Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1648

Rubbaking · #**24706** 01-06-2024, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by lornjourney

I am just reflecting back what the service girl told me and her looks at the point of time. Basically their age not too old <30 and got $100/shot standard. Yet they give free to 小鲜肉

To ease their disgust after being upped by many 老油桶

naemlo · #**24707** 10-06-2024, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

have u seen me before or ss08 told you

not very handsome but very presentable with a honey filled mouth sianing no. 2, no. 3, no. 4 etc

This I have to disagree.....have to describe, "handsome, presentable and honey mouth".

BatamBro · #**24708** 20-06-2024, 02:47 AM

aiya i see my friend marry vietbu end up also help with her debts + send back money to village to support. then everyday quarrel also no sex. this and that can't eat, no mood eat. non stop talking to viet friends on phone. go out meet her viet friends also sit there play game cos dont know what they talking. damn sian one

Hurricane88 · #**24709** 20-06-2024, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by BatamBro

aiya i see my friend marry vietbu end up also help with her debts + send back money to village to support. then everyday quarrel also no sex. this and that can't eat, no mood eat. non stop talking to viet friends on phone. go out meet her viet friends also sit there play game cos dont know what they talking. damn sian one

This is simple logic...your friend love wife more than wife love your friend...this is dangerous...

Must ensure gal love the man before dare to marry and quickly have babies after marriage so wife have no time to think otherwise...

Also dun jump into marriage...after together 5 years then marry to ensure both knew each other...trust me most Vietbu cannot last longer than 1 year...

Rubbaking · #**24710** 20-06-2024, 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

This is simple logic...your friend love wife more than wife love your friend...this is dangerous...

Must ensure gal love the man before dare to marry and quickly have babies after marriage so wife have no time to think otherwise...

Also dun jump into marriage...after together 5 years then marry to ensure both knew each other...trust me most Vietbu cannot last longer than 1 year...

Spot on. I would say cannot even last more than 6 months. Best is do not get married legally.

Hurricane88 · #**24711** 20-06-2024, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Spot on. I would say cannot even last more than 6 months. Best is do not get married legally.

Cannot dun marry lah...if want to have babies then must marry lah...otherwise all your offsprings have no legal dad name...then as Singaporean enter primary school plenty of difficulties...

All these to ensure the wife is marriage material and not ML, ktv or entertainment industry...

BTW, a few of the seniors posted here married Vietbus and had blissful marriage...no idiosyncracies becos wife love hubby more than he loves her...

TomYumGoong8741 · #**24712** 20-06-2024, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Cannot dun marry lah...if want to have babies then must marry lah...otherwise all your offsprings have no legal dad name...then as Singaporean enter primary school plenty of difficulties...

All these to ensure the wife is marriage material and not ML, ktv or entertainment industry...

BTW, a few of the seniors posted here married Vietbus and had blissful marriage...no idiosyncracies becos wife love hubby more than he loves her...

My case I married, and then no so black heart, we stayed married until she got PR approved. Then we divorce. With the PR she can at least find decent job. No contest divorce, she never ask for alimony etc. All I give is voluntary one.

Rubbaking · #**24713** 21-06-2024, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Cannot dun marry lah...if want to have babies then must marry lah...otherwise all your offsprings have no legal dad name...then as Singaporean enter primary school plenty of difficulties...

All these to ensure the wife is marriage material and not ML, ktv or entertainment industry...

BTW, a few of the seniors posted here married Vietbus and had blissful marriage...no idiosyncracies becos wife love hubby more than he loves her...

Oh. Agreed bro. But if girl is from entertainment scene, then no. If from normal background, then it is the same as any other, though cultural wise could be different but I observed some of my friends from vietnam who got climatised after spending years in sillypore. One thing for sure though if they will want to go back to vietnam eventually due to cost of living here.

Rubbaking · #**24714** 21-06-2024, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by TomYumGoong8741

My case I married, and then no so black heart, we stayed married until she got PR approved. Then we divorce. With the PR she can at least find decent job. No contest divorce, she never ask for alimony etc. All I give is voluntary one.

Good on you though sorry to hear about the divorce. But it id so difficult to get PR for viets nowadays.

KangTuo · #**24715** 21-06-2024, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Also dun jump into marriage...after together 5 years then marry to ensure both knew each other...trust me most Vietbu cannot last longer than 1 year...

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Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Spot on. I would say cannot even last more than 6 months. Best is do not get married legally.

My then gf in her 20s waited for me for 7 years till she in 30s then become my wife till now in her 40s

KangTuo · #**24716** 21-06-2024, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Good on you though sorry to hear about the divorce. But it id so difficult to get PR for viets nowadays.

Protocol for foreign wife to get PRs still remain the same. It is very dependable on the husband ability to support her and having family.

My wife got case with ICA and was banned from entering Sillypore many years back. I put in enormous effort and time to bring her back, marry her, have family with her and get her PR.

fallen11 · #**24717** 21-06-2024, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Protocol for foreign wife to get PRs still remain the same. It is very dependable on the husband ability to support her and having family.

by "having family", do you mean giving birth to a singaporean baby?

KangTuo · #**24718** 21-06-2024, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by fallen11

by "having family", do you mean giving birth to a singaporean baby?

Yes. my children made in Singapore

Hurricane88 · #**24719** 21-06-2024, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Protocol for foreign wife to get PRs still remain the same. It is very dependable on the husband ability to support her and having family.

My wife got case with ICA and was banned from entering Sillypore many years back. I put in enormous effort and time to bring her back, marry her, have family with her and get her PR.

Gahmen always love babies...after many years, chances are very high to get her PR...

In fact I knew and remembered all yoru stories...so your case is a successful story...

Hurricane88 · #**24720** 21-06-2024, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by fallen11

by "having family", do you mean giving birth to a singaporean baby?

Besides bro KT, there were a few others we knew that also married Viet wives and had families...one of them definetly was TS who started this thread...

Cannot jump into marriage with foreign women...must ensure long enough years to see if potential spouse can last long...also gal cannot be in vices before...dun think much success if gal in vices...