
3. you save, give her spend, in the end, both no saving / not much savings

How is this limited to Viet women? SG women do the same it seems.

xyman · #**7528** 11-08-2010, 09:13 AM

hmm.. what you say is true, maybe i should not give her too much. I still want to save up for my house

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Originally Posted by GLHunter

i used to think the same way as you bro. but sad to say, too much money pumped into a relationshiip will almost surely resulted in;
1. she become a spendthrift / cannot spend wisely
2. we gradually transform from a bf to an atm machine
3. you save, give her spend, in the end, both no saving / not much savings