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its very difficult to understand what you're writing about.... may i request that you write in proper english? so the younger generation use this type of english nowadays
so about the short cuts... hehehe any way i hope that after i get married with my vietnam wife, happiness is what i wish for.
But seriously bro Singviet do you find happiness.. have u regretted marrying yoru vietnamese wife ?
the average ppl over there is forever in debt,is not really their culture to borrow first and think later but is more to their miserable salary they got.
their normal workers like waitress,sale assistant,factory workers and etc salary is less than 200 usd every month.
with that kind of money,how they going to survive?and now even more worst with their double digit inflation,so they go borrow.for them their thinking is they dont have any future or long term plan,their only valuable things is their dayghter,so is what they have or borrow now,they use first
u say that your girl ask u to go vietnam asap to show ah long that she have a sg boyfriend,maybe u can also check with the ah long how much they own so that u can know whether that girl is a "good investment" or not for u
their ah long charge 20% interest,not surprise cos they also scare cos they borrow to poor ppl,look at sg legal money lender interest and fees and u will know because they also borrow to low income ppl in sg
According to my gal, ppl at her commune(village) in An Giang earn about US$100++ a month. I check this with another old viet friend of mine in HCM, he was my uni-mate/hostel mate in SG, he say no surprise. a local graduate in vietnam who speaks and writes good english is paid US$350 a month in HCM.
But according to my friend, you can't judge a vnmese based on their salary bcuz some of them have a lot of sidelines. but i guess this apply only those with good education, have lots of connection, and have good future planning
Imagine how much do they need to come to SG and work. my gal told me for the first timer, there's a contact here in sg who will bring them to work in the ktv. they hv to pay the "contact" an one-time charge of $1500, not inclusive of their monthly $500 lodging (they are crammed in one hdb unit owned by the contact, 4-5 person one room). And not to mention, they need to bring in cash of SG$1500 to pass immigration requirement. And also $400 for round trip air ticket ! So probably they need at least $3500 just to have their feet stepped onto the holy empire of SG for the first time.
For subsquent entry to SG, the one-time charge of $1500 is omitted. So they probably need $400(air tix) + $1500(for ICA to see) to come again.
So come to think of it, how long must they save with that kind of pathetic pay back in their province in order to come to SG? So there's a better alternative which is to ask from Ah Long.
Assume they get $2k from ah long, with the 20% int rate, they have to pay back $2.4k. If they are denied an entry, their $400 air tix is burnt, they can only return the $1.5k, the balance of $900 is their debt! how long do they need to work at their village to pay back the money.
Bro golden_question, if i am not wrong, she told me it's about $3k plus or something. but i'm not gonna pay for her at all! I only give her $500 for her air tix etc. She told me shes selling her house to pay for it. and she need to come here and work to earn back the money and buy back her house. now she's working in a factory almost everyday while waiting for me to go over. too bad i had a huge loss in the stock market recently. if not and IF there's a way, i would have bought her house and get lodging+bonks everytime i go over LOL!
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i think it's their culture to keep borrowing here and there. they just like to borrow first and think later... in fact i think they might be in debt but their debt amount may not be that much. if they can't pay the ah long will go to their house and take stuff. My gal used to ask me to go to her place asap and show the ppl around she got SG bf so that those ppl won't come and harass her family so often.
and i heard their Ah long charge 20% int per month?
could not agree more with you bro golden_question. their debt crisis is worse than US default and EU sovereign debt crisis.
lots of vnmese r in debt and hence the arrival of their daughters in SG-land
yah their ah long charge is 20% per month, which is worst than the bank... dont know who can survive borrowing form the loanshark.. they borrow here and there, thus in the end their daughter have to come to Singapore to work as chick.
the average ppl over there is forever in debt,is not really their culture to borrow first and think later but is more to their miserable salary they got.
their normal workers like waitress,sale assistant,factory workers and etc salary is less than 200 usd every month.
with that kind of money,how they going to survive?and now even more worst with their double digit inflation,so they go borrow.for them their thinking is they dont have any future or long term plan,their only valuable things is their dayghter,so is what they have or borrow now,they use first
u say that your girl ask u to go vietnam asap to show ah long that she have a sg boyfriend,maybe u can also check with the ah long how much they own so that u can know whether that girl is a "good investment" or not for u
their ah long charge 20% interest,not surprise cos they also scare cos they borrow to poor ppl,look at sg legal money lender interest and fees and u will know because they also borrow to low income ppl in sg
I ever see people borrow already no money to pay back, kena boxing by the ah long.. so pityful.
so about the short cuts... hehehe any way i hope that after i get married with my vietnam wife, happiness is what i wish for.
