Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

just seen 1 yesterday... he use money bribe all the way to locate his gal way here in sillypore

U seen her been dragged into taxi, then go hotel or u heard??

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U seen her been dragged into taxi, then go hotel or u heard??

i saw him here in sillypore airport... my bx saw him drag her friend into taxi.
i saw bruises on the vb face and neck at night...

she cant be cooking up story about ks incident..
my bx cant be cooking up stories as well

Money work in vn... he search for this vb for 2weeks and give money to my bx bro daily... also meet and give money to few vb in vn to find info... in vn still can find all the way to sillypore

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by marcopit

Hi All Samster,

im totally lost, maybe i kanna KT oready. I wanna purpose to my gf next month when i go HCM, i just know her for abt 3mths, she work in KTV in sg abt 4mths, 3rd time here in sg.

The last time she is here she stay with me & family, i understand that she required to earn money and entertain customers. I only earning abt $2-$2.5K/mth but with bank bad debt abt $150K.

She knows abt my financial difficulty, but she willing to accept me as who am i. Honestly speaking i don wanna her to continue working in KTV, but i feel sad as i cant support her family needs, she told me abt SGD1500 required.

Im very snook by her family requirement which abt 3/4 of my salary. 1 thing i wanna all bros here to advise/feedback if u think she truthful in our relation & if i should continue with this relation.

1) she will tell me that she going out with customers but never tell her customers that she got a bf.


2) she told me she go to hotel with customers only when she 1st time here for 2mths but not now.

3) she never request any money from me since the 1st time we met till now.

Please all, im about of my mind now, all advise/feedback/comments are most welcome. I need enlightenment

My advise to u is to be a bastard.Tell her u cannot give her 1.5k every month.See what she will do after u tell her

3 things will happen:

no.1-she leave u and u have to come and say thank u to me
no.2-she reduce the price,then u have to come here to seek advise again
no.3-she say is ok,she understand,she will still want to stay with u and marry u

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

My advise to u is to be a bastard.Tell her u cannot give her 1.5k every month.See what she will do after u tell her

3 things will happen:

no.1-she leave u and u have to come and say thank u to me
no.2-she reduce the price,then u have to come here to seek advise again
no.3-she say is ok,she understand,she will still want to stay with u and marry u

THat's True .. Sometimes we have to play games ...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by marcopit

Thanks Naemlo, Elth & Shysaint for your advise & comments.

100% confirm chop & sign i cant affort $1500 every month to her family, maybe her family think every trip back from sg their daughter give this amount to them.

I think her parents oso asking too much, it like they are taking their own daughter as a money tree/commodity.

They stay in rural area of Mekong Delta, therefore i oso find that with $1500, i can spend a comfortable life for 2-3mths over there. Maybe i never been Vietnam before so do corect me if im wrong.

Maybe i get it wrong,is she say she need 1.5k for her family and not she ask u

If u know u cant afford,then let go lah,why make your life so diffcult.Vietnam culture not normal sg ppl can fully understand one leh,apply to me too

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

talk of the house now... all vb keep talking about the incident

I also wan to listen more of this story.... Tonight meet at pub???

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

THat's True .. Sometimes we have to play games ...

I play that bastard role before

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jackbl

I also wan to listen more of this story.... Tonight meet at pub???

Euro Cup Final hor ....

[marcopit]

Originally Posted by Golden question

My advise to u is to be a bastard.Tell her u cannot give her 1.5k every month.See what she will do after u tell her

3 things will happen:

no.1-she leave u and u have to come and say thank u to me
no.2-she reduce the price,then u have to come here to seek advise again
no.3-she say is ok,she understand,she will still want to stay with u and marry u

Thanks Golden question for your advise, she choose No.3, that is why im flying to meet her parents next week.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

I also wan to listen more of this story.... Tonight meet at pub???

these dayz i no tell night time stories...
i only tell noon / evening time stories at HMB

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by marcopit

Thanks Golden question for your advise, she choose No.3, that is why im flying to meet her parents next week.

Are u sure

Bro,i worry for u leh

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by marcopit

Thanks Golden question for your advise, she choose No.3, that is why im flying to meet her parents next week.

Originally Posted by Golden question

Are u sure

Bro,i worry for u leh

why worry?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i saw him here in sillypore airport... my bx saw him drag her friend into taxi.
i saw bruises on the vb face and neck at night...

she cant be cooking up story about ks incident..
my bx cant be cooking up stories as well

I dun doubt your story related from her or anyone. I just pity her with bruises.... she needs a lot of TLC, pls help me give a bit. Tell your bx u are helping a friend on this.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Are u sure

Bro,i worry for u leh

Originally Posted by KangTuo

why worry?

Another wedding, good to hear that

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by naemlo

she needs a lot of TLC, pls help me give a bit.

TLC???
twa lan ciao (jiao)???