Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 92

naemlo · #**1366** 09-04-2007, 12:26 PM

Whose ba xa, em yeu, ban gai is coming to SG these few days? I need your help.

Intel Ops · #**1367** 09-04-2007, 04:40 PM

Is it typically for Viet girl to blow hot and cold at times ? As in sometimes i wanna talk to her but she is like not interested then at time she is so loving and talkative. Hmm.

Any bros can comment ?

chanyboy · #**1368** 09-04-2007, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Cai gi? Anh la mot cau be tot.

wah piang...I better learn fast. Now got to check dictionary before I can answer Naem..

Sha_Gua75 · #**1369** 09-04-2007, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Intel Ops

Is it typically for Viet girl to blow hot and cold at times ? As in sometimes i wanna talk to her but she is like not interested then at time she is so loving and talkative. Hmm.

Any bros can comment ?

WL is normal....dont blow hot and cold...where got time entertain a few guys at the same time

Sha_Gua75 · #**1370** 09-04-2007, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Whose ba xa, em yeu, ban gai is coming to SG these few days? I need your help.

Du ma...you post everywhere asking ha?

naemlo · #**1371** 10-04-2007, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Du ma...you post everywhere asking ha?

Dun bother I bought my mobile for her....

KangTuo · #**1372** 10-04-2007, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Intel Ops

Is it typically for Viet girl to blow hot and cold at times ? As in sometimes i wanna talk to her but she is like not interested then at time she is so loving and talkative. Hmm.

Do be careful bro... if any gal(not only viet gal) blow hot and cold.
If do not show interest = do not need your help/money
If show interest = need your help/money urgently

When a gal love you... they will always show interest. They will only be cold towards you if only you make the gal angry.

Intel Ops · #**1373** 10-04-2007, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

WL is normal....dont blow hot and cold...where got time entertain a few guys at the same time

How about non WL ? cos she not one.

Just wanna understand their ways of thinking and culture better.
Hoping to learn something.

oldcar · #**1374** 10-04-2007, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

It is their culture...but then nothing wrong for you to carry for her...she will love u more if u do that becos VN guy dont do that for them....so a simple thing like carrying thing for her mean alot to them

Not really, if I put food in her bowl or help with doing the prawn she will angry with me.

It their up bring, it take time to change.

Niceman · #**1375** 10-04-2007, 04:54 PM

I think is Culture.... for them, still believe in Man Rules. if man peel prawns for woman, is a sign of weakling.

When i told my PRC gf, saying I like prawns, but wont eat cos i hate peel prawns. Immediately, she stood up, got prawns, cooked, peeled and put in my bowl. hehe.....

For Sg?? maybe during courtship time. Later, she ask u DIY liao.... dun peel, suat.... dun eat lor

gremio82 · #**1376** 10-04-2007, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Intel Ops

How about non WL ? cos she not one.

Just wanna understand their ways of thinking and culture better.
Hoping to learn something.

Me also kenna hot and cold treatment even till now... Lesson learnt... When she sound or seemed fed up or bored, end the conversation or fade away from her as soon as possible, unless u are trying to start another round of vietnam war.

Sha_Gua75 · #**1377** 10-04-2007, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Intel Ops

How about non WL ? cos she not one.

Just wanna understand their ways of thinking and culture better.
Hoping to learn something.

you gf? I think maybe you will stand a chance...try lor...no harm except broken heart...my current gf also blow hot and cold with me when I 1st know her

Sha_Gua75 · #**1378** 10-04-2007, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by oldcar

Not really, if I put food in her bowl or help with doing the prawn she will angry with me.

It their up bring, it take time to change.

They angry but inside their heart they like it....who doesnt like to be serve? peel a few time then u know...just tell her...u peel becos love for her...

Sha_Gua75 · #**1379** 10-04-2007, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Niceman

I think is Culture.... for them, still believe in Man Rules. if man peel prawns for woman, is a sign of weakling.

When i told my PRC gf, saying I like prawns, but wont eat cos i hate peel prawns. Immediately, she stood up, got prawns, cooked, peeled and put in my bowl. hehe.....

For Sg?? maybe during courtship time. Later, she ask u DIY liao.... dun peel, suat.... dun eat lor

I dont think peeling prawn is sign of weakling leh...it just one of the way to show u love her beside lam tinh

Sha_Gua75 · #**1380** 10-04-2007, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by gremio82

Me also kenna hot and cold treatment even till now... Lesson learnt... When she sound or seemed fed up or bored, end the conversation or fade away from her as soon as possible, unless u are trying to start another round of vietnam war.

if she angry I think better dont talk to her or explain anything...worse still agrue with her....stay away like what u say...you wont wait long before you can talk to her again without her being angry...or you wont wait long before she talk to u herself...