Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hahaha...I always enjoyed myself when footing the bill..money is with my bx so she pay and not me...told her no money not my problem liao...kekeke...

Used to be like u, I always keep about 500k in my wallet, the rest passed to my ger. She will pay for everything. I dun bother to read the bill and know how much is the stuff I wanted to buy. Reason, either I can't read or dun understand.

Originally Posted by SureScore

This month not going. Only bro Hurricane88 going every month.

Oh... this is bad for u.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Used to be like u, I always keep about 500k in my wallet, the rest passed to my ger. She will pay for everything. I dun bother to read the bill and know how much is the stuff I wanted to buy. Reason, either I can't read or dun understand.

I Guess it's the same for all Bros here ... including myself ....

I only keep some just in case I wanna buy cigarettes ... heheheh

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I only keep some just in case I wanna buy cigarettes ... heheheh

I keep just in case we quarrel or lose each other...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I keep just in case we quarrel or lose each other...

haahahah ...

Thats interesting ......

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I Guess it's the same for all Bros here ... including myself ....

I only keep some just in case I wanna buy cigarettes ... heheheh

its a different story for me. i keep all the money and pass my wifey 2 million vnd for her to keep in her wallet. same when we are in singapore, she will have $200 in her wallet while i keep the rest. i am sure i can manage finances better than my wifey

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I keep just in case we quarrel or lose each other...

I dun keep money and she pay bills...she oso can invite any frens...she gets local price and most important got face la...

[xyman]

hi everyone, I got some question to ask and I know is answer in other post. My question is if I give my ba xa $800 a month for her in Vietnam, is it more than enough? my friends give their ba xa 400 a month or 100 a week and they say is enough.

For me, because I love my ba xa very much, i planning to give her $800 every month (no flame me on spoiling market ok).To me, I just want her to have a stable life and don't work so hard. am I foolish to think this way?

Also, do you guy really fly down to vietnam every month to accompany them?

My ba xa everytime quarrel ask me to look for other vietnam girls or say want to leave me. But when I told her i meet my ex viet gf for dinner, she very upset and cry a bit...I really don't understand woman (regardless of where they from).

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by xyman

My question is if I give my ba xa $800 a month for her in Vietnam, is it more than enough? my friends give their ba xa 400 a month or 100 a week and they say is enough.

My ba xa everytime quarrel ask me to look for other vietnam girls or say want to leave me. But when I told her i meet my ex viet gf for dinner, she very upset and cry a bit...I really don't understand woman (regardless of where they from).

The average salary of a waitress / factory worker is just around 2 million per month which = SGD 142.00.

You are giving her SGD 800 which means she can live comfortably without having to work, buy new clothes monthly, drink coffee at nice place, travel outside of hcm, etc, etc, per month...you will nvr know who she meets, or even support...or have other bf...my 2 cents worth....

If I am you, I will find another new gal which you can save at least half...rather than quarrel with her...she must have think you knew nuts about Vn...and love here alot...to walk out on her...

[xyman]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

The average salary of a waitress / factory worker is just around 2 million per month which = SGD 142.00.

You are giving her SGD 800 which means she can live comfortably without having to work, buy new clothes monthly, drink coffee at nice place, travel outside of hcm, etc, etc, per month...you will nvr know who she meets, or even support...or have other bf...my 2 cents worth....

If I am you, I will find another new gal which you can save at least half...rather than quarrel with her...she must have think you knew nuts about Vn...and love here alot...to walk out on her...

haha... i know the average salary is around 200 like that. But i dun want her to work too hard. 800 is someting which i can afford for her. Also, if I find out anything, i still can walk out on her anytime if she is unfaithful.

[xyman]

Originally Posted by xyman

haha... i know the average salary is around 200 like that. But i dun want her to work too hard. 800 is someting which i can afford for her. Also, if I find out anything, i still can walk out on her anytime if she is unfaithful.

