Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

For bros who are having trouble with their vietnamese wife, don't panic. I heard there's a company dealing with marriage problems between Singapore man and vietnamese wife. But don't expect free la, they charge a fee for helping you to solve problems between you and your wife. But if can make the couple happier, then spending some money is worth it la. Heard that they also help the singapore husband look for his runaway vietnamese wife in vietnam. But something like this will surely cost much more than marriage mediation.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

The selling rate for S$ to VND is at S$1 = 10,512 VND. But to make life easy, we always take it as 10,000 VND per singapore dollar.

Thanks Bro! Hv time I buy u drinks!

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

So you think S$2000 is Big Amount of money to the province vietnamese?

Very big lah, as long as dun anyhow spend n all the money diam diam pass to mum n dun tell others u have a foreign "husband".

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

What is the exchange rate from sing$ to VND?

About 1SGD = 10k Dong.

So if you change 1000SGD, You are multi millionaire....

[Torres_Mok]

Last saturday just happen to pass by golden mile tower, I saw two marriage agency at level 2. the agencies are near to escalator! Majority of the agencies are at level one!

For info to those brothers who wish to go to agencies.

[KangTuo]

Originally posted by oldcar
Well say SingViet. We should never under estimate the spending power of their relative and their village friend. Last time my current wife (Phillipine wife) go back to Phillipine and wait for me to get visa to move her to HK, within 6 month of her their, she spend HK$600,000 from my HSBC atm card. And my current Vietnam bxa, in 4 month I know I have give over US$8000. Now she say she got no money, and I know that her whole family and their family is depend on her to get money from me for the New Year. That why she is so good now. Before she know me her monthly salary in Smaung is only 800,000VND. How they can spend 12 year of her salary in 4 month!!!

Bro, as the old saying goes ths way.. Money easy come, easy go.

If they can get the money easily from the right hand.... they spend it fast with their left hand.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Very big lah, as long as dun anyhow spend n all the money diam diam pass to mum n dun tell others u have a foreign "husband".

You think the mum will keep quiet and don't tell others that her daughter has a foreigner husband? Vietnamese are good at gossiping le

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, no offense. But what i have stated is just to let you understand the situation in vietnam. But i should say its best for your friend to control the spending of his wife. Cannot let her think that she can have money by just asking. If his wife thinks that its easy to get cash, i will think that there's a 90% chance that the wife will call him within a week after going back to ask for more money.

..well said..seems like a common thing (in fact, it is a common thing from all the entries here...). Really need to meet SViet to have a deeper discussion, to share some of the serious matter in the preparation for future steps. Any possibilities - PM to stay in touch.... me buy drinks lor..can?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

..well said..seems like a common thing (in fact, it is a common thing from all the entries here...). Really need to meet SViet to have a deeper discussion, to share some of the serious matter in the preparation for future steps. Any possibilities - PM to stay in touch.... me buy drinks lor..can?

Bro, no problem la. I will try to help if i can. You can PM me if you wish to look for me

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, no problem la. I will try to help if i can. You can PM me if you wish to look for me

Give me a call when you meeting him

But within this month is ok

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Give me a call when you meeting him

But within this month is ok

ok...dokey.. let me arrange for this week evening..7.30pm dinner cum drink? Somewhere downtown ok? (e.g. lau pat sat, Bugis, etc.) .. ha..ha..after that go cheong somemore!!

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

ok...dokey.. let me arrange for this week evening..7.30pm dinner cum drink? Somewhere downtown ok? (e.g. lau pat sat, Bugis, etc.) .. ha..ha..after that go cheong somemore!!

But i cannot stay till too late ok? I got to get home earlier to report strength to CO. My CO VietCon you know.....

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

But i cannot stay till too late ok? I got to get home earlier to report strength to CO. My CO VietCon you know.....

Report strength before 2359?

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

ok...dokey.. let me arrange for this week evening..7.30pm dinner cum drink? Somewhere downtown ok? (e.g. lau pat sat, Bugis, etc.) .. ha..ha..after that go cheong somemore!!

hmmm
thursday i cant...maybe tmr or wed

[Intel Ops]

Have been following this thread since the days it started. Seems like recently, there are some discussions on the not-so-good aspects of marrying a vietnamese wife. Somehow, such aspects might be true but such should not be generalised generally, applying to each and every individual. Therefore, IMHO, i believe that there are good and bad girls in every part of the world; so it just boil down to whether can we meet them or not ?

A live example would be the wife of SingViet; as in she is willingly to listen to him and not keep sponsoring her family back home whenever they called for help.(understand that S'poreans also need to work hard to survive and that bringing-up a child with proper education in Singapore is not easier but expensive)

Hope that bro SingViet wouldn't mind me quoting him as an example.

Just my thoughts while reading through the thread.