Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[profx]

Of course i believe it is all done with mutual consent. But if the girl have in mind to marry the man who become his bf and give him sex, it become a responsibility to marry him if we bonk her.

Other man cheat her does not mean we should do the same. When they are teens, they did not think of marriage and have sex with bf. when they are older like 20plus, they start to think of marriage. This is the same with girl in other country. They not being virgin does not mean they should be bonk anyhow.

In Singapore i know there are some girls who do not mind co-inhabit without marriage, this type of girl we do not need to be responsible for marry them. But i do believe those decent young vietnam girls we date, if they have a choice, they rather marry the man whom they have sex with than just companionship.

Anyway talking about responsible for them perhaps depends on individual as everybody upbringing and exposure is different.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Not angry lah. Just a forum.

LT with my girl is mutual consent. No raping here.

One girl told me she started at 15; so why should I feel so guilty when I am dating her at her young age of 28?

Marrying may or may not happen. But companionship can last forever.

I have a Malaysian companion for 11 years before breaking off in June 2013. She never find me irresponsible. In fact I help her in her business and investment.

Main thing when I say responsible is putting food on the table; provide her comfort in life; and let her spend some of my money.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

you still dare to have lumber 2...dun play with fire...your family is still young...

I had several number 2 already... But my family still come first
Because my bx is always number 1 for all we have been thru.

Just say that keepung number 2s is my ECA

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

to me...all WL said this to make themselves feel better...the gal will fell better if they think are diff...true enough they may have diff problems at home...but all things leads to one thing...$$$...only $$$ can help them...

Its a realistic world... Everyone need the notes to survive.
Don't you need that?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

asked yourself...what can you give her except sex and money...hahaha...you can lie to yourself you are doing something good..but let me tell you this ...you are not helping her...the fact is she will have to survive herself after she woke up from her dream...hopefully when she woke up and leave you...she still quite young and not wasted her golden years on somebody she cannot rely on...after all you still said WL can be nice person...bad karma if you dump her after taking advantage...

sorry being so direct...above is my opinion...dun mean to hurt anyone...

Just give them a chance to dream... Liverpool also gave ys a chance to dream this season.

[MIFAcafe]

VBs are not stupid. Sinkees are.

The chance of sinkees been cheating are much higher.
I known girls whom have onxa still go out with men. (not man)
Girls with bf still interest to go out on date.

2 side of thing. You keep saying bonking; but there are girl that I go out and I did not even bonk.

And companionship not necessarily need to co-habit.

Maybe you stay in a different planet.

Originally Posted by profx

Of course i believe it is all done with mutual consent. But if the girl have in mind to marry the man who become his bf and give him sex, it become a responsibility to marry him if we bonk her.

Other man cheat her does not mean we should do the same. When they are teens, they did not think of marriage and have sex with bf. when they are older like 20plus, they start to think of marriage. This is the same with girl in other country. They not being virgin does not mean they should be bonk anyhow.

In Singapore i know there are some girls who do not mind co-inhabit without marriage, this type of girl we do not need to be responsible for marry them. But i do believe those decent young vietnam girls we date, if they have a choice, they rather marry the man whom they have sex with than just companionship.

Anyway talking about responsible for them perhaps depends on individual as everybody upbringing and exposure is different.

[profx]

Yeah right, WL are human afterall, they face unhappy customer everyday, black face or smiling face they still have to do. They also need dreams to keep them going but sooner or later they too, will wake up to reality.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Just give them a chance to dream... Iiverpool also gave ys a chance to dream this season.

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Just give them a chance to dream... Iiverpool also gave ys a chance to dream this season.

KNN talk about Liv.... vommit blood.

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by profx

Yeah right, WL are human afterall, they face unhappy customer everyday, black face or smiling face they still have to do. They also need dreams to keep them going but sooner or later they too, will wake up to reality.

They will wake up when their market demand on them crash down. When even a mamasan job also not available to them.

When their piggy bank dry up will they realise all is just a "wet dream".

[profx]

There are innocent VBs too otherwise there wont be pregnant girl abandon by their bf or husband. If sinkie choose to be with XNN VB, it is their own fault, like my previous girl i mention ask for money to help school fees.

Sinkie man are label as stupid whenever they go date foreign girl, isnt it the same with PRC girls.

Girls with ongxa still go out with men and girls with bf still interest to go date. Sounds familar. Isnt some singaporean girls behave this way too? This does not apply to VBs only, but anyway are those VBs you mention decent VB girl or indecent girl?

My important point still the same, if the girl we date hope to have a husband, but we sex with them with the thoughts that we no need to marry, just take care them, we are no different to the irresponsible guys. Unless the the girl tell you it is ok to have sex with her without the need to marry her, then we no longer need to be responsible.

As for your companionship and dating, i should not comment because i did not know too much about your story.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

VBs are not stupid. Sinkees are.

The chance of them cheating is much higher.
I known girls whom have onxa still go out with men. (not man)
Girls with bf still interest to go out on date.

2 side of thing. You keep saying bonking; but there are girl that I go out and I did not even bonk.

And companionship not necessarily need to co-habit.

Maybe you stay in a different planet.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by profx

There are innocent VBs too otherwise there wont be pregnant girl abandon by their bf or husband. If sinkie choose to be with XNN VB, it is their own fault, like my previous girl i mention ask for money to help school fees.

My important point still the same, if the girl we date hope to have a husband, but we sex with them with the thoughts that we no need to marry, just take care them, we are no different to the irresponsible guys. Unless the the girl tell you it is ok to have sex with her without the need to marry her, then we no longer need to be responsible.

haha...let me share what I had encountered...many VBs want to have my baby without marriage...

also many VBs dun mind to have sex and no marriage...this is all happening now in wetnam...

think you still dun understand Wetnam culture...I had been here so long still cannot understand them...

[Hurricane88]

thanks for upping my points...very high power senior although I dun know who since no nick was left behind...

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Many VBs want to have your baby without marriage
Does many VBs willing to have baby with other man too without marriage? If no, then it is not vietnam culture but rather you are master KC for VBs. Love can lead a girl to do stupid things, same for man who are being KC.

Years back when i monger in china, there are some of my friends sick of bonking WL so they start KC and bonking non-WL to obtain a higher level satisfaction. To me this thread seem to serve the same purpose beside discussing about life partnar.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...let me share what I had encountered...many VBs want to have my baby without marriage.

also many VBs dun mind to have sex and no marriage...this is all happening now in wetnam

think you still dun understand Wetnam culture...I had been here so long still cannot understand them...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by profx

Many VBs want to have your baby without marriage
Does many VBs willing to have baby with other man too without marriage? If no, then it is not vietnam culture but rather you are master KC for VBs. Love can lead a girl to do stupid things, same for man who are being KC.

haha...you knew nothing yet...many young mothers here...child 1 to 4 yrs old mother only 25 and below...VBs pregnant but willing to give birth instead of abortion...father disappeared...

[profx]

I know alot of single mother in vietnam, but they are being cheated by guys, irresponsible man not wanting to marry and away after make them pregnant. Unless you tell me these single mother know before hand that these man who bonk and make them pregnant will never want to marry them.

It is not the same from your previous discussion about VBs willing to give birth to your baby without marriage, why mix the 2 thing together?

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...you knew nothing yet...many young mothers here...child 1 to 4 yrs old mother only 25 and below...VBs pregnant but willing to give birth instead of abortion...father disappeared...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by profx

Yeah right, WL are human afterall, they face unhappy customer everyday, black face or smiling face they still have to do. They also need dreams to keep them going but sooner or later they too, will wake up to reality.

know a mid 30 WL (at least for a short period) still like going strong