Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by jf66312

i think the only way is to slowly educate her....

my bx also dun gamble but when she went few times with her frens to casino and saw easy money, she was hooked for a while...

but there was once she lost quite a bit , and when she came home , she stayed donwstairs didn dare to come up ...so i went down to bring her back ,ask her how much she lost , settled for her then from then on she stopped going... painful lesson learnt...

My bx was also tempting going to the casino, request me to bring her in on several occasion as she dare not to go alone. She even willing to pay for my $100 levy, however after thinking twice, I responded with a straight NO even though she told me go in see see look look only, how to trust on these.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Blast88

Saying is always easy, however to a punter psychology the more she lost, the more eager she want to recover back. Furthermore, the 4D shop is directly downstair & she will definitely pass by when she go market, how to reject the temptationJust wondering bro out there got any brilliant idea to stop this

The 4D shop also directly below my flat. It all depends on individual, how they can withstand the temptation.

1 very 绝 idea: control her spendings. But i wont recommend this unless no choice.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

2. simple things like peel the prawns and feed the hubbies

Why is it that it is me that peel prawns n feed my bx?

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by teletubbie

haha...sort of.....

Sort of what??
U suddenly pop out of no where with this..

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

I am mix blood ler.. .

Mixed which blood with which blood?
Vietnamese n sing?
U grew up here?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by teletubbie

haha...sort of.....

Originally Posted by vietboy

Sort of what??
U suddenly pop out of no where with this..

teletubbie answer to my post lah... i ask if he in relationship with another vb mah

you never see his thread on something like "relationship witha viet gal" meh.. posted last year and got interesting photos

now he ask about price of a motor, so i guess he buying a motor for a new relation lor...
waiting for more photos liao...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

1. VBs will ensure hubbies eat first and the best food...before they eat
2. simple things like peel the prawns and feed the hubbies
3. take care of hubbies when they are ill..
4. looked after all the family members...
5. conscientious, diligent and persevere are some of the traits...
6. looked after babies...

i totally agree.... its all happening to me now...
except point number 6 as babies yet to come.

Originally Posted by vietboy

Why is it that it is me that peel prawns n feed my bx?

you pampered your bx too much... you do house chores some more...
no chance of turning back now

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

teletubbie answer to my post lah... i ask if he in relationship with another vb mah

That was a couple of days ago. Somemore he no quote how ppl know he answering to yur question?

Originally Posted by KangTuo

you never see his thread on something like "relationship witha viet gal" meh.. posted last year and got interesting photos

now he ask about price of a motor, so i guess he buying a motor for a new relation lor...
waiting for more photos liao...

Got pics meh? How come i cannot see any??

He into a bad experience b4 still didnt 学乖 ha? Still wanna dump $$ into saigon river? Give it to me lah, i help him donate to charity 积德.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

you pampered your bx too much... you do house chores some more...
no chance of turning back now

share do the hse chores ma. I'm part of the family too, have to contribute some how or rather. Actually, i only help her vacuum the floor.
For me, i didnt think i marry a wife to be maid. I agree i sometimes pampered my wife but i know when to be firm.

Turn back? Just married wanna think of turning back liao ha?
Once insert yur ring finger into the metal hole, no turn back liao.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Blast88

My Bx when 1st came singapore was also against gambling, however under my mum influence & of course some time me & slowly she begin to look into this game how we play, in fact she strike S$4K somewhere last year & that was only her 3rd attempt of buying (& you have to believe in beginner luck), that started the whole habit.. Occasionally, I also bet on soccer & she now learning from me how to see the odd & with Euro2012 just around the corner, I think I have to keep an eye on her.

Bet a bit is ok ... occasionally is ok ... me too for now ...

Previously , My every week football bets amounts to a total of about $3-$4 k .... Win happy .. lose sell underwear also cannot cover ..

Based on my own experiences and experiences of my friends ... Just be careful ...

If you tend to understand Vietnamese cultures , once they (not all but some) are hook .. its difficult to them NOT gamble anymore ... otherwise they is no so much illegal money ledning activities liao

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

Just to check with experienced samster here.

If i go viet nam for 2 night 1,5 day. How much money must i change?

No KTV or visiting girls, just normal eating. (good food that are not expensive.) and some shopping. Staying at 3 star cheap hotel.

No need to worry about how much tochange ... if not enough then change at Vietnam , if you are in benh thanh market then no problem ...

I dunno what u want to shop , how to advise ..

Bring 200-400 .... CHange 50 at airport , change another 100 at benh thanh ... not enough than change again

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by vietboy

When my bx used to buy, i only allow $4 most for a set.

U also bad influence .... my bx IF got buy only buy $1

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by ReferencePoint

When a love one start to gamble, its really downhill all the way. Seen too many sad stories.

Yes, it true .... I am some % in these road before .. I can understand ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

I think I am crazy, what do members here think?

For a start ... u can be my sugar mummy .... and see how it goes

Or I dun mind u be my Part time ban gai ...

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by vietboy

share do the hse chores ma. I'm part of the family too, have to contribute some how or rather. Actually, i only help her vacuum the floor.
For me, i didnt think i marry a wife to be maid. I agree i sometimes pampered my wife but i know when to be firm.

Turn back? Just married wanna think of turning back liao ha?
Once insert yur ring finger into the metal hole, no turn back liao.

I agreed with bro VB, house chores need to be share & especially when your bx is looking after your little oc & doing house chores at the same time, I can imagine how tiring is she, some time while watching tv together with me at nite, she can just simply knock out & this scenario make me heart pain. For these, everytime I will try to compromise whatever she want to do.