Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Torres_Mok]

But i still like viet gal...esp my viet gf mainly because of reason 6[/QUOTE]

Having a viet partner hv its advantages and disadvantages, after comparing the adv and disadv, i still prefer viet life parnter.

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

But i still like viet gal...esp my viet gf mainly because of reason 6

Eh? when did u hv a viet gf roi? that's fast...

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

IMHO, most guys looks for viet partner because they would make u king/man of the house. They are just like the sg gals of the past (parents era)... traditional in their thinking.

example:
When we guys finish work and call our partner... 'Hello, where are you? dinner ready?'

SG gal of modern era: ' I am shopping in orhcard. Come and fetch me and we go dinner in xxx resturant. I buy many things and need you to carry for me.'

Viet gal: 'i am at home. dinner is ready for you. you are tired after work, so come back and i massage for you.'

Why marriage of our parents last for so many years and in modern time, so many divorce cases... i feel this is the main reason. Sg gals treat us men like slave, so when we finish work, we would rather go look for good companion than going home or calling our sg partner.

Bro KT, u quoted some right stuff. Vn gf always care about the 'spouse/partner'. Their heart is concern with the one they care about, though the degree may be different compare to close relatives like dad/mum/bro/sis/ etc.

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, this i agree totally with you. Viet gals are more traditional in their thinking and believe that treating husband well is part of their duty as a wife. Viet gals understand that its not easy for the man to earn money outside, so they have to treat their man well. So its 2 way traffic. As for singapore gals, they believe that they are contributing to the family too and thus they need not treat man well. Sg gals believe that it should be the man treating them well. If you have some disagreement with a viet lover, the tendency of them arguing all the way is low. They may argue for a short while but will keep quiet. Singapore gals are totally different, they will argue all the way thru till you apologise to them.

and could be even worse, local gals move out of the room leaving u sleeping alone. U don't apologize u get nothing, u go out to frolic they report u, u go drinking they ban/complain to your parents, u go work long hours they went shopping using your Credit cards so u pay for it, etc., etc. Thanks to Govt for the good-char gers they have cultivated - don't blame the men for less population, blame the girls.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

Eh? when did u hv a viet gf roi? that's fast...

Finally u hv appear again! I don't hv a viet gf. i plan to hv one.

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Finally u hv appear again! I don't hv a viet gf. i plan to hv one.

I m around, but didn't see u leh at 51 or with our bros here... only a bit low key on writing at the forum. Anytime, can call...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

From my personal experience and that of my friends with vietnamese spouse, the main complain they have is having to feed their in-laws.

This 1 I fully agree... Haizzzz tell them poor, they dun believe.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

But i still like viet gal...esp my viet gf mainly because of reason 6

Same reason for me.... a few good examples, She will clean my spoon, chopsticks, bowl n so on with tissue n pass them to me. When having prawns, she will peel the shell n pass me the meat.....

A lot of other examples, too lazy to type them out.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Same reason for me.... a few good examples, She will clean my spoon, chopsticks, bowl n so on with tissue n pass them to me. When having prawns, she will peel the shell n pass me the meat.....

A lot of other examples, too lazy to type them out.

U already married?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

U already married?

Yes y leh? But u will surprise.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Yes y leh? But u will surprise.

Ya! i surprise u hv married, becos u seen to me like u don't need to report to OC! ur OC is a Viet?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Ya! i surprise u hv married, becos u seen to me like u don't need to report to OC! ur OC is a Viet?

Cos my OC currently not staying with me.... A daily phone call only. BTW I dun do anything wrong. As known by many ppl here, "I'm a good boy".

1 more good point abt these gers, my ger even unpack the slipper in the hotel, placed in front of me to wear. I was so surprised n lost when she did that. If a SG ger does this, u can go buy toto.

[richie4]

Hi Bro

Does anyone know whether ICA will cancel the LTSVP if the husband request to, as his wife do not wish to return to sg anymore.?
Anyone encounter before?

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Cos my OC currently not staying with me.... A daily phone call only. BTW I dun do anything wrong. As known by many ppl here, "I'm a good boy".

1 more good point abt these gers, my ger even unpack the slipper in the hotel, placed in front of me to wear. I was so surprised n lost when she did that. If a SG ger does this, u can go buy toto.

Wah.. you must have done hell lot of good deeds to have such good fortune.
My thai gf also dun treat me that well.

So envious.. Must treat her well wor..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

So envious.. Must treat her well wor..

As usual, u c me good, I c u good.