But seriously bro Singviet do you find happiness.. have u regretted marrying yoru vietnamese wife ?
every marriage has its ups and downs. it took me a lot of time and effort to change my wife's thinking. i have never regretted marrying my wife, especially after my major spinal surgery 1 1/2 years ago when my wife took great effort to take good care of me.
yah their ah long charge is 20% per month, which is worst than the bank... dont know who can survive borrowing form the loanshark.. they borrow here and there, thus in the end their daughter have to come to Singapore to work as chick.
bro, where got ah long effective interest rate is better than bank one? ah long service is good bcuz they only need to know where u stay and your IC no.
In a way, we shd be grateful of their such issues, else how can we get in touch with VB in sillypore? if one wants to get entangled with them, i reckon he has to accept and get involved in such issues as well.
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Sure! I think you will get a lot of business. Many wanted to work in VN but the pay must be of singapore standard. If can stay in the job for 6 months, then u can charge 1 month of our pay as commission
want cheap, want fresh, want big breast, want stay next door...... where got? if i adopt yr business model, i think sell coffee by roadside can earn more than me. you better stay singapore
not say season enuff..mayb love is blind..lol i am 25.
love is really blind...you are so young...dun think you are thinking properly...anyway small head rules...
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Thankx bro. hope really can have a good life with her because i am deciding to settle down with her in Singapore... but as you know more problems maybe arising as in she thinks back about her family i vietnam.
According to my gal, ppl at her commune(village) in An Giang earn about US$100++ a month. I check this with another old viet friend of mine in HCM, he was my uni-mate/hostel mate in SG, he say no surprise. a local graduate in vietnam who speaks and writes good english is paid US$350 a month in HCM.
But according to my friend, you can't judge a vnmese based on their salary bcuz some of them have a lot of sidelines. but i guess this apply only those with good education, have lots of connection, and have good future planning
Imagine how much do they need to come to SG and work. my gal told me for the first timer, there's a contact here in sg who will bring them to work in the ktv. they hv to pay the "contact" an one-time charge of $1500, not inclusive of their monthly $500 lodging (they are crammed in one hdb unit owned by the contact, 4-5 person one room). And not to mention, they need to bring in cash of SG$1500 to pass immigration requirement. And also $400 for round trip air ticket ! So probably they need at least $3500 just to have their feet stepped onto the holy empire of SG for the first time.
For subsquent entry to SG, the one-time charge of $1500 is omitted. So they probably need $400(air tix) + $1500(for ICA to see) to come again.
So come to think of it, how long must they save with that kind of pathetic pay back in their province in order to come to SG? So there's a better alternative which is to ask from Ah Long.
Assume they get $2k from ah long, with the 20% int rate, they have to pay back $2.4k. If they are denied an entry, their $400 air tix is burnt, they can only return the $1.5k, the balance of $900 is their debt! how long do they need to work at their village to pay back the money.
Bro golden_question, if i am not wrong, she told me it's about $3k plus or something. but i'm not gonna pay for her at all! I only give her $500 for her air tix etc. She told me shes selling her house to pay for it. and she need to come here and work to earn back the money and buy back her house. now she's working in a factory almost everyday while waiting for me to go over. too bad i had a huge loss in the stock market recently. if not and IF there's a way, i would have bought her house and get lodging+bonks everytime i go over LOL!
bro ilovedoggie,is your recent loss in the stock market a sign for u not to go early
me too...to me you are a gambler in the stock market....without $$$ your life with a Viet WL will not last...
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13-08-2011, 04:50 PM
Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
