Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MIFAcafe]

Some people have been careful with their life all this while; only to take so much risk thinking of getting into something they don't understand and don't know how to handle.

VBs is a different breed of woman. When I first encounter one; they are lovely creature...... and after a while you will see their dark side.

This thread is full of examples; and yet still people post new story about how they fall in love with a FL.

The correct way to handle a VB; 99% of Singapore men will not be able to do.

Because we are brought up "to care".

The right way is "don't care".
Don't bother what they do.
Don't bother to control them.
Don't bother with their friends.
Don't listen to their stories.
Don't trust what they tell you.
Don't be angry with them.
Don't need to feel sad for them.
Don't need to plan future.
Don't talk about money.
Last and the least; don't listen to their father dying, mother sick; sisters schooling; house collapsing; dog give birth; uncle getting married........ because all this got nothing to do with "your happiness".

Before I forget....... what they do to you; you return "double". (classic H88 theory)

If you don't understand; you are just one of the 99.99% that don't. Don't need to feel bad.

But most will not listen and take the risk thinking "they got nothing to lose..."

Stupid boy; VBs are the one "that got nothing to lose...... you have everything that they don't have." And when they get hold of what you have; they will never stop..... they will look forward meeting other potential......"better man".

I learn a lot since June 2013. Thanks to H88 whom bring me there to see beautiful Vietnam and bring me to places to see pretty ladies. Past 2 years I have seen people with years of experience in VN; fall hard....... really hard.

Simply because they can do a lot of thing behind your back; and you can never detect it.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Some people have been careful with their life all this while; only to take so much risk thinking of getting into something they don't understand and don't know how to handle.

VBs is a different breed of woman. When I first encounter one; they are lovely creature...... and after a while you will see their dark side.

This thread is full of examples; and yet still people post new story about how they fall in love with a FL.

The correct way to handle a VB; 99% of Singapore men will not be able to do.

Because we are brought up "to care".

The right way is "don't care".
Don't bother what they do.
Don't bother to control them.
Don't bother with their friends.
Don't listen to their stories.
Don't trust what they tell you.
Don't be angry with them.
Don't need to feel sad for them.
Don't need to plan future.
Don't talk about money.
Last and the least; don't listen to their father dying, mother sick; sisters schooling; house collapsing; dog give birth; uncle getting married........ because all this got nothing to do with "your happiness".

Before I forget....... what they do to you; you return "double". (classic H88 theory)

If you don't understand; you are just one of the 99.99% that don't. Don't need to feel bad.

But most will not listen and take the risk thinking "they got nothing to lose..."

Stupid boy; VBs are the one "that got nothing to lose...... you have everything that they don't have." And when they get hold of what you have; they will never stop..... they will look forward meeting other potential......"better man".

I learn a lot since June 2013. Thanks to H88 whom bring me there to see beautiful Vietnam and bring me to places to see pretty ladies. Past 2 years I have seen people with years of experience in VN; fall hard....... really hard.

Simply because they can do a lot of thing behind your back; and you can never detect it.

in short, dont get to know and dont marry a vb?

[MIFAcafe]

Genius.

Answer of the year.

Knowing and fucking them are totally different from marrying them.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i dont marry a vb?

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by FireShark

I really depend on luck whether Singaporean Man married a good BX. I had saw few of my friends married a good vb but also saw some of them married a Materialistic VB. I also saw some of those VB married to some sporean who don't cherish them. Once I saw a Vb scolding another Vb for snatching her Husband. In the end, both fight and the Sporean Husband just sit there watch the show. sigh.......

saw this n cannot resist to ask..

did that happen in amk?

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Some people have been careful with their life all this while; only to take so much risk thinking of getting into something they don't understand and don't know how to handle.

VBs is a different breed of woman. When I first encounter one; they are lovely creature...... and after a while you will see their dark side.

This thread is full of examples; and yet still people post new story about how they fall in love with a FL.

The correct way to handle a VB; 99% of Singapore men will not be able to do.

Because we are brought up "to care".

The right way is "don't care".
Don't bother what they do.
Don't bother to control them.
Don't bother with their friends.
Don't listen to their stories.
Don't trust what they tell you.
Don't be angry with them.
Don't need to feel sad for them.
Don't need to plan future.
Don't talk about money.
Last and the least; don't listen to their father dying, mother sick; sisters schooling; house collapsing; dog give birth; uncle getting married........ because all this got nothing to do with "your happiness".

Before I forget....... what they do to you; you return "double". (classic H88 theory)

If you don't understand; you are just one of the 99.99% that don't. Don't need to feel bad.

But most will not listen and take the risk thinking "they got nothing to lose..."

