tell me abt it. One freelance housewife wants my pic b4 meeting me even im gona pay her 300 bucks! Wat is the world coming to!!!?? Pay $ stil must let them choose!
Bro, actually she just wants to verify that you are not someone living in her neighbourhood. These PDMM wants to keep their sideline job discreet, perhaps to spare their kids being shamed in school.
Money talks - but not all the time. Be more positive - a lot to do with chemistry; cannot explain why - a lot of time. Look around & U can see quite a number of (unexplainable) married couples!! Do not think you are ugly. U just need to slim down. By the way; were U in Geylang on 3rd March ?
U are young; 35 ? Slim down/try to get GF. Move away from Pat, Kiko etc - just no chemistry (blame fate). Geylang is definitely a better bet. Awaiting your FR on L20H36. Happy for U - congrats good experience & greater confidence. Cheers.
i was in geylang sometime early mar. u mean u can recognise me??!! my identity is disclosed already. lol. maybe not me la. anyway i was there for food only. i stop gl and pt for sometime liao. now want to lose weight first. how u know i 35? scary leh...
i was in geylang sometime early mar. u mean u can recognise me??!! my identity is disclosed already. lol. maybe not me la. anyway i was there for food only. i stop gl and pt for sometime liao. now want to lose weight first. how u know i 35? scary leh...
Got spies everywhere. HaHa!! Indeed losing weight is top priority - cannot spot you then!!
Aiya what the big fuss bro, maybe she just have a cum in mouth with seafood smell and she don't want spoilt your mood by frenching you....
Yup Agreed with above statement. Sometime frenching is kinda personal. Although good looks does help, but sometime just depending on the mood for the opposite sex ler. Especially in this field, most girls would allow kissing (but some just not kiss). I think some sweet and smooth talking and somewhat dirty talk (dont over do it) does really help, especially trying to get french her.
Let me demostrate what I mean. I was having a few major acne (big motherfucking pimple, i shit u not) beside my nose last week and it look really gross, and to be honest, if I am a girl, and I see that pimple I wont even want to kiss me. But I went cheong in HK last Fri and Sat (with that big pimple near my nose), and gone to this club (in hope to get lucky and I did ). I talked to this SYT (I assume she is like 20yo) and with some smooth talking, abit cock talkng and abit of champagne with her, I scored, and not only i get to french her but I get to do her as well. So I think smooth yet abit funny talk with a ladies open a new door for opportunity with them. To women, feeling does make a lot of different especially in sex. Just my 2 cent guys
Yup Agreed with above statement. Sometime frenching is kinda personal. Although good looks does help, but sometime just depending on the mood for the opposite sex ler. Especially in this field, most girls would allow kissing (but some just not kiss). I think some sweet and smooth talking and somewhat dirty talk (dont over do it) does really help, especially trying to get french her.
Let me demostrate what I mean. I was having a few major acne (big motherfucking pimple, i shit u not) beside my nose last week and it look really gross, and to be honest, if I am a girl, and I see that pimple I wont even want to kiss me. But I went cheong in HK last Fri and Sat (with that big pimple near my nose), and gone to this club (in hope to get lucky and I did ). I talked to this SYT (I assume she is like 20yo) and with some smooth talking, abit cock talkng and abit of champagne with her, I scored, and not only i get to french her but I get to do her as well. So I think smooth yet abit funny talk with a ladies open a new door for opportunity with them. To women, feeling does make a lot of different especially in sex. Just my 2 cent guys
i guess its time for me to say that 'u r handsome' thing again. for eg, even if andy lau got big pimple i guess gals would do him too. lol. smooth talk works only for average to good-looking guys. for ugly men when we smooth talk, gals get frustrated unless they r ur friends. i read somewhere that gals get offended when ugly men approach them because that means the ugly men believe that they are same same. i dun believe at first so i try to talk to gals(only 2,3 times) in pub, they give me the funny look and reply in one word when i talk. for gals looking for fun, looks (at least ok-looking) is basic. put normal gals aside, i tried to smooth talk and be funny to wl but all i get most of the time is blank look or false laughter. only when i sincere and tell them that i am sad because of my looks, at least got wl willing to french me be it pity or got to pay more....of course diff thing work for diff bros. imagine a ugly and fat guy play lead actor as a casanova getting the hot gals by smooth talking, will it even be convincing??
