Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 326

papillon30 · #**4876** 12-01-2009, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Same old thing again, it takes time to know a person better. Just that vietnamese have more tricks in hand. Make judgement based on yr big head, not yr small head. Don't marry because you can have sex free, there's nothing free in this world.

Vietnamese are Academy-award winners.

SingViet · #**4877** 12-01-2009, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by papillon30

Vietnamese are Academy-award winners.

yea, totally agree bro. Maybe we can get them to star in PHIM SEX.

joob · #**4878** 12-01-2009, 03:55 PM

Hi brothers, I have a question regarding where should I buy the Eagle Brand Medicated Oil. I am thinking if going down to the manufacturing factory near Bukit Merah will get me cheaper ones or not. I know some shops at Joo Chiat sells the oil but I think it's expensive. Anyone knows of any place that sells them at a reasonable price? Thanks!

jackbl · #**4879** 12-01-2009, 04:11 PM

I agreed too. They can be good actor/ess, even calafe also good. Currently there is no market for PHIM SEX of vietnam.... If you can open up this market, sure it will be a good business. Don't forget the salary for the actress could be much much lower than those japs...

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Originally Posted by SingViet

yea, totally agree bro. Maybe we can get them to star in PHIM SEX.

SingViet · #**4880** 12-01-2009, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by joob

Hi brothers, I have a question regarding where should I buy the Eagle Brand Medicated Oil. I am thinking if going down to the manufacturing factory near Bukit Merah will get me cheaper ones or not. I know some shops at Joo Chiat sells the oil but I think it's expensive. Anyone knows of any place that sells them at a reasonable price? Thanks!

bro, factory sell at large quantities. If you go there buy 10 or 20 bottles, they won't sell la. I think as long as you don't buy the oil at 7 Eleven, others are all selling at reasonable price.

slaughter · #**4881** 12-01-2009, 05:59 PM

haha. hi boss. thx for correcting me on 'advice'. lol

yea. i agree with all the views and comments all bros mentioned. it is a risk and i've come to terms with myself that i'm gonna take it and see what happens. it's hard to maintain a relationship with 0 trust afterall. probably just be alert of anything fishy. well i certainly agree that loving oneself too much leaves no space for others. hopefully all goes well. it'll be fun to meet up fellow bros with vn wives or gfs for tcss though.

btw bro sv, how do i get someone to trail her for me? as in hire PIs? how much would it cost and how do i go about doing it. more imptly is it trustable?

so, erm, sorry if i keep repeating but there's no one who knows of anywhere that offers viet lessons in sg?

once again, i really thank all bros for the 'advice' (lol) and i hope someday i can contribute my experience too. this is really a great thread and forum that teaches many of us valuable lessons.

SingViet · #**4882** 12-01-2009, 08:53 PM

after 326 pages of discussion about vietnamese life partner, let's take a short 5 mins break. For my fellow bros, something from china

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Have a great week ahead

Hann899 · #**4883** 12-01-2009, 09:11 PM

5555. thanks for sharing . really make me feel better , luck I don't work as a customer service officer .

Hurricane88 · #**4884** 13-01-2009, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by slaughter

btw bro sv, how do i get someone to trail her for me? as in hire PIs? how much would it cost and how do i go about doing it. more imptly is it trustable?

so, erm, sorry if i keep repeating but there's no one who knows of anywhere that offers viet lessons in sg?

First of all, you need to go to HCM and get more acquainted with her family. To get somebody to trail, just pay a neighbour or somebody who lives nearby. This can be done when you are in HCM more often.

PM Tehnofreak, he can guide you where to learn Vnese in SG. For this you need to read the thread "Tieng Viet Lovers Club".

SingViet · #**4885** 13-01-2009, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

First of all, you need to go to HCM and get more acquainted with her family. To get somebody to trail, just pay a neighbour or somebody who lives nearby. This can be done when you are in HCM more often.

PM Tehnofreak, he can guide you where to learn Vnese in SG. For this you need to read the thread "Tieng Viet Lovers Club".

bro, u think the neighbours will trail her for you? forget it bro. You are a foreigner, no way they will do this. Even if they do, you are likely to be cheated. To get someone to trail her, u need local contacts. During such times, there are people out there who are willing to do this, especially those locals in security sector.

Hurricane88 · #**4886** 13-01-2009, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

bro, u think the neighbours will trail her for you? forget it bro. You are a foreigner, no way they will do this. Even if they do, you are likely to be cheated. To get someone to trail her, u need local contacts. During such times, there are people out there who are willing to do this, especially those locals in security sector.

Thank you for your comment...

slaughter · #**4887** 13-01-2009, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

First of all, you need to go to HCM and get more acquainted with her family. To get somebody to trail, just pay a neighbour or somebody who lives nearby. This can be done when you are in HCM more often.

PM Tehnofreak, he can guide you where to learn Vnese in SG. For this you need to read the thread "Tieng Viet Lovers Club".

Ok thanks bro. i will pm bro technofreak laterz.

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Originally Posted by SingViet

bro, u think the neighbours will trail her for you? forget it bro. You are a foreigner, no way they will do this. Even if they do, you are likely to be cheated. To get someone to trail her, u need local contacts. During such times, there are people out there who are willing to do this, especially those locals in security sector.

bro how to get those contacts who are willing to do this? and how much will it cost? any lobang?

SingViet · #**4888** 13-01-2009, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by slaughter

bro how to get those contacts who are willing to do this? and how much will it cost? any lobang?

yr gal is in hanoi, so i am not so sure. But if its HCM, my former bodyguard in HCMC is good at this.

casannova03 · #**4889** 13-01-2009, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by slaughter

bro how to get those contacts who are willing to do this? and how much will it cost? any lobang?

Hmm, bro you really wanna do this? My own personal opinion is that its not very good....

From my understanding of your postings so far I hve a limited opinion but i feel you should use this as a last resort or if you sense or have found out something fishy about her..

First, has she done anything or said anything that cause you suspicion? If yes, then its definitely worth a check on her.

My opinion is that since you've mentioned that she is not a Wl, it puts her on a better platform with which to start a relationship. Nevertheless, like what other bros have mentioned earlier, you need to get to know her better. My advice is to get to know her better via your own efforts and not thru a third party.

I dunno really how to put it but i feel that once you have get to know someone for a period of time, you tend to be able to tell if she is lying or being evasive about things, when you talk. You dun really have to get a PI.

If she really did hide something from you and its found out, then that really justifies your decision and you dun really care if she knows about it (you getting someone to spy on her).

However, if it turns out that she is innocent and she has not done anything behind your back, AND SHE FINDS OUT ABOUT IT!!!

Then i would think that she will end the relationship with you without so much as giving you a chance to explain...Vietnamese gals' pride are quite high! so if you have managed to damage it, i dun see how you will be able to repair it, without a mammoth effort.

So it will be prudent to ask yourself if the situation between you and her now, at this point in time, really justifies the engaging of a PI. If smell something fishy and you'll getting married soon, then by all means, go ahead.

But if its just your own insecurity at work, due to the fact that both of you are apart for a long time, and you dun feel comfortable and she haven done or said anything to cause suspicion, and you'll in no rush to get married, then i think its better to know her better PERSONALLY.

Hope my thoughts helps and sorry if it doesn't!

slaughter · #**4890** 13-01-2009, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

yr gal is in hanoi, so i am not so sure. But if its HCM, my former bodyguard in HCMC is good at this.

lol. my girl is in hcm. i think hanoi gf is other bro's.