Stupid boy; VBs are the one "that got nothing to lose...... you have everything that they don't have." And when they get hold of what you have; they will never stop..... they will look forward meeting other potential......"better man".

I learn a lot since June 2013. Thanks to H88 whom bring me there to see beautiful Vietnam and bring me to places to see pretty ladies. Past 2 years I have seen people with years of experience in VN; fall hard....... really hard.

Simply because they can do a lot of thing behind your back; and you can never detect it.

Didnt know VB is like this....thanks

[iSaigon]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Didnt know VB is like this....thanks

You are 99.99% lor.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Because we are brought up "to care".

The right way is "don't care".
Don't bother what they do.
Don't bother to control them.
Don't bother with their friends.
Don't listen to their stories.
Don't trust what they tell you.
Don't be angry with them.
Don't need to feel sad for them.
Don't need to plan future.
Don't talk about money.
Last and the least; don't listen to their father dying, mother sick; sisters schooling; house collapsing; dog give birth; uncle getting married........ because all this got nothing to do with "your happiness".

I learn a lot since June 2013. Thanks to H88 whom bring me there to see beautiful Vietnam and bring me to places to see pretty ladies. Past 2 years I have seen people with years of experience in VN; fall hard....... really hard.

Simply because they can do a lot of thing behind your back; and you can never detect it.

I agree to certain extend but don't agree all. As I said many times; there are good and bad vb. Me too had saw so many Singapore Man married a VB and went others place steal eat. Some even steal eat their wife's friend. There are also vb who don't cherish their husband. Me too seen to many le. Sometimes I dunno whether who should be blame? sinkie man or vb? Few years ago; my friend marry a pinoy wl due to short gun. Until today; my friend still stay together with the pinoy with 2nd child. Some say pinoys also like vb; full of lies and bullshit but I see every Asia countries sure there are good apples and bad apples. It is a matter of destiny and luck who you meet.

[autoroam]

Originally Posted by mication22

I knew this vietnam girl from ktv. We have sex for the first 3days..... I am going vietnam to look for her this week for 5days. I thinking of marrying her.....

Do agree that alot of SG men married foreign wife(viet,PRC,thai,phi, etc) most with happy ending and some not...

But Bro Mication22 here is asking whether he should marry a KTV(Working) girl, and i don't think she worked as a waitress

[MIFAcafe]

IF everyone thing alike; then no one is thinking ma......


Anyway while I inputing negative views on VBs; I am still going out with them and play. Just that my mindset is always cautious of them. And I have learn not to give second chance.

Give chance sure regret.

And also when any bros came to this thread and ask "should I marry a Viet....?" You should avoid. Because when you ask; you are already confuse.

Sometime hard to distinguish love from sex. When you love to fuck a VB; may not mean you love her. A lot of men confuse sex and love.

Originally Posted by FireShark

I agree to certain extend but don't agree all..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Sometime hard to distinguish love from sex. (when you love to fuck a VB; may not mean you love her. A lot of men confuse sex and love.)

I always prefer the VB love me more than I love her...

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I always prefer the VB love me more than I love her...

how did u manage to get the vb to love u more? that more interesting..

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by FireShark

there are good and bad vb. Me too had saw so many Singapore Man married a VB and went others place steal eat. Some even steal eat their wife's friend. There are also vb who don't cherish their husband.

when a key can open many locks, that is the MASTER KEY.
when a lock can be opened by many keys, that is a SHITTY LOCK

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by eddy72

how did u manage to get the vb to love u more? that more interesting..

see why I mentioned this "I prefer to let VB love me more than I love her..."

dealing with VB as what MIFAcafe had mentioned...you also need to do one thing...let them love you more...

if they love you more they will plan and decide what to do and you just tag along...and enjoy the ride...if VB not interested or no love you...you can plan and decide she will just tag along or fly aeroplane...simply bor hiu...

Note - The above is IMHO...not to upset anyone, please skip if you dun like to read...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

if they love you more they will plan and decide what to do and you just tag along...and enjoy the ride..

have to keep a close eye on their plan
may need many clarifications and fine tuning

[hoian]

I agree with the views below.

When a Singkie man meet a VB is Spore... what do u expect? Why is the VB in Spore in the first place? Use body to make money of course.

That's why I never bother with VBs that i meet in S'pore or M'sia. I prefer to go to VN and meet the VBs there who have no passport, have never traveled outside before. But then again also depends on luck. Best is find a gal who is more crazy abt u than the other way round. And that applies to all nationalities.

Originally Posted by FireShark

I agree to certain extend but don't agree all. As I said many times; there are good and bad vb.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

see why I mentioned this "I prefer to let VB love me more than I love her..."