if u can pick up syt in a club u are at least slightly above average-looking. when i try i am not trying to be grumpy and i already 'see open' liao. for first time in my life, i now have a good female friend (quite chio too bad she married to my good friend) who is very nice to me and told me many things. she said jokingly that with my looks, no way to get lucky with pretty/ok-looking gals. she confessed she a bit dislike me at first due to my looks. she said i not only look fat and ugly (she use the word bad-looking in chinese), i look a bit pervert and my jokes are stupid. maybe looking pervert is worse than anything else. wtf. but she say when she know me better, i am actually very likeable. i very high man. when i now try to joke with her, she always laugh and ever said she want to bring me home to make her happy everyday (in front of my friend some more!) until i scared my friend jealous. i a bit sad with my looks but glad at last i know how there are nice gals out there who dun dislike me due to my looks. maybe its because of my friend tats y she nice to me but still feel good to be liked by a gal (even though not that kind of course) which seldom happen to me she said women care about first impression rather than good looks alone.
bro, i must say my reply is not to oppose you or what. just my personal views and exp. its not true that most wls do frenching. tat is something personal and extra. it not like bj,ar and fj which is in the package. we all know how hard it is to kiss a fat ugly gal. we wun even try! to all good-looking bros here, you may not know its a blessing to have gd looks. you may even think frenching is sop. ugly bros may not want to join in the discussion as they may already feel very hurt. we can also see from the FRs that not all bros get frenching. in fact, i believe those that are in forum are at least not very old and very dirty-looking type. i dun think most wl will french old men who are late 50s or even older. after saying all these, i do observe many young and handsome or ok-looking bros in PT since GL wls come. i believe frenching is mainly provided to bros of that group or regulars. sorry tat i write so long. anyway i stop PT already so wun have comments on wls in PT anymore for the timr being...
I don't really think, good looks got anything in commercial SEX. Of course, covered with lumps, well? Somehow i think, this man could take a girl in RLD. We don't see it is because the girls don't want passingby to see this.
Maybe? There are times along the 2rolls of rooms, some WLs gave me the sad looks. I am not sure is real, which i think is not, somehow this sad looking WLs are desperate to close deals.
Walk in asked, till now i have not done so, i have fair share of frenching from non frenching WLs. I got it from them, 2 i can think of now are, H22 Sally and H7 Pauline. They are $30 girls and, i upgraded to $50.
Oh Julie too, i think 3 times we kissed for only $30, no upgrading that was more than 2 yrs allreally. If there is next time? I am not sure if i maintain $30, will Juile give me?
Still i think is the $50, not the looks u see brothers she could take our pricks in her mouth. I don't see why she cannot take my mouth, maybe she just don't want? Or the $ is too little?
thanks bro! u r very nice most wls dun really see inner self one. its a fact most prefer handsome/ ok-looking customer. sometime back, i ask one prc wl to french me and she say i got to pay her more because i not handsome and its for her to compensate her soul being hurt. i thought she joking or wat since she very friendly to me and very slutty. when i pay the usual amount she say must pay $20 for kissing so i lan lan pay lor. finding it a bit strange, i ask my handsome friend (casanova type) to try her see whether same thing happen. but u know wat? she offered very good service at discount, keep saying my friend handsome and big cock!! nowsaday, looks do matter even to a prc whore (hate to use this word but i damned pissed off)! last time not like tat one leh...
but something good happened yesterday. got one wl told me i not ugly because i got good heart. she say although i fat and not so good-looking but i m nice to her and say she like me !! although think she trying to console me but still feel good when she frenched me for 5 min!! i felt more confident now thanks to her and everyone.
Gotcha bro. Jason Wong, There u go, cheers buddy. Glad for u.
... if u can pick up syt in a club u are at least slightly above average-looking. when i try i am not trying to be grumpy and i already 'see open' liao. for first time in my life, i now have a good female friend (quite chio too bad she married to my good friend) who is very nice to me and told me many things. she said jokingly that with my looks, no way to get lucky with pretty/ok-looking gals. she confessed she a bit dislike me at first due to my looks. she said i not only look fat and ugly (she use the word bad-looking in chinese), i look a bit pervert and my jokes are stupid. maybe looking pervert is worse than anything else. wtf. .... i a bit sad with my looks but glad at last i know how there are nice gals out there who dun dislike me due to my looks. maybe its because of my friend tats y she nice to me but still feel good to be liked by a gal (even though not that kind of course) which seldom happen to me she said women care about first impression rather than good looks alone.
