Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by haojian

Thank you for all the advice. I paid S$7k to the marriage agency.

we are expecting our son this february. my wife wants to work after she gets her pr. hopefully by january. I am asking her to take care of our son for 3 years, until he goes to school.

she's the eldest of 2 daugthers at home. her younger sister is mentally challenged, so its up to her to help support her parents.

we'll be using $1k of the baby bonus to buy a cow for her parents to rear in vn. my wife says it costs $10k to buy a farm land. so we save $3k from the baby bonus and save up to buy a land in a few years time. I am telling her that her parents have to send half of the profits back to sg every year.

then maybe we buy a bigger land a few more years down the road. that is if my name is included as farm land owner. that's the plan anyway, hopefully that can become an income stream for my family in sg.

You seems quite tight financially. It's still possible to buy a small piece of agricultural land with S$10K. Foreigner can't 'own' land. Use your wife's name;
tell her it's for the kid(s). Make sure that there's proper ownership paper(so do).

Forget about income stream from Vietnam; there will be none.
Let your parents-in-law use the land, and they keep whatever little profit
they can eke out from the land. It 's good for your relationship with your parents-in-laws. Your wife is the owner, in the future your kid(s).

Periodically, you will send token amount to them. Her mentally-challenged
younger sister needs support too. It looks like you are going for the long haul
- with the kid on the way. Good luck, you need a lot of it.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by papillon30

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Let your parents-in-law use the land, and they keep whatever little profit
they can eke out from the land. It 's good for your relationship with your parents-in-laws. Your wife is the owner, in the future your kid(s).

Periodically, you will send token amount to them. Her mentally-challenged
younger sister needs support too. It looks like you are going for the long haul
- with the kid on the way. Good luck, you need a lot of it.

Interesting point. I think Bro haojian should have enough to ponder.

Good Luck to him.

[SingViet]

One trick that vietnamese ladies like to use on foreigner guys,

` bore him a child and i can ask for things in return.'

`bore him a child and i can get PR and citizenship'

`bore him a child and he will listen to me'

If you want to fall into this trap, carry on. We are just sharing our experiences, the rest is up to you

[xiaojian]

hmm.. i guess its quite true for those money minded ones

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

One trick that vietnamese ladies like to use on foreigner guys,

` bore him a child and i can ask for things in return.'

`bore him a child and i can get PR and citizenship'

`bore him a child and he will listen to me'

If you want to fall into this trap, carry on. We are just sharing our experiences, the rest is up to you

I won't fall on this kind of trap...
there is something call abortion

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by SingViet

One trick that vietnamese ladies like to use on foreigner guys,

` bore him a child and i can ask for things in return.'

`bore him a child and i can get PR and citizenship'

`bore him a child and he will listen to me'

If you want to fall into this trap, carry on. We are just sharing our experiences, the rest is up to you

Hmmm... speaking of this....1 VB told me that its ok that i am attached with a vn wife. She is willing to be the small one and wants to bear my child so that she can always feel that i am by her side!!!

My reply to her: " Em benh nhieu lam roi, lai lai lai, bay gio A dem em di coi bac si!""

HAHA!! If that request is ever met, aren't I going to be always in her 5 fingers mountain???

Well, just to re-iteriate bro SV's point that...YES, they do make some crazy decisions sometimes....so be careful!

[GLHunter]

on the other hand, met a new case very funny. My friend has been trying to up this viet gal in J51/M51 for long time. When he finally popped the question, she say "...give me car and house I also don't go hotel"!!! Thats a new classic statement [/QUOTE]

She is testing water. this statement tells us anything less than a car & house she would not be interested. Haha.. she just need 1 rich man so to fall for this trick & hey.. she got a house & car for a session of jerking.. that is gd returns... haha

[CuteBuns]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

on the other hand, met a new case very funny. My friend has been trying to up this viet gal in J51/M51 for long time. When he finally popped the question, she say "...give me car and house I also don't go hotel"!!! Thats a new classic statement

She is testing water. this statement tells us anything less than a car & house she would not be interested. Haha.. she just need 1 rich man so to fall for this trick & hey.. she got a house & car for a session of jerking.. that is gd returns... haha[/QUOTE]

I don't think it is testing water. More like making you even more lustful/desperate for her. The more difficult to get, the more u want it. So more repeat customers. This gal is a well-known cock-teaser anyway and has a regular pool of customers.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by CuteBuns

When he finally popped the question, she say "...give me car and house I also don't go hotel"!!! Thats a new classic statement

she is correct. go hotel give car and house for what?
go hotel is to make love/fcuk... she need a DICK to poke her.

Originally Posted by casannova03

My reply to her: " Em benh nhieu lam roi, lai lai lai, bay gio A dem em di coi bac si

let me continue the conversation

vb: bac si o dau?
casa: bac si cua e o day. bac si ten 'casa03'
vb: khi nao a dan e di kham benh?
casa: bay gio a dan e di 81 kham benh

Originally Posted by CuteBuns

This gal is a well-known cock-teaser anyway and has a regular pool of customers.

If she touch and ruba our cock while sitted with us, I don't mind giving a try for $20 tips

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Hmmm... speaking of this....1 VB told me that its ok that i am attached with a vn wife. She is willing to be the small one and wants to bear my child so that she can always feel that i am by her side!!!

Only experienced bro will not how to handle this VB culture.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

If she touch and ruba our cock while sitted with us, I don't mind giving a try for $20 tips

Then she can call you ogxa. She had tons of ogxa each paying her $20 per seating.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

how about the section "Have you ever been prohibited from entering Singapore?"

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I am thinking of tick YES... so there is no false declaration.

Finally I came back to Sillypore with my galfriend.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Finally I came back to Sillypore with my galfriend.

you have proven alot of things which pple say is not right

[jackbl]

Wish u be another successful story after casa03

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Finally I came back to Sillypore with my galfriend.

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

let me continue the conversation

vb: bac si o dau?
casa: bac si cua e o day. bac si ten 'casa03'
vb: khi nao a dan e di kham benh?
casa: bay gio a dan e di 81 kham benh

Continued....

VB: vay di 81 roi, a muon lam gi cho e het benh?
Casa: Neu muon uong thuoc, se lau lam....hmmm...Ah ha!! A biet roi...lai lai..A cho em su tiem nhieu lan thi nhanh khoe hon!!!

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Finally I came back to Sillypore with my galfriend.

Congrats. So did you tick YES?