Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

That's where you need to know how they operate. In Vietnam, couples that are not married are not allowed to stay in the same room. It is against the law to do that. So when you bring the gal back to hotel wanting to overnite, the hotel will reserve an extra room for your gal. The security will bring you and the gal to the room to take a look. Then the gal can follow you back to your room. just in case there's any raid by the police, the receptionist will call your room and the gal will have to quickly leave your room and go to her `room'. So when police check, she anhd u will not be in the same room lor. The extra US$13 will be used for reserving the room for the night

bro, thanks for ur info.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

u must be under pressure as u r going to meet ur gf's parents 4 the first time! gd luck to u.

No pressure leh....my gf family very friendly and nice to me....

[bonkers69]

Originally Posted by SingViet

That's where you need to know how they operate. In Vietnam, couples that are not married are not allowed to stay in the same room. It is against the law to do that. So when you bring the gal back to hotel wanting to overnite, the hotel will reserve an extra room for your gal. The security will bring you and the gal to the room to take a look. Then the gal can follow you back to your room. just in case there's any raid by the police, the receptionist will call your room and the gal will have to quickly leave your room and go to her `room'. So when police check, she anhd u will not be in the same room lor. The extra US$13 will be used for reserving the room for the night

really stupid rule !! i stay with ba xa for the past few visit lucky no raid
i remember first time went there . Stay at her place. Knn , dun noe how come police know leh...at night bang door , said i never register at nearby police post can't stay at their home too.....ma chian their house also belong to police. Phew stupid rule !!!

[KangTuo]

Back to the topic of understand Vietnamese Life Partner...

Why is it that someViet gals are so caring and always worry about parents and siblings, they also dun want the family to worry about them? But there are some Viet girls who simply don't care...only play and play and take advantage of a caring sister..

I share with bro about my viet g/f story... she care so much for her family that i think she is suffering in silence. sometime she tells me she feel very tired living...This is what she tells me...and i believe her...

1) In 2002 family need money, she go HCM to work and send money back... that time work in massage parlour, can earn many money. Mid 2006 come sillypore work in jc (this is where i know her), got caught and cannot come already. Now she work as salesgirl and earn little, yet borrow money (good friends willing to help her) to send back more than what she earn. She dun want to let parents know that she earn little as they are old. She always wish that she can give more $ to family... but seems like no 'good' job in VN her to earn alot... only ktv, massage and pro can earn alot more.

2) This year her elder sis business (saloon) failed and need money to pay friend who her sis borrowed money. She and her father sold away the house bought by her previous american b/f in HCM, Q8 to pay her sis debt. Now most of the family members stay at relative/friend house in Mekong.

3) Her younger sis took advantage of her when she borrow her motor. Her sis sold it to buy drugs and go disco. But my g/f never complain to parents. She say she love her sis, so never want to tell... she would rather let her parents scold her than her sis. She did think of going back to work in massage parlour again so that she can buy motor and give more money... but knows that her father and myself don't like and don't allow. she put off the idea..

[bonkers69]

well.....i would say no ending story for them lah. Some parents even take advantage of their daughter...haiz. we are so lucky living in sillypore

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by bonkers69

really stupid rule !! i stay with ba xa for the past few visit lucky no raid
i remember first time went there . Stay at her place. Knn , dun noe how come police know leh...at night bang door , said i never register at nearby police post can't stay at their home too.....ma chian their house also belong to police. Phew stupid rule !!!

Bro, maybe u have not realised this, but Vietnam is under COMMUNIST rule.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Why is it that someViet gals are so caring and always worry about parents and siblings, they also dun want the family to worry about them?

Bro, every viet gal in their line has similiar stories to tell. It seems to be the standard story line, with just a bit of changes here and there. For Vietnam newbie, the story will sound all true and convincing. Discount 70% of the story and that may just be the truth about her plight. Last time, Sha Gua's gal from JC also told him damm a lot of similiar stories and also didn't take money from him for quite some time and Sha Gua fell for her. Then finally.... lies unwrapped and Sha Gua woke up.

But these Viet gals do have pathetic backgrounds. They work since very young age just to provide for family. Every family seems to have ONE sensible daughter and the parents will exploite this daughter to earn money for them. When the daughter was young, she works as maid. Then older, go and become bar gal. When of marrying age, they force her to marry taiwanese. All these stories never ending la

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

No pressure leh....my gf family very friendly and nice to me....