Bro Cheer up. Truly sorry to hear what you been through. Can't say I dont understand how you feel man. FYI, I am not above average looking, in fact I am below average. My GF always tease me on how ugly I look and why she still with me..well since young my mom always saids I am ugly duckling. Only thing is I learn to overcome my own insecurity later in life. Just have a bit of confident in urself plus with a lot of hardwork. Dont know how to say this, but everything does take abit of effort.
I am sure there uber quality in you, and like a sleeping dragon, you are not fully awaken yet. Find that quality, enhance it, and with alot of hard work, I am sure you make a fine and extraordinary gentleman. You yet to see really ugly guys with really nice looking girls (but I am sure you have).. and like you said it yourself, your nice female friend likes you, not because how you look, but how you behave and talk to them right? Dont give up man!
Fact is not all WL will kiss you eventhough u look like Andy Lau. Some girls just dont like the idea of stranger kissing them, thats all.
Bro Cheer up. Truly sorry to hear what you been through. Can't say I dont understand how you feel man. FYI, I am not above average looking, in fact I am below average. My GF always tease me on how ugly I look and why she still with me..well since young my mom always saids I am ugly duckling. Only thing is I learn to overcome my own insecurity later in life. Just have a bit of confident in urself plus with a lot of hardwork. Dont know how to say this, but everything does take abit of effort.
I am sure there uber quality in you, and like a sleeping dragon, you are not fully awaken yet. Find that quality, enhance it, and with alot of hard work, I am sure you make a fine and extraordinary gentleman. You yet to see really ugly guys with really nice looking girls (but I am sure you have).. and like you said it yourself, your nice female friend likes you, not because how you look, but how you behave and talk to them right? Dont give up man!
Fact is not all WL will kiss you eventhough u look like Andy Lau. Some girls just dont like the idea of stranger kissing them, thats all.
thanks for the encouragement. like wat i said, maybe its my 'pervert' look besides my ugly looks tat really make gals dislike. but never mind la, i used to it liao. just had dinner alone with my female buddy (same friend) tonight since my buddy overseas for work for 1 week and she say she very sian. first time go out with gal alone and for so long. we have so many things to talk until dun feel like going home. but we got to work tomorrow so i just send her home. just before she come out from my car, she suddenly kiss me goodnight on my cheek. i was really shocked!! she den say " just a friendly kiss only dun think too much" i saw her giggle and walked away very quickly after that. i dunno what she thinking as i never dated before or even have close female friend. is it just friendly or she likes me? i think not possible she like me since my buddy so handsome and everything better than me. but fuck, i think i am falling for her. she is so chio and so nice. i want her! i know tat i am a bastard to think of tat. i guess better stop seeing her alone. want to be friends wif gals also problem now... start to think man and woman cannot be pure friend one. think its not proper to post here but need to tell someone who dun know me!
thanks for the encouragement. like wat i said, maybe its my 'pervert' look besides my ugly looks tat really make gals dislike. but never mind la, i used to it liao. just had dinner alone with my female buddy (same friend) tonight since my buddy overseas for work for 1 week and she say she very sian. first time go out with gal alone and for so long. we have so many things to talk until dun feel like going home. but we got to work tomorrow so i just send her home. just before she come out from my car, she suddenly kiss me goodnight on my cheek. i was really shocked!! she den say " just a friendly kiss only dun think too much" i saw her giggle and walked away very quickly after that. i dunno what she thinking as i never dated before or even have close female friend. is it just friendly or she likes me? i think not possible she like me since my buddy so handsome and everything better than me. but fuck, i think i am falling for her. she is so chio and so nice. i want her! i know tat i am a bastard to think of tat. i guess better stop seeing her alone. want to be friends wif gals also problem now... start to think man and woman cannot be pure friend one. think its not proper to post here but need to tell someone who dun know me!
ya you better stop thinking like that or else one day she sense that you wanted something else she willl avoid you.... same happens to me...
