Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[jackbl]

Really envy your fren

Originally Posted by Spud_Boy

they have been together for more than 2 yrs & she's mostly now in VN since he doesn't allow her to work.. no $$ given to her when she's in SG, when she comes occasionally.. but he pays for her lodging & food of cos.. minimal sum of about $400 before she goes back to VN for few months.. really low maintainence..

[jackbl]

They can make new passport and declared 1st time here

Originally Posted by addictedoldman

BTW she also first time to Sin i had checked the passport and appeared loss when i bring her to hotel. first time let my guard down and shit happens arghhhhhhhhh....

[leecs]

Originally Posted by jackbl

They can make new passport and declared 1st time here

I have a Viet WL friend whose passport is fake with a fake birthday.

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

This is a vn culture whereby it is the daughter who brings back the dole...the parents never asked the daughters to sell themselves but due to money pressure the daughters chose the oldest trade in the world for easy money and that's where alot of bad press on them...btw, not all went into this trade except those who went to sin to work in nite life...

they have braddahs and fathers who cannot work? what they do all day? play cards and watch TV? and some unlucky SG guy end up with the girl as a wife?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by jackbl

They can make new passport and declared 1st time here

Aiyoh, that's why ICA has the finger print identification system lor. Making passport is not difficult in Vietnam, even after declaring 3 passport lost. U got money to spend, i can do it for u... hahhaha

[leecs]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

they have braddahs and fathers who cannot work? what they do all day? play cards and watch TV? and some unlucky SG guy end up with the girl as a wife?

Sit at kopitiams & see girls lo. Im wondering why their sisters, father are healthy but dont wana work. 1 word, Lazy...

[terra4400]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

what kind of fucking people are these? when i read this story i feel it would have been better if the US fried these "gooks" with napalm during the war.

Bro could you cool it on the racist rants? You want to sound like a big man in this forum but you just come across as juvenile. Have you been to Vietnam or met any Vietnam girls before? If you are too young to shave your balls then you should go somewhere else instead of flooding the Viet discussions with your antiViet and antiforeigner keyboard diarrhea.

In case you have no sense of history, the Vietnamese won the American war.

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by terra4400

Bro could you cool it on the racist rants? You want to sound like a big man in this forum but you just come across as juvenile. Have you been to Vietnam or met any Vietnam girls before? If you are too young to shave your balls then you should go somewhere else instead of flooding the Viet discussions with your antiViet and antiforeigner keyboard diarrhea.

In case you have no sense of history, the Vietnamese won the American war.

your intent was good but the "balls" comment and other I do not appreciate.


FYI never been to 'nam. dont know any but i think the majority are nice people. i enjou Pho noodles sometimes. problem is SG man lost respect for himself not because pursue Veit girl but chasing after Viet whore, showering with money to buy love and wife. I practice what I call tough love for my braddahs. sometimes you have to explain it hard and tough for it to get into SG braddahs head prusuing the wrong kind of Viet gal.

now do you understand? enjoy your evening and weekend braddah.

[SingViet]

As the thread starter, i will hope that arguments be kept away from my thread. This thread was started for the good intention of letting other brothers with Vietnamese spouse understand their partner's habits, cultures etc. So if any one wants to corrupt this thread, please show your limits.

No matter how other brothers met their vietnamese spouse is not much of grave concern to others, as long as these brothers are happy, we should be happy for them. Whether their viet spouses used to be whores or not, we will be happy if these viet spouses can be good wives to their husbands, good mother to their kids and good daughter-in-laws to their mother-in-laws. Most important point is they no longer work as whores after marriage.

So to each their own preference, if brothers want to be respected, show respect to others. Have a great evening . Chao

[chen_zhen]

Originally Posted by SingViet

So to each their own preference, if brothers want to be respected, show respect to others. Have a great evening . Chao

Well said lah bro,

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by SingViet

As the thread starter, i will hope that arguments be kept away from my thread. This thread was started for the good intention of letting other brothers with Vietnamese spouse understand their partner's habits, cultures etc. So if any one wants to corrupt this thread, please show your limits.

No matter how other brothers met their vietnamese spouse is not much of grave concern to others, as long as these brothers are happy, we should be happy for them. Whether their viet spouses used to be whores or not, we will be happy if these viet spouses can be good wives to their husbands, good mother to their kids and good daughter-in-laws to their mother-in-laws. Most important point is they no longer work as whores after marriage.

So to each their own preference, if brothers want to be respected, show respect to others. Have a great evening . Chao

alright braddah, i see your feelings. if sammo want to take down the videos, its OK with me.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

As the thread starter, i will hope that arguments be kept away from my thread. This thread was started for the good intention of letting other brothers with Vietnamese spouse understand their partner's habits, cultures etc. So if any one wants to corrupt this thread, please show your limits.

No matter how other brothers met their vietnamese spouse is not much of grave concern to others, as long as these brothers are happy, we should be happy for them. Whether their viet spouses used to be whores or not, we will be happy if these viet spouses can be good wives to their husbands, good mother to their kids and good daughter-in-laws to their mother-in-laws. Most important point is they no longer work as whores after marriage.

So to each their own preference, if brothers want to be respected, show respect to others. Have a great evening . Chao

Yes bro SingViet should play referee for this thread...well done and keep it up...

[poop_ant]

Hi bros, need some advices really.

I know this viet gal can say is a WL. But she dont always work. Knew her since April. We fell in love and she has been staying in my house everytime she comes here.. Shes been here for 4 mths and 1 mth in Vietnam; for the 1 mth, i went over to accompany her for 2 weeks and we went Nah Trang and Dalat.

Now we also decided to get married, i know its abit insane like some bros here. She really can give me the family feeling, everyday cook for me chinese food etc, making me so addicted. After dinner, she will den go to work and i go fetch her home bout 1am. My parents also like her alot, becoz she is capable of doing housework, cooking etc and she is so automatic.

One thing she want me to promise her is, i have to let her work for 1 1/2 yr to clear her family debt and im also very clear she mean it when she say no way she will do anything behind my back. She do not want me to interfere her family problem and wants to settle it all herself. Until now, she did not tell me exactly how much debt her family is in and what causes it.

I know im walking into a dark pit but i really do not know how to give up at this point of time.... I belive its the same when your playing TEXAS holdem, Now im calling an ALL-iN on river which either misery or happiness.

Out from the 1st topic, may i know what are the steps for a marriage? We plan to get married but the wedding feast be held in a later date.
All i know is we need 2 witnesses, pair of rings, proper attires, guy need tuxedos?
Another friend told me that its better to go ICA to inform them we getting married and so on, dunno the exact procedures.

Please advice.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by poop_ant

One thing she want me to promise her is, i have to let her work for 1 1/2 yr to clear her family debt and im also very clear she mean it when she say no way she will do anything behind my back. She do not want me to interfere her family problem and wants to settle it all herself. Until now, she did not tell me exactly how much debt her family is in and what causes it.

Please advice.

let her clear her family debt first then marry her. Not long, just 1 1/2 years

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by poop_ant

I know this viet gal can say is a WL. But she dont always work. Knew her since April.

Give yourself n her more time to know each other. U have yet to discover much abt her.