Good Good. They must treat u well so that your family will treat their daughter well in the future

[SingViet]

My way of dealing with Viet gals is simple and straight forward. Its a busines transaction. I do not want to be the cheap skate guy that goes around looking for free fucks. There is simply no free fucks around. The lady comes out to work for a living, even fucks for a living. So what makes you so special that she will give to u FREE? I will always pay after the bonks. I will not give the gal any chance of asking me for large sums of money after some time. If we singapore man are clever, do you think viet gals are stupid? Save Trouble, Pay for what you have used. Don't pay now, in the future, the gals will add interest to what is owed.

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by SingViet

That's where you need to know how they operate. In Vietnam, couples that are not married are not allowed to stay in the same room. It is against the law to do that. So when you bring the gal back to hotel wanting to overnite, the hotel will reserve an extra room for your gal. The security will bring you and the gal to the room to take a look. Then the gal can follow you back to your room. just in case there's any raid by the police, the receptionist will call your room and the gal will have to quickly leave your room and go to her `room'. So when police check, she anhd u will not be in the same room lor. The extra US$13 will be used for reserving the room for the night

actually it depends oso la... its not a hard and fast rule for the hotels to charge

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by bonkers69

really stupid rule !! i stay with ba xa for the past few visit lucky no raid
i remember first time went there . Stay at her place. Knn , dun noe how come police know leh...at night bang door , said i never register at nearby police post can't stay at their home too.....ma chian their house also belong to police. Phew stupid rule !!!

the police is the law mah...

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by SingViet

My way of dealing with Viet gals is simple and straight forward. Its a busines transaction. I do not want to be the cheap skate guy that goes around looking for free fucks. There is simply no free fucks around. The lady comes out to work for a living, even fucks for a living. So what makes you so special that she will give to u FREE? I will always pay after the bonks. I will not give the gal any chance of asking me for large sums of money after some time. If we singapore man are clever, do you think viet gals are stupid? Save Trouble, Pay for what you have used. Don't pay now, in the future, the gals will add interest to what is owed.

haha i feel the same way... but i usually pay now collect interest later

[unclesammi]

Bro, i also got 1 there. Super syt. Her name is Phuong.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

yes bro, just went to Century ktv @ Eminent on 15/3 and got to know the viet gal. Intend to follow up on her... and see if can ask her out this saturday, but my plan may change...

My FR on Century ktv...
http://sbfsg.agency/showpos...&postcount=177

Had a suprise call this afternoon from a PRC gal i know in Century ktv 1/2 year ago... She just arrive sillypore, wanted me to fetch her from the airport, but too bad i was stuck in office. Maybe tonite if she got a new phone number, she call me, i will go disco with her.

[unclesammi]

I can only do so much with my own limits. How many viet gals u can help leh? The world is so big, still got many tragedy u still have not heard of man.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Back to the topic of understand Vietnamese Life Partner...

Why is it that someViet gals are so caring and always worry about parents and siblings, they also dun want the family to worry about them? But there are some Viet girls who simply don't care...only play and play and take advantage of a caring sister..

I share with bro about my viet g/f story... she care so much for her family that i think she is suffering in silence. sometime she tells me she feel very tired living...This is what she tells me...and i believe her...

1) In 2002 family need money, she go HCM to work and send money back... that time work in massage parlour, can earn many money. Mid 2006 come sillypore work in jc (this is where i know her), got caught and cannot come already. Now she work as salesgirl and earn little, yet borrow money (good friends willing to help her) to send back more than what she earn. She dun want to let parents know that she earn little as they are old. She always wish that she can give more $ to family... but seems like no 'good' job in VN her to earn alot... only ktv, massage and pro can earn alot more.

2) This year her elder sis business (saloon) failed and need money to pay friend who her sis borrowed money. She and her father sold away the house bought by her previous american b/f in HCM, Q8 to pay her sis debt. Now most of the family members stay at relative/friend house in Mekong.

3) Her younger sis took advantage of her when she borrow her motor. Her sis sold it to buy drugs and go disco. But my g/f never complain to parents. She say she love her sis, so never want to tell... she would rather let her parents scold her than her sis. She did think of going back to work in massage parlour again so that she can buy motor and give more money... but knows that her father and myself don't like and don't allow. she put off the idea..

[euphoria777]

Originally Posted by bonkers69

i remember first time went there . Stay at her place. Knn , dun noe how come police know leh...at night bang door .....

Hmmm....not so friendly neighbours spilling the beans?
I had a friend more jia lat. His own security guard alerted the police to come and catch him and his regular gal. Then police "fine" him and the security guard take 50%!!!!!!!!!!!!