Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[vlover]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Talking about vietnamese food. Personally i find this 2 places are no bad.

1) Le Viet, 903 East Coast Road, Siglap Shopping Centre
2) PHO 99 Vietnamese Delights, 57 Amoy Street (seems cater for office hours only, but sometimes 7pm still open)

There is one more at holland village (beside coffee bean) that sells pho which is not too bad, though still lose out to the road-side stalls in HCM..

Regards,
vlover

[ekemono]

I spotted a few Viet eatery at Tanjong Pagar area.

1) Opposite Amoy Street hawker centre (POSB machine direction).. owner's daughter is a SYT
2) Opposite Lau Pa Sa (towards the direction to walk down to CPF building)
3) Opposite MPH book store (somewhere along Mc Callum street)

Noodle is around $7-9 per bowl. Variety is avearge and food taste is also avearge. Definately not as good as in VN.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by v.killers

Wow, give you whatever you want? So you got ask for a BBBJ bo?

Kakakakaka....Joking nia hor

it happen tht the answer is yes

[Coolman_friend]

Originally Posted by papillon30

The word "pai seh" is not in the Viet's dictionary. Whatever they want, just open mouths big big and ask for it. By marrying a "normal" viet gal(who has never been in the flesh trade before) has lesser potential problem than an
ex-WL. Viet, in general, always seem to have money no enuff; everyday sing ABBA's "Money,Money,Money"

Fully agree with Papillion.
The worst part is that they always will tell you many sad story to take money from you like mother & father sick , need to go for operation. The amount they ask can be alot and sometime you might not want to hurt them if their parents is really sick and die because you don't give her money . I will feel regret if next time go to vietnam to meet the parents and relative.
Hi all brothers ,I'm new here and has been following this thread for a long time and yet to post anything cause i have been silently heeding all the brothers' advice here , especially Singviet.
I would also like to share my story to all brothers here as time goes by.
Recently i can't believe the viet girlfriend that i have intend to marry next year has been two-timers and she seem to be very cocky ever since i have open a cafe for her to run a business in Dongnai and showering her with so many things which i sometime think what the heck afer doing so much for her and in return she is seeing another guy. Very pathetic to get into this shit............will post my story again and hope brother here can give me some guidiance .As i think i'm stupid after have been blinded with love for her.
Thinking she is the one i intend to marry and she has been staying with me and my parent before she go back to vietnam ,everyone find she is a very filial and family oriented person, always taking care of the sibling and parents. Just can't believe the outcome........

[69ASIMO69]

Originally Posted by vlover

There is one more at holland village (beside coffee bean) that sells pho which is not too bad, though still lose out to the road-side stalls in HCM..

Regards,
vlover

Went to Le Viet Siglap recently. Their cuisine tends to fall more on Singapore kind of cuisine than Vietnam.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Coolman_friend

Hi all brothers ,I'm new here and has been following this thread for a long time and yet to post anything cause i have been silently heeding all the brothers' advice here , especially Singviet.
I would also like to share my story to all brothers here as time goes by.
Recently i can't believe the viet girlfriend that i have intend to marry next year has been two-timers and she seem to be very cocky ever since i have open a cafe for her to run a business in Dongnai and showering her with so many things which i sometime think what the heck afer doing so much for her and in return she is seeing another guy. Very pathetic to get into this shit............will post my story again and hope brother here can give me some guidiance .As i think i'm stupid after have been blinded with love for her.
Thinking she is the one i intend to marry and she has been staying with me and my parent before she go back to vietnam ,everyone find she is a very filial and family oriented person, always taking care of the sibling and parents. Just can't believe the outcome........

Another typical vietnamese con job. This type of con job is very normal amongst the vietnamese ladies who have foreigner bf. For the last few years, i have got to know a few singaporean man who was conned by vietnamese gf who used the same tricks.

