Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1096

Hurricane88 · #**16426** 11-09-2012, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

i think when it comes to XNN, no one can compare to you la. You are the SUPER GRAND MASTER

You put your bx toi So 1, she so good and special, yet you still go out look for extra...... i think she need to give birth to 5 kids to tie you really down .. hihihi

Thanks for saying what I wanted to say...we support each other...

KangTuo · #**16427** 11-09-2012, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

i think when it comes to XNN, no one can compare to you la. You are the SUPER GRAND MASTER

You put your bx toi So 1, she so good and special, yet you still go out look for extra...... i think she need to give birth to 5 kids to tie you really down .. hihihi

5 kids means 5 years time then tie down

its difficult to tie me or should say my little bro down as long as little bro still function.

i dun go out xnn / kc vb roi. just occasionally drop by gl to look for bonk.
if more kids means frequency of dropping by gl is lesser.

Bigkuss · #**16428** 11-09-2012, 10:53 PM

With all due respect to senior bros.
Can advise me?
am 33 single no love life n time.
Planning to marry viet .... via match maker .... promises young n good home maker ....
Can or not ..... pls advise

Bigkuss · #**16429** 11-09-2012, 10:57 PM

Sorry q again ....
Am ok to do initial payment .....
But not regular payment to girls family after marriage .... not so rich liao....

KangTuo · #**16430** 11-09-2012, 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Bigkuss

With all due respect to senior bros.
Can advise me?
am 33 single no love life n time.
Planning to marry viet .... via match maker .... promises young n good home maker ....
Can or not ..... pls advise

can marry.... but also plan to divorce just in case

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Originally Posted by Bigkuss

Sorry q again ....
Am ok to do initial payment .....
But not regular payment to girls family after marriage .... not so rich liao....

usually viet family prefer payment by instalment

deptrai4u · #**16431** 12-09-2012, 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

can marry.... but also plan to divorce just in case

usually viet family prefer payment by instalment

In this case, installment = pay monthly and pay forever and ever. When u marries a Viet, u marry her family, and relatives and in some cases, even the whole fucking kampong!

Greatking · #**16432** 12-09-2012, 01:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigkuss

Sorry q again ....
Am ok to do initial payment .....
But not regular payment to girls family after marriage .... not so rich liao....

There's no one-time payment....

Check with e agency on these matters better.. then have a talk with e one u intending to get wed to...

SingViet · #**16433** 12-09-2012, 06:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigkuss

Sorry q again ....
Am ok to do initial payment .....
But not regular payment to girls family after marriage .... not so rich liao....

The viet gals that come here for marriage thru agency main purpose is to relieve their family's poverty. The viet families believe that if their daughters marry foreigners, there will be a constant flow of income. Its not quite possible that you don't make `regular payment' to the gal's family. Be it a big or small amount, surely there will be monthly payments. This is also the reason why ICA wants to see that the singaporean guy's career is stable with a certain amount of minimum income before they will grant PR to the viet gal. Some viet gals request $200 a month, while others request $500 or even more. It will depend on your communication and understanding with the gal. Besides the monthly payments, sometimes the family will request for other things like buying a motorbike, build house etc. Whether or not you need to pay so much will depend on how well you communicate with your wife and make her realise that life in Singapore is not easy.

SingViet · #**16434** 12-09-2012, 06:26 AM

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Originally Posted by deptrai4u

In this case, installment = pay monthly and pay forever and ever. When u marries a Viet, u marry her family, and relatives and in some cases, even the whole fucking kampong!

Correcto.....

vietboy · #**16435** 12-09-2012, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Bigkuss

With all due respect to senior bros.
Can advise me?
am 33 single no love life n time.
Planning to marry viet .... via match maker .... promises young n good home maker ....
Can or not ..... pls advise

U only 33 still young lah. Why need to go agency? U can follow Hurricane kor kor to vietnam to look for decent gals. Many many for u to choose! Not like agencies only about 10 over...
BTW, u think marriage is so simple? U think marry liao then dun care about her family? Even u married a singaporean gal u also need to give $$ to yur in-laws in one way or another.

U need to know more about vietnamese culture, beliefs, their way of life, their history n their way of thinking if u really want to marry a viet. Marriage is not so simple. If u think so, then like KT said, u may wanna as well also plan divorce.

Hurricane88 · #**16436** 12-09-2012, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

U only 33 still young lah. Why need to go agency? U can follow Hurricane kor kor to vietnam to look for decent gals. Many many for u to choose! Not like agencies only about 10 over...

U need to know more about vietnamese culture, beliefs, their way of life, their history n their way of thinking if u really want to marry a viet. Marriage is not so simple. If u think so, then like KT said, u may wanna as well also plan divorce.

wow tio arrow big time...i dun bring anyone to vietnam to look for decent gals...for me i only help those i am comfortable with and willing to learn...btw i dun operate marriage agency and dun earn money...just a simple person looking to live in hcm after my retirement...

but u ared right to say u need to know the viet culture and accept the culture otherwise u are doomed to failure...haha...for me i may have married and divorced every 6 months if i dun go vietnam regularly....

Hurricane88 · #**16437** 12-09-2012, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by deptrai4u

In this case, installment = pay monthly and pay forever and ever. When u marries a Viet, u marry her family, and relatives and in some cases, even the whole fucking kampong!

haha...u frighten him away..but this is the blatant truth if u dun know viet culture...anyway for me, i need to think and behave more vietnamese than the local vb...still trying to graduate from therer...never seem to do so...

Seletar · #**16438** 12-09-2012, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

U only 33 still young lah. Why need to go agency? U can follow Hurricane kor kor to vietnam to look for decent gals. Many many for u to choose! Not like agencies only about 10 over...
BTW, u think marriage is so simple? U think marry liao then dun care about her family? Even u married a singaporean gal u also need to give $$ to yur in-laws in one way or another.

U need to know more about vietnamese culture, beliefs, their way of life, their history n their way of thinking if u really want to marry a viet. Marriage is not so simple. If u think so, then like KT said, u may wanna as well also plan divorce.

Yes, no need go thru agency,it is waste of money. I'm not boastful, within 3 days, I hooked a decent girl. first 2 days she refused to go out with me, 3rd day I waited her for 4 hours until she finished work. I impressed her. Her heart soften, we went dinner and movie... now still continue r/s.

Honey Boon · #**16439** 12-09-2012, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

usually viet family prefer payment by instalment

i think they prefer both mode

Honey Boon · #**16440** 12-09-2012, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Seletar

Yes, no need go thru agency,it is waste of money. I'm not boastful, within 3 days, I hooked a decent girl. first 2 days she refused to go out with me, 3rd day I waited her for 4 hours until she finished work. I impressed her. Her heart soften, we went dinner and movie... now still continue r/s.

your decent girls pretty or not?