Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Took 30 to 40 mins to clear immigration!

wa ... u clear which immigration .. got so long meh .....

I think u hook up with some VBs lah

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by elth

I know 1 VB that her mum know that she work KTV and still force her back cos her mum know she can earn more tien to pay off her gambling debts

I know some whole villages of vnmese families send their daughters to work as ktv girls because the so-called agent told them their daughters only do simple tasks like serve drinks, chit chat, sing karaoke etc with customer but not going out for ST/LT session with customers. The money is so good that they choose to believe it because they are simply too poor, perhaps they give it a blind eye as long their daughters send money back to them. Only those families who are better off than the average are spared and chose to marry their daughters off as soon they turn 19-21 which are the ages just ripe enough for them to get married in their perspective, so to speak. Their average is likely to include those who are in debt, poverty striken etc.

Just like you narrated, once they know there is fast way to get money they will start to spend extraordinarily and gamble like tomorrow never comes. And their attitude changes as if they are very rich. Most probably they will start to show off by buying new motorbikes, renovating their houses, installing big speakers at home etc. Once they are short of money they will ask the daughter to go work again until their daughters are barred from entering the desired destination. At this point of time, probably they will resume their low profile and previous life. However, the cycle is vicious.

The problem probably lies with their culture and mindset. You just can't let them know there is a fast way to earn money, else the demons in their will be released, once again.

Just my 2c.

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Theres a lot similar cases, cos it not them who r working ma so they think its ……
Everytime my bx waiting 4 me outside TSN will always ask: "what took u so long? Ur plane landed more than half hr ago."

Got so long meh? The only I took so long is bcuz I chose to pang sai inside the airport toilet bcuz outside toilet dirty heheh...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by vietboy

I believed her family doesnt know she working as over here in sgp. they think she work good job can earn alot very fast. But if they dun know nvr made known

The whole family know she work as a WL in vn, malaysia and sillypore.
She market herself online (yahoo chat room) as a WL. All her friends know what she is working as.

Before coming to sillypore, she is under an OKT in penang for 3+ years. Went to malaysia at age 17 and never go back vn till early this year when her mum was very sick.
I went to her house before. Living condition in the province looks like those middle class in HCMC. The whole family have no debts after moving to province and they just spend what she earn.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by shysaint

wa ... u clear which immigration .. got so long meh .....

I think u hook up with some VBs lah

Shit! Kenna caught! Damn! But hey how u know? U also do that right?

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

Got so long meh? The only I took so long is bcuz I chose to pang sai inside the airport toilet bcuz outside toilet dirty heheh...

Have loh, when a few flights landed at same time. Dun know why i always kenna tat when i go there.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

The whole family know she work as a WL in vn, malaysia and sillypore.
She market herself online (yahoo chat room) as a WL. All her friends know what she is working as.

Before coming to sillypore, she is under an OKT in penang for 3+ years. Went to malaysia at age 17 and never go back vn till early this year when her mum was very sick.
I went to her house before. Living condition in the province looks like those middle class in HCMC. The whole family have no debts after moving to province and they just spend what she earn.

She just need someone to pull her out. But suay suay tu diuo le... Haiz

[V|ernar]

he busy talking to VB.. that why clear so slow

[lasupkia]

Usually if u arrive at 12 noon, there's many other flights arriving at that time. So there's long queue at immigration. Bags also take longer to come out.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

Your para going back soon isn't it ?

Yes... Less than 2weeks time. But she did ask me help her apply.
I doubt it will be extented.

Originally Posted by vietboy

She just need someone to pull her out. But suay suay tu diuo le... Haiz

What suay suay meet me. She Heng Heng meet me leh... I contributed quite a sum to her roi though not enough to feed her family.
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[Golden question]

Originally Posted by V|ernar

he busy talking to VB.. that why clear so slow

My eye will always 'grow bigger' once i reach their airport and only return to normal once back to sg haha

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

Got so long meh? The only I took so long is bcuz I chose to pang sai inside the airport toilet bcuz outside toilet dirty heheh...

i also,clear everything at airport first and also before going out.Their public toliet was 'WOW'.Remember once went to one of those market toliet,eye opener siah

[V|ernar]

money do wonder in singapore also . extend ? not quite a problem .. but problem is .. when you chia tay her roi , anh so em se tim anh khong ?

[V|ernar]

i die also wont use their normal toliet to pang sai ~

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by vietboy

She just need someone to pull her out. But suay suay tu diuo le... Haiz

sometime is really need a kind soul to pull them out.
Recently one of my wife friend who a PR and working (not WL)told my wife she send back a lot of her monthly salary back to her mom but always finish fast.Now her mom want to start a small business and ask from her to start.

My wife told her,she should think for herself.Dont always send her salary back and left with nothing.Save some money here for her future cos ppl back in vietnam dont know how to use money.Have they spend,finish then come open mouth and ask.She listen to her and save some for herself

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Shit! Kenna caught! Damn! But hey how u know? U also do that right?

ME not as fortunate as you