Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, seems like love to me. Keep us informed on how things progress.

I thought you gonna ask whether the gal from north or south

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Lieutenant_Thai

Hello to all bro, just want to share my story about me and my vietnamese girlfriend.

Originally Posted by Lieutenant_Thai

Anyway she come here to work

Enjoy the sweetness of the love while it last.

You named a few KTV (NC, E*** and K2) in your previous posting. I do not know if you know her in these 3 KTV. You should know what happen inside. She go lam tinh with you in the first meeting in ktv, she may go lam tinh with others if she work. So when she come to work in KTV, you have to make sure you can take it.

A scenario that I guess that will happen:

She come to work, she tell you that she also love you so much that she never go lam tinh with customer or work differently from the way she used to work. She tell you that since she changed her method of work, she is unable to earn as much as before. She will tell you that since you visited her in hcmc, you know her living condition and family needs $$$.

This will stir you mind as to help (give $$$) her or just let her work the way she worked before... The huge INVOICE is coming your way. If you give, she may love you more and you love her and want to see her more. The cycle will go on and on. If you let her work, maybe your life will be turned upside down and you will start wondering where she go, what she do, who she get to know.

I experienced all these with my vn galfriend, my former number2 and currently the gal in my siggy.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

This will stir you mind as to help (give $$$) her or just let her work the way she worked before... The huge INVOICE is coming your way. If you give, she may love you more and you love her and want to see her more. The cycle will go on and on. If you let her work, maybe your life will be turned upside down and you will start wondering where she go, what she do, who she get to know.

I experienced all these with my vn galfriend, my former number2 and currently the gal in my siggy.

So how u overcome it???

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Lieutenant_Thai

Hello to all bro, just want to share my story about me and my vietnamese girlfriend.
Hope you can give me proper guidance for me.
This started when i went down to a KTV few months back, got to know this vietnamese girl, sat with her then brought her out to lam tinh on that day, it turns out that she is a very nice girl as after that day, she followed me wherever i went, she even skipped work just to accompany me, not once not twice but everytime when we are together, i only went to this KTV once, so all the other times i went out with her was outside the KTV, we started having feeling for each other, went out to watch movies together, go to the beach, shopping and all the other events where couples do.

Any advise from any bros on what kind of girl will she be if i continue seeing her?

There are similar cases in this thread...I suggest you searched thru and read them to learn from others...so remember you are never the first with this experience...

[69ASIMO69]

I will be flying to HCM tomorrow night, any bro here need to pass anything which is not heavy. I dont mind to help.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

So how u overcome it???

number 1 galfriend - takes me 2+ years to believe her and confirmed her. Very taxing to find out alot details. Flying to hcmc often and meeting SBF bro to talk and find out about vn culture. Lucky thing is that she not able to come sillypore during that period. (it should be well documented in this thread)

former number 2 - overcome partly by $$$ and partly by caring. She really give her everthing to me untill she find out I xao nhieu nhieu, she dumped me. She is a very good and clever gal though. (it should be well documented in some thread about KC)

current gal - I am still in a mess. Wondering where she go, what she do, who she get to know, wondering whether she xao me or not, etc... never able to overcome

[RealEstateGuy]

what is xao nhieu nhieu??

[xyman]

Hello all...i planning to settle down with my viet gal next year, enough time for me to see how true she is.

Any advise for me from the bros here? She is quite a nice girl but once i see her quarreling with another viet gal, my gosh, she is fierce, but after that when she with me she cool down and gentle with me again.

Don't ask why i marrying her or what or whatever her background is. I am a divorcee and my ex wife have a decent job and comes from a decent family and end up i found out that she cheated on me during my marriage and still say I was the one is unreasonable and cheated on her..so what if i find a ordinary singaporean girl to settle down. I take care of my family during my marriage and never (maybe once or twice) go find other girls or go ktv. What do I end up with, accusation that i never take care of family, spend my time drinking, etc..

So how much to spend for a decent marriage in vietnam?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by xyman

She is quite a nice girl but once i see her quarreling with another viet gal, my gosh, she is fierce, but after that when she with me she cool down and gentle with me again.

In vn, if one is not fierce, one will be bullied.
This is what my galfriend tell me.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

what is xao nhieu nhieu??

cheat many many

[xyman]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

In vn, if one is not fierce, one will be bullied.
This is what my galfriend tell me.

Bro KangTou, you have so many VN gf before, you plan to marry any of them?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by xyman

Hello all...i planning to settle down with my viet gal next year, enough time for me to see how true she is.

Any advise for me from the bros here? She is quite a nice girl but once i see her quarreling with another viet gal, my gosh, she is fierce, but after that when she with me she cool down and gentle with me again. ............

So how much to spend for a decent marriage in vietnam?

SAME MSG - There are similar cases in this thread...I suggest you searched thru and read them to learn from others...so remember you are never the first with this experience...

How much to spend for your marriage was also well discussed and documented in this thread...in fact there are brothers who shared with us here...went thru discussing their r/s, marriage and now became father...so remember you are never the first...

[xyman]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

SAME MSG - There are similar cases in this thread...I suggest you searched thru and read them to learn from others...so remember you are never the first with this experience...

How much to spend for your marriage was also well discussed and documented in this thread...in fact there are brothers who shared with us here...went thru discussing their r/s, marriage and now became father...so remember you are never the first...

ok..I do a search now.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by xyman

Any advise for me from the bros here? She is quite a nice girl but once i see her quarreling with another viet gal, my gosh, she is fierce, but after that when she with me she cool down and gentle with me again.

U r so determine to marry her... what advice u need?

Originally Posted by xyman

So how much to spend for a decent marriage in vietnam?

This is an open question, as in no one can answer what u meant by "decent marriage"

U have to state example, like 5 stars restaurant or small coffee shop in HCMC. Your decent might be 5 star restaurant in a small village while others decent might be a normal restaurant in city.

Anyway u can search for the info.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

In vn, if one is not fierce, one will be bullied.
This is what my galfriend tell me.

When they talk among themselves, I always think they are quarreling. So they are always fierce to me.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by xyman

Bro KangTuo, you have so many VN gf before, you plan to marry any of them?

there is only 1 to marry