Also, the extra money she have she can buy some property (on installment or something) or start some small business. So that even if we not together, she still have some means of earning money instead of coming singapore to work.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by xyman

My question is if I give my ba xa $800 a month for her in Vietnam, is it more than enough? my friends give their ba xa 400 a month or 100 a week and they say is enough.

For me, because I love my ba xa very much, i planning to give her $800 every month (no flame me on spoiling market ok).To me, I just want her to have a stable life and don't work so hard. am I foolish to think this way?

Like u mentioned, answer is already in this thread .... Guess the bro here will tell you not to spoilt them by giving them too much .... How much is much depends on how much you can afford .... giving them good life and not spoiling them much ....

You are not foolish , thats LOVE ..... I think that way too because I love my BX too much .....

Originally Posted by xyman

Also, do you guy really fly down to vietnam every month to accompany them?

Weekends .....

Originally Posted by xyman

My ba xa everytime quarrel ask me to look for other vietnam girls or say want to leave me. But when I told her i meet my ex viet gf for dinner, she very upset and cry a bit...I really don't understand woman (regardless of where they from).

That's why they are call GALs ....

You also cute, you are trying let her think that you do have another gal when she is back to VN ..... VN Gals hate it when you are doing something with another gal when they are not around .... Jealousy in them are extrememly strong .... To you is only dinner , but to them is NOT ....

So either be discreet or avoid totally ...

Sometimes they also very good at playing mind games ... just be careful and observed ...

[xyman]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Like u mentioned, answer is already in this thread .... Guess the bro here will tell you not to spoilt them by giving them too much .... How much is much depends on how much you can afford .... giving them good life and not spoiling them much ....

You are not foolish , thats LOVE ..... I think that way too because I love my BX too much .....



Weekends .....



That's why they are call GALs ....

You also cute, you are trying let her think that you do have another gal when she is back to VN ..... VN Gals hate it when you are doing something with another gal when they are not around .... Jealousy in them are extrememly strong .... To you is only dinner , but to them is NOT ....

So either be discreet or avoid totally ...

Sometimes they also very good at playing mind games ... just be careful and observed ...

haha,, she everytime say "dou ma, ka koo concat".. hope i spell it correctly. i told her that the gal already got ong xa in vietnam already. but she ask why got ongxa still want to find u.... she say if she got ong xa, she will not go out with other guys already.

ya.. i agree they good at playing mind games. sometimes i very tired also, dunno what she thinking and what she doing...everytime ask me to trust her.

anyway, her friends are still around in singapore and now it seems that I need to find other joints to hang out...

[shysaint]

So where does your BX stay in VN ???

Then bro here can here you see what amout is enough?

Originally Posted by xyman

Also, the extra money she have she can buy some property (on installment or something) or start some small business. So that even if we not together, she still have some means of earning money instead of coming singapore to work.

Bro ...

..... $800 to survive, eat, buy things, do some investment / business .....

NOT that possible lah .....

I guess experienced bro will tell you the same thing ...

Guess you very open hearted ... give her many $$ already and if not together u also feel good ..... Then why not you invested the $800 yourself in something like you mentioned, probably you got more gains. It seems like you are preparing for a losing battle ....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by xyman

dunno what she thinking and what she doing...everytime ask me to trust her.

All bros here faced the same problem .... not only you ....

Bros will tell you beware of KC traps ...

Sometimes it's true, if you chose this journey , you have trust her ... There are bros who take 1-3 yrs to believe their BXs, That's the journey you have embarked yourself onto ....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by xyman

For me, because I love my ba xa very much, i planning to give her $800 every month (no flame me on spoiling market ok).To me, I just want her to have a stable life and don't work so hard. am I foolish to think this way?

Give if can afford. Give without any expectation. Give out of your love for you bx. Every gal and love is different. There is nothing as spoiling market.

Originally Posted by xyman

ya.. i agree they good at playing mind games. sometimes i very tired also, dunno what she thinking and what she doing...everytime ask me to trust her.

It is more tiring when you are thinking of lies to lie to her.
Every weekend I need to lie to my galfriend in order to cheong till early morning the next day.