thanks for the encouragement. like wat i said, maybe its my 'pervert' look besides my ugly looks tat really make gals dislike. but never mind la, i used to it liao. just had dinner alone with my female buddy (same friend) tonight since my buddy overseas for work for 1 week and she say she very sian. first time go out with gal alone and for so long. we have so many things to talk until dun feel like going home. but we got to work tomorrow so i just send her home. just before she come out from my car, she suddenly kiss me goodnight on my cheek. i was really shocked!! she den say " just a friendly kiss only dun think too much" i saw her giggle and walked away very quickly after that. i dunno what she thinking as i never dated before or even have close female friend. is it just friendly or she likes me? i think not possible she like me since my buddy so handsome and everything better than me. but fuck, i think i am falling for her. she is so chio and so nice. i want her! i know tat i am a bastard to think of tat. i guess better stop seeing her alone. want to be friends wif gals also problem now... start to think man and woman cannot be pure friend one. think its not proper to post here but need to tell someone who dun know me!
No Bro!!! Please lah, don't destroy friendship. Think of her as a sister. She already told you "just a friendly kiss only dun think too much", so don't! Girls are like that, so don't be foolish to fall for it!
If you want to continue having friendship with her (and those kiss on the cheek), then be a friend and not fall for your friend's wife because it ain't right! You want her?! Hahaha!!! What makes you think that she wants you? You want to be heartbroken is it? To be humiliated and to be embarassed? Just think of it. You mean that one kiss, that stunt she pulled on you means something? Please Bro, don't go there. Because it means nothing to her! And it should do the same for you, it means nothing!
Next time you go out with her, act normal, but with confidence this time. See and treat her as a best friend / sister. If your eyes accidentally lock with hers, be present-minded enough to look away and start a new topic of discussion.
... suddenly kiss me goodnight on my cheek...say " just a friendly kiss only dun think too much" ...my buddy so handsome and everything better than me. ... think i am falling for her. she is so chio and so nice. i want her! i know tat i am a bastard to think of tat. .
Good advices from MaMister & austin69. Anyway, good to have built up your confidence. As I mentioned before, slim down and try to get GF (singles). Your friend's wife is probably trying to be nice to help U build up confidence. She could also be lonely because of your friend's absence and just like some company. Do not read too much into this.
Life is a lot to do with chemistry and fate. There are husbands who stray with wives more beautiful than their girlfriends/mistresses. Can't explain why.
Move on. Be positive. Slim down and try to get a GF. Cheers.
Good advices from MaMister & austin69. Anyway, good to have built up your confidence. As I mentioned before, slim down and try to get GF (singles). Your friend's wife is probably trying to be nice to help U build up confidence. She could also be lonely because of your friend's absence and just like some company. Do not read too much into this.
Life is a lot to do with chemistry and fate. There are husbands who stray with wives more beautiful than their girlfriends/mistresses. Can't explain why.
Move on. Be positive. Slim down and try to get a GF. Cheers.
thank you all bros for advice. although i like her a lot, guess i must wake up and i dun want to lose 2 friends at one go. she ask me out again today but i bluff her got something on even though i nothing to do and i want to see her. she sounded like disappointed but guess its because she is sian without her hubby around. they are very close and just married not long ago. now i very sian and i regret i bluff her but i also scared if i see her, things will be awkward. i dunno how to face her anymore. next time when my buddy return dunno whether he can tell i like his wife or not? can any bro advice me wat to do? understand that this is PT forum not a good place to ask such things but only u guys are genuine.
thank you all bros for advice. although i like her a lot, guess i must wake up and i dun want to lose 2 friends at one go. she ask me out again today but i bluff her got something on even though i nothing to do and i want to see her. she sounded like disappointed but guess its because she is sian without her hubby around. they are very close and just married not long ago. now i very sian and i regret i bluff her but i also scared if i see her, things will be awkward. i dunno how to face her anymore. next time when my buddy return dunno whether he can tell i like his wife or not? can any bro advice me wat to do? understand that this is PT forum not a good place to ask such things but only u guys are genuine.
Bro, of course you can see her again, but as a friend or sister lah. Never feel awkward. Why? Because there's no reason to, right? She see's you as a friend so just return the favour.
What you did was right, IMHO. Give it a rest since you just saw her last night. Maybe next time, then go see each other, with or without her husband, but again, no awkwardness ok. She's your friend for God's sakes. At the end of the night if she still feels like giving you a peck on the cheek, so be it, by all means let her and don't move away or she will be embarassed and you may loose her friendship. If you keep carrying on as friends, the better, just don't fall for her and make a fool of yourself. Enjoy what you have for now, enjoy the friendship that she is offering.