Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

bro ilovedoggie,u still arounddddddddddddddd

yea bro what's up?

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

because he keep on contributing his story.and we got excited and keep on commenting until he cannot endure and apologise hahaha first is the wl he want to help to come sg to work then came another wl story whom he just met

i'm glad that u catch my storyline. i admit it's a bit messy. i really want to thank you guys for telling me so much about viet gal leh... if you all nvr say anything i would be still living in a dream...

about the other WL i just met, this one i really got no matter of heart over her. just that wan to xnn with her. the first WL aka the one i wan to help to come to sg, she's the one that i straight away kanna love spell the first time i see her. As such it brings much headache to me even to now...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

end of the day it is still bro ilovedoggie decision to play along with the vb or have a serious relationship.

i remembered that when i met my girlfriend few years back, i also had alot queries and doubts. i also kana alot from TS and Sha_gua. Same thing, "she is just another vb working here". same thing from me, "she is different from other vb".

it was not a good 1+ year for me initially as i was struggling. But i can say i am lucky i hold on till now. hopefully can have a wonderful family just like TS. (if only i can kick my habit which developed into a hobby of kc-ing vb)

seems like bro kangtuo and bro shysaint met their VB here in sg working. haha... i kept furbishing so much info because i also wish to deliver the same message: she's different from other WL

but just like most bro here say, observe her for 2 years and not to do anything stupid for her first. BUT the thing is if i kept thinking if i dun help her i might lose her! so that's why i keep thinking about it day and night. BUT i think just heck it la. look for other VB in my coming trip to HCM.

when i went to HCM last month, i feel like i'm a hot pick LOL! one VB at a hair saloon insist on getting my number but i refused and she wrote hers on a paper and give it to me and ask me to call her!

Too bad that time i was having emotional setback bcuz my that so-called VB got pissed and ignored me when i last minute say dun wan to go her house.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i had too much time wasted in jc aka little vietnam.
soon will be no more time at all liao...

Bro KT ...

Thought u 'retired' some time back

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

end of the day it is still bro ilovedoggie decision to play along with the vb or have a serious relationship.

i remembered that when i met my girlfriend few years back, i also had alot queries and doubts. i also kana alot from TS and Sha_gua. Same thing, "she is just another vb working here". same thing from me, "she is different from other vb".

it was not a good 1+ year for me initially as i was struggling. But i can say i am lucky i hold on till now. hopefully can have a wonderful family just like TS. (if only i can kick my habit which developed into a hobby of kc-ing vb)

You are one of the lucky ones. But not all bros will be that lucky

[SingViet]

Not all Viet WL are hopeless, but if you are lucky, u may be able to get one that has the right mentality, is sick of being a WL and is more open to ideas. But all these qualities are not enuff, you need to spend years and lots of effort to communicate with her, educate her. Its not easy, but if you kanna one that offers hope, it may just turn out well.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Then they will write my NRIC on the DE Card, Not in the passport

Sorry, my mistake. The officer will get your name and ic from your passport, if u decide to "bao lanh" her.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

have to work as WL because of her family pressure, especially her father who is a typical sick man of SEA.

she say she told goddess that she come in to work because she need to give money to her parents and help to clear her family debt.

You tell her, if her father dun work, the goddess will be angry and forbide her from coming into singapore to work. If want to work, all family members must work

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

just go there and enjoy her company for few days, pay her some amount and come back ALONE.

There are soooo many WL with the same faith and same story line.

Thats what u always do.....

I think if u record down all the stories, u can come out with a book "Reasons VBs give to come singapore"

[Honey Boon]

good news to many including myself, now we have more chances liao

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i had too much time wasted in jc aka little vietnam.
soon will be no more time at all liao...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

Any bro here got short vietnamese love poem which is suitable to nhan tin?

You can google, there's alot. If not, if u r iphone user, try the app "Love SMS" and "SMS viet". There are many inside....

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

search the tieng viet lovers club thread. xnn he vb but don't kana xnn by the vb... sometimes experience bros also cannot control and stop the heart and penis wanting to take over the brain...

This apply to Bro KT aka KC Prince... sometimes he also kenna... but what to say? We are still human.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Not all Viet WL are hopeless, but if you are lucky, u may be able to get one that has the right mentality, is sick of being a WL and is more open to ideas. But all these qualities are not enuff, you need to spend years and lots of effort to communicate with her, educate her. Its not easy, but if you kanna one that offers hope, it may just turn out well.

I am indeed very very lucky .... N ... Now our baby girl 6 mths .... Happy n glad ...

setbacks are she would not not stay long coz she dun really get used to life here n money usage are high ... She the only child n won't want to leave her mum alone in Vn so will be few mths here n few mths there.

Things are getting better ... She has matured .... Think n expressed better ...

I agree bro SV said .... It takes times to nurtured ...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

You can google, there's alot. If not, if u r iphone user, try the app "Love SMS" and "SMS viet". There are many inside....

why you never share with me that there is such apps till now

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

about the other WL i just met, this one i really got no matter of heart over her. just that wan to xnn with her.

Things have start rolling n now u wanted to xnn other VB ...

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

the first WL aka the one i wan to help to come to sg, she's the one that i straight away kanna love spell the first time i see her. As such it brings much headache to me even to now...

No need to headache ... Follow Your Heart !