Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 436

Hurricane88 · #**6526** 05-12-2009, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

After 20 days of guessing and waiting, my gf finally sms me .. Indeed, she got caught by the police in Malaysia, and today she will be sent back to Vietnam .. But she ask me to go Vietnam n bring her to Singapore .. I am not sure if I should do so .. When i tell her its hard for me to help her into Singapore as she got 'record' in Malaysia, she a bit sad .. Then tell me no need me help her, another customer will go there n bring her .. I really don't know if I should help her and hope for something to come out of this r/s OR should I just stay one side and let other pple do the 'job' .. I don't know about all this coming in n out of Singapore thingy .. What do the bros here think ?? Will she be able to come into Singapore just like this ?? Or will she be stopped at airport n sent back again ?? Pls give me some advice or comments .. Thanks !!

You can forget about her and move on...you dun have a marriage cert so no chance for you to bring her in and so dun waste time on her liao...ask yourself you wish to bring her here to be screwed by other guys...think you are out of your mind...

This is already so messy and do you have alot of money to spend...

jackbl · #**6527** 05-12-2009, 05:48 PM

She means that u are not the only CARROT HEAD liao, u understand?

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

But she ask me to go Vietnam n bring her to Singapore .. I am not sure if I should do so .. When i tell her its hard for me to help her into Singapore as she got 'record' in Malaysia, she a bit sad .. Then tell me no need me help her, another customer will go there n bring her ..

cashier · #**6528** 05-12-2009, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

She means that u are not the only CARROT HEAD liao, u understand?

he beyond help liao. so simple he also cannot see clearly..poison too deep in his dick head

MicroTommy · #**6529** 05-12-2009, 11:32 PM

after my r/s with my vietnamese gf...i feel that cheating and lying is part of their character...is that truth??...

slk_angelz · #**6530** 06-12-2009, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by cashier

he beyond help liao. so simple he also cannot see clearly..poison too deep in his dick head

Bro cashier, I can see very clearly .. But problem is she never want my money .. Anyway she knows I am poor but juz dunno why she keep contacting me .. But then, I have decided to leave it to fate bah .. Another man is gg to bring her over .. Great .. Can get her over without me spending a single cent and get to see her n enjoy time with her for free .. I do not know why should I have headache .. Nvm .. Anyway, thanx for the comments .. I know some bros might be thinking I am too stupid .. I cant control how other pple think of me .. I really hope I dun make any bros here pissed .. I really want advice n not to get scoldings from pple .. Thanx ..

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Originally Posted by MicroTommy

after my r/s with my vietnamese gf...i feel that cheating and lying is part of their character...is that truth??...

Yah .. I agree .. When mine 1st started out(well its my 1st r/s with this type of ger mah), I really think she is true .. But as days passed by, I find a lot of lies from her .. I try to act normal so I wun lose this FB .. Since she is willing and its free, then I dun really mind her lies ..Starting it really hurts my heart when I find her lies, but after some time, I think its really nt worth the pain !! Haha .. Just my two cents worth comments ..

Hurricane88 · #**6531** 06-12-2009, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by MicroTommy

after my r/s with my vietnamese gf...i feel that cheating and lying is part of their character...is that truth??...

Yes agreed lying is part and parcel of vn daily life. They just lie to their family, friends, neighbours, etc...so just believe 20 to 50 percent of what vn said unless both of you had been together long and some trust installed.

SureScore · #**6532** 06-12-2009, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

I know some bros might be thinking I am too stupid .. I cant control how other pple think of me .. I really hope I dun make any bros here pissed .. I really want advice n not to get scoldings from pple .. Thanx ..

Let me tell you something. Bro Hurricane88 and Carrot007 are some of the nicest people around and they bother to give you advice was because they care and don't want you to suffer a known fate which many brothers had went through.

Bro Cashier went through similar like you many months ago and he too had seen the light at the end of the tunnel. What he said was no malice and meant to be good for you.

Simple, we can just lied to you and tell you nice things which you like to hear but we knew those are lies and wrong things to do.

Nobody will bother to answer you any more since you cannot take criticism and not so friendly advice. You said you are not stupid.

cashier · #**6533** 06-12-2009, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MicroTommy

after my r/s with my vietnamese gf...i feel that cheating and lying is part of their character...is that truth??...

you got the wrong kind of vn gal lah, dun think as if all is like that. bro singviet wives are the better ones. anyway the bad ones are as bad as the bad prc bitches.

so the key is to choose carefully and not jump the gun before checking what you are really getting.

