Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1210

Goldenhair · #**18136** 22-04-2013, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Kim91

Bro u only know her for few mth n u started to think of wanting waiting to do so much for her. Dun get too involve. Must think the money to involve if u married her. Dad sick, nephew sick...
Anyway just be careful.

Today meet up with some other SBF Vietnam regulars. Clarify my love blinded tinking process and also gathered that its not a feasible business. Then we got into a Facebook arguement where she kpkb i play FB when i tell her i sleep already. Pissed off, I took my own screenshot and confront her she also use the FB chat after she supposely slept. Now trust in her shaken, she argue, I argue, I told her I am ending the relationship. Now see she will contact me or not and to see if she will ask me for money(expecting..). If contact and wants to patch back, she gone into my classification of "fun" companion. If ask for money, good! Then means she her $ running out liao and have to go work. Classification : WL when i go hcm.

Anyway, now focus on doing my own thing first. Lesson learnt: Too fast too furious, end early better. Next trip go out exploring with fellow SG pals there and look for replacement "fun" companion liao. Disappointing but good wake up call for me.

shysaint · #**18137** 22-04-2013, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

Today meet up with some other SBF Vietnam regulars. Clarify my love blinded tinking process and also gathered that its not a feasible business. Then we got into a Facebook arguement where she kpkb i play FB when i tell her i sleep already. Pissed off, I took my own screenshot and confront her she also use the FB chat after she supposely slept. Now trust in her shaken, she argue, I argue, I told her I am ending the relationship. Now see she will contact me or not and to see if she will ask me for money(expecting..). If contact and wants to patch back, she gone into my classification of "fun" companion. If ask for money, good! Then means she her $ running out liao and have to go work. Classification : WL when i go hcm.

Anyway, now focus on doing my own thing first. Lesson learnt: Too fast too furious, end early better. Next trip go out exploring with fellow SG pals there and look for replacement "fun" companion liao. Disappointing but good wake up call for me.

Wa ... You Mentality n Thinking Changes So Fast ...

jackbl · #**18138** 23-04-2013, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Learn from You is the Best

No one approached me yet

No extra income, huhuhu

jackbl · #**18139** 23-04-2013, 12:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

I find learning it from viet songs easier to learn the prounouciation.

Hope 1 day very soon I can hear you sing

KangTuo · #**18140** 23-04-2013, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Hope 1 day very soon I can hear you sing

you want to hear me sing?

jackbl · #**18141** 23-04-2013, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

you want to hear me sing?

Sorry not interested

KangTuo · #**18142** 23-04-2013, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Sorry not interested

then how to go HH?

Goldenhair · #**18143** 23-04-2013, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Wa ... You Mentality n Thinking Changes So Fast ...

Yeah..i am a very focused man. But comparing the numbers some of the bros here has, it is about the same. During the TCSS they raise a few questions that I had not thought of. Questions that only people who been there, done it, ended it will know. And being unable to solve these potential problems makes me reconsider my options, which result in only 1 conclusion : Risks too high, returns not that worth it.

Its hard to explain, but if the aim is to keep my headstrong girl occupied, then why used the $$$ to achieve it? Just get her to work and its a better option. Also H88 bro mentioned : Too short a time, too risky. Better to go there and relax n destress over 22 months than risk everything in 1 month on 1 girl.

shysaint · #**18144** 23-04-2013, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

Yeah..i am a very focused man. But comparing the numbers some of the bros here has, it is about the same. During the TCSS they raise a few questions that I had not thought of. Questions that only people who been there, done it, ended it will know. And being unable to solve these potential problems makes me reconsider my options, which result in only 1 conclusion : Risks too high, returns not that worth it.

Its hard to explain, but if the aim is to keep my headstrong girl occupied, then why used the $$$ to achieve it? Just get her to work and its a better option. Also H88 bro mentioned : Too short a time, too risky. Better to go there and relax n destress over 22 months than risk everything in 1 month on 1 girl.

The real reason is that You are still Not there Yet at Vietnam ...

That's why I did not Contribute and Reply to Any of You Posting as I Think at that point of time .. You are Just an ORD Personnel with some Amount of Gratuity to Spent ...

I am an ex airforce regular .. I know and can understand ...

Anyway ... welcome to the Watsapp Group

Goldenhair · #**18145** 23-04-2013, 02:50 PM

You are spot on..hahaha..at the period where cannot find job and awaiting diploma to be awarded in late May AND awaiting my pink IC...hahahaa...now still clearing leave sia...thats why so free. hehehe...

SureScore · #**18146** 23-04-2013, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

Its hard to explain, but if the aim is to keep my headstrong girl occupied, then why used the $$$ to achieve it? Just get her to work and its a better option. Also H88 bro mentioned : Too short a time, too risky. Better to go there and relax n destress over 22 months than risk everything in 1 month on 1 girl.

Listen to H88 will hardly be wrong.

He has plenty of experiences to share.

Kim91 · #**18147** 23-04-2013, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

Now see she will contact me or not and to see if she will ask me for money(expecting..). If contact and wants to patch back, she gone into my classification of "fun" companion. If ask for money, good! Then means she her $ running out liao and have to go work. Classification : WL when i go hcm.

Bro u said u sort out ur thots now u say u want to see if she this she that?? She will also see if u this u that....
What for?? U ended it. U move on.

KangTuo · #**18148** 23-04-2013, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

I am an ex airforce regular .. I know and can understand ...

what!!!!!! you also?
sooooo many here

KangTuo · #**18149** 23-04-2013, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

Hi guys, after a short period of courtship, i kinda hooked up with a vietnamese girl.

I fly there every month sometimes 2 times a month just to be with her for 5 -8 days a month.

where did you meet the vietnamese girl and for how long already?
how many times you been to vn? 2 times a month, every month is no joke

KangTuo · #**18150** 23-04-2013, 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Goldenhair

Today meet up with some other SBF Vietnam regulars. Clarify my love blinded tinking process and also gathered that its not a feasible business.

because you never meet me and some other SBF bro who think differently from the SBF Vietnam regulars you met.

maybe you are not blinded by love but you are not confident of yourself to maintain a long distance relationship.

but i do agree that it is not feasible to open biz in vn.