Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Those were the good old days, younger, more energetic, willing to explore.... now old man, rest n relax mode. Ask me purposely go HCMC visit a ger, I will think 100 times... I rather pay for her to visit me.

Remind me of 10 years ago my first encounter,know a vietnamese family man there,every time ask me to go vietnam visit him,once he bring his whole family to go dine with me,finish ask lim pei pay for his whole family meal,go massage i pay,fine with me since he accompany me,night time bring me to see 2 girls and dine again,thought he is a nice guy,puke puke,he go see her girlfriend,back in sing still keep on calling me,i act blur say cannot hear him

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Remind me of 10 years ago my first encounter,know a vietnamese family man there,every time ask me to go vietnam visit him,once he bring his whole family to go dine with me,finish ask lim pei pay for his whole family meal,go massage i pay,fine with me since he accompany me,night time bring me to see 2 girls and dine again,thought he is a nice guy,puke puke,he go see her girlfriend,back in sing still keep on calling me,i act blur say cannot hear him

We are the guests and they are the hosts but every time end up the guests pay for the dinner, really tulan. When my foreign friends come to Sing, I play host and of course I pay for the dinner.

[volcano]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Just K poh a bit, may I know where you met your bx ?

still need to ask meh

just know each other not long and calling as BX and OX....

[volcano]

Originally Posted by Seletar

We are the guests and they are the hosts but every time end up the guests pay for the dinner, really tulan. When my foreign friends come to Sing, I play host and of course I pay for the dinner.

need to be thick skin in order to survive...

but trust me,if u meet the right person and they treat u as a friend,they will not "eat" u...

some of Vietnamese friends staying in country side earns abt 5-6 million per mth..still have to feed wife and children,but when i go,they will still treat me when having meals and also invite me to their house for meals.they always say that tab is on them when at country side,tab is mine when at Hcmc..but due to their work commitment,they have never visit me in Hcmc for the past 6 years

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Within less than a year,u can advise on all this,either u are damm good in mastering all this or u got a very good si fu,xiao di pei fu pei fu

师傅only got one. Viet nam Con gai nhieu nhieu.

我不会为了一堆“鸡白”放弃师傅。

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by volcano

need to be thick skin in order to survive...

but trust me,if u meet the right person and they treat u as a friend,they will not "eat" u...

some of Vietnamese friends staying in country side earns abt 5-6 million per mth..still have to feed wife and children,but when i go,they will still treat me when having meals and also invite me to their house for meals.they always say that tab is on them when at country side,tab is mine when at Hcmc..but due to their work commitment,they have never visit me in Hcmc for the past 6 years

Yes is true,still got vietnamese who dont take advantage of foreigner,to treat is not a big deal if i compare our earning power to them but to ask whole family to come dine with u and u pay alone is simply taking advantage of this foreigner,to them foreigner is always well off comparw to them and that is how their society think.I dont mean all is like that but in general

[damong777]

Originally Posted by volcano

still need to ask meh

just know each other not long and calling as BX and OX....

ktv...not the best of places to meet...anyway mostly likely could sink faster...

[volcano]

Originally Posted by damong777

ktv...not the best of places to meet...anyway mostly likely could sink faster...

aiyoh...depends lah..

i know many people will say that WL cannot be trusted

well,i do believe that there are also some trust worthy out there..so depends on ur luck lor

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by damong777

ktv...not the best of places to meet...anyway mostly likely could sink faster...

Glad u know not the best plc.. Remember Uncle H88 famous quote though there are good ones around that some bros here have as wife.
WL are still women who eventually will want to settle down but it's a matter of when n is it with u?
Do Evaluate with ur head not by the steamy sex...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by damong777

ktv...not the best of places to meet...anyway mostly likely could sink faster...

So you not going hcm find out truth already?

[damong777]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

So you not going hcm find out truth already?

Not sure yet as she may want to stay in kl longer since their ica is not that strict and can be smooth by kopi money

[MIFAcafe]

If you want to marry a VB; why not travel to VN.

Do not bother with those whom travel oversea to make extra dollar.

When they know how to travel; they already grow horn.

One of the girl I know is a mamasan; she also dare not go to KL.
Your girl is much braver than that mamasan.......

sidenote: while in Singapore; I keep hearing VN girls rejecting men to go LT at coffeeshop and hawker centre. Yet they simply agree to go with me with a simple sms. Some even have "BF"; but the VBs have very strong reason..... "Het Tien Roi".

Originally Posted by damong777

Not sure yet as she may want to stay in kl longer since their ica is not that strict and can be smooth by kopi money

[IAmAwesome]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

When they know how to travel; they already grow horn.

This is 100% true

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by damong777

Not sure yet as she may want to stay in kl longer since their ica is not that strict and can be smooth by kopi money

Like this arh , no need to think n crack your head whether good or no good ... No need even to go HCMC n find out more ... Can just say bye bye Liao ... No need to waste time ! Find another one also better ...

[Kim91]

Be careful not to anyhow let ppl use ur Address/hp/Names to put in white card!!

Slightly b4 cny I got a call from Bedok Police HQ, the IO asked if I know a died vietnamese man n asked me down for investigation... thot might he my wife relative, we went down. Few hours of question, finally led to maybe my ex-gf a Wl passed my address around. Lucky the white card put my old no. n he illegally stay here since 2009. So no case on me. I immediately file police report as well for ppl illegally use my info.

So guys beware!!! Dont anyhow give ur info in white card!