FYI: 99% of gals can act ver ver well. just see your office politics u will know. they can hate each other to the core but act like they like you in front of you.

cashier · #**6534** 06-12-2009, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

Bro cashier, I can see very clearly .. But problem is she never want my money .. Anyway she knows I am poor but juz dunno why she keep contacting me .. But then, I have decided to leave it to fate bah .. Another man is gg to bring her over .. Great .. Can get her over without me spending a single cent and get to see her n enjoy time with her for free .. I do not know why should I have headache .. Nvm .. Anyway, thanx for the comments .. I know some bros might be thinking I am too stupid .. I cant control how other pple think of me .. I really hope I dun make any bros here pissed .. I really want advice n not to get scoldings from pple .. Thanx ..

Yah .. I agree .. When mine 1st started out(well its my 1st r/s with this type of ger mah), I really think she is true .. But as days passed by, I find a lot of lies from her .. I try to act normal so I wun lose this FB .. Since she is willing and its free, then I dun really mind her lies ..Starting it really hurts my heart when I find her lies, but after some time, I think its really nt worth the pain !! Haha .. Just my two cents worth comments ..

Bro,

this is just part of the act lah. do you know that women always like to have spare tyres? just in case you are all she have left she can still leech on your sg passport. think with your head and see with your heart. not vice versa.

once you can see, you will know it is part of their plans. and i m sad to say that you are Listed as one of her spare tyre.

All,

SG man really have little or no exposures with woman. they lack the simple ability to see thru basic tricks set by woman...

cashier · #**6535** 06-12-2009, 01:37 PM

i can see that the common problem with the vn wives are their farking brothers who dun work but spend their entire life toking cock and play computer games in the vn cafe. They like to ask their sister to buy them laptop for their "studies" and they requested for new branded laptop which cost 1k-3k sgd. next thing is they like to ask for new bikes which they will pawn away and askfor a new one by claiming as stolen!

bros, pls do not yield to such nonsense and let your wife know you WILL not yield to such request except for maybe the school fee which cost less than 1k per year in vn govt university.
They dun need laptop for their school work unlike singapore for their uni has little or no IT infrastructure.

they will either pawn the laptop later or getting it for gaming and showoff.

Hence i conclude that the best is not to let your wife know your real financial capability and always declare as not enough money. they will always ask for money for their dick families when they know you have extra! they just dun get it that singapore are 1st class country with 3rd class spending power.

chanyboy · #**6536** 06-12-2009, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Since KT u hv not settled ur own thing here, I guess letting her go USA for work is a NOT big issue. Her work is on Nail so lesser risk. This can be seen as a test of her love for u. If u wan to say she may have a change in heart, then she go anywhere also can happen, not just USA, singapore also will! Now it is your decision

...vietnamisation is realli diff - haiz, now hearing KT's case - perhaps is to stay at hcm for a period like SV or found one in Sg like Sh_Q..

cashier · #**6537** 06-12-2009, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

...vietnamisation is realli diff - haiz, now hearing KT's case - perhaps is to stay at hcm for a period like SV or found one in Sg like Sh_Q..

Sh Q is different lah. he married into the gal family. if the guy dun mind then it is okay loh. But then those rich vn gal in spore will see ugly sg man mah? vn has tons of handsome viet kieus or yuppie..

chanyboy · #**6538** 06-12-2009, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by cashier

...But then those rich vn gal in spore will see ugly sg man mah? vn has tons of handsome viet kieus or yuppie..

mmm..perhaps, that's why gfrens in Vn already "sponsored" by local bros will not willing to come back Sg liao... they need constant-ATM from here, but not bfrens.

- more handsome; energetic, younger
- no language barrier; can kc with sweet, sweet TV
- acceptable to local/family mbrs
- no immigration matter to tackle
etc, etc.

How to compete like that?

Killer_c · #**6539** 06-12-2009, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

Let me tell you something. Bro Hurricane88 and Carrot007 are some of the nicest people around...

Nobody will bother to answer you any more since you cannot take criticism and not so friendly advice. You said you are not stupid.

Bro SS, u dun hv to get so piss off..

All the senior bros here have alrdy advice him. He has to make the final decision. Anyway, whichever decision he made, he has to face the consequences whether it is gd or bad

Just to quote what a senior bro has said previously

"if a gal really loves you be it WL or a decent viet gal. She will only ask money when she is seriously in need and not asking a large amt to keep inside bank and spend slowly. 1k or 2 may be little to us but in HCMC, a normal family just need roughly a few hundred to survive monthly. Just think why some family can survive without having their daughter to work as a WL. My philosophy might not b accurate but I guess to contribute a little is : A GF will share the burden with u and not taking u for granted..... She will only ask for whatever is needed and not extras like the WL in spore is aiming at...."

Sha_Gua75 · #**6540** 06-12-2009, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by cashier

Sh Q is different lah. he married into the gal family. if the guy dun mind then it is okay loh. But then those rich vn gal in spore will see ugly sg man mah? vn has tons of handsome viet kieus or yuppie..

????? I married into the family?? Personally I dont know you and if u hear say thing about me from someone then kindly keep your mouth shut since u dont know anything. Same for the someone who talk nonsense about me