When i married my wife several years ago, she asked for US$6k from me to build a house in her province for her parents. But the marriage is not just that US$6k. After that, it took me a few years to trust my wife as i discovered that her mum took quite a fair share of the money i gave. its always a risk involved. after marrying my wife, i had the first 2 years filled with lots of argument, but i was determined to change that by bringing her to singapore. One of the most sickening thing that i cannot tahan of them is that even if my wife and i know that her relative has cheated us of money, we are not allowed to voice out our displeasure. I really hate this!! Kanna conned must still keep quiet?

After coming to singapore, my wife was exposed to many things and situations that she has never encountered before. I took the many opportunities to talk to her and explain to her. Thru time, my wife learnt a lot. At the same time, i also took the chance to convince her that her mother is not interested in her at all, just interested in her money. The thing that changed everything is when my wife is really convinced that her mum doesn't dote on my twin daughters at all. This made my wife really very disappointed. Nowadays, my wife will never ask me to send money to her parents. Its me that will request to send some pocket money to her parents.

brothers, don't only listen to your dickhead. Vietnamese ladies know that singaporean man are always easily led on by sex and sex is a very normal thing for the normal vietnamese lady. Sex will lead us on and make us part with our hard earned money. Don't be eager to commit totally. It will take time understand a person and the amount of time needed to understand a lady from a different country and culture is surely much more. Its always cheaper to buy sex than to get conned

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

it happen tht the answer is yes

Arhhhh.....Next time will book that hotel....hehehehe

[Honey Boon]

oh yes, brother. Imagine a middle-aged man like myself, the most I need sex once a week. If the viet girl ask for a minimum sum of S$500 per month, I rather use that S$500 to "meet" new girlfriend every week. sorry, I am very calculative wan

Originally Posted by SingViet

Its always cheaper to buy sex than to get conned

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

oh yes, brother. Imagine a middle-aged man like myself, the most I need sex once a week. If the viet girl ask for a minimum sum of S$500 per month, I rather use that S$500 to "meet" new girlfriend every week. sorry, I am very calculative wan

bro, you are not a calculative man, you are a CLEVER man

[Honey Boon]

Bro, I count myself lucky because I started to follow this thread before I met any viet girl. Then from what I read here, especially your contributions and others, those things happended really so real.....

so far so good for me, but I really saw with my own eyes what happend to my cheong kakis who were so stubborn, ignoring the advices from the senior brothers here. .... well serve them right! no need to pity them.

Originally Posted by SingViet

bro, you are not a calculative man, you are a CLEVER man

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

Bro, I count myself lucky because I started to follow this thread before I met any viet girl. Then from what I read here, especially your contributions and others, those things happended really so real.....

so far so good for me, but I really saw with my own eyes what happend to my cheong kakis who were so stubborn, ignoring the advices from the senior brothers here. .... well serve them right! no need to pity them.

Hahaha....cheong with your eyes and heart open.....

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

Bro, I count myself lucky because I started to follow this thread before I met any viet girl. Then from what I read here, especially your contributions and others, those things happended really so real.....

so far so good for me, but I really saw with my own eyes what happend to my cheong kakis who were so stubborn, ignoring the advices from the senior brothers here. .... well serve them right! no need to pity them.

U so clever one...have breakfast before lunch(not lunch before breakfast).

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by Coolman_friend

Fully agree with Papillion.
The worst part is that they always will tell you many sad story to take money from you like mother & father sick , need to go for operation. The amount they ask can be alot and sometime you might not want to hurt them if their parents is really sick and die because you don't give her money . I will feel regret if next time go to vietnam to meet the parents and relative.
Hi all brothers ,I'm new here and has been following this thread for a long time and yet to post anything cause i have been silently heeding all the brothers' advice here , especially Singviet.
I would also like to share my story to all brothers here as time goes by.
Recently i can't believe the viet girlfriend that i have intend to marry next year has been two-timers and she seem to be very cocky ever since i have open a cafe for her to run a business in Dongnai and showering her with so many things which i sometime think what the heck afer doing so much for her and in return she is seeing another guy. Very pathetic to get into this shit............will post my story again and hope brother here can give me some guidiance .As i think i'm stupid after have been blinded with love for her.
Thinking she is the one i intend to marry and she has been staying with me and my parent before she go back to vietnam ,everyone find she is a very filial and family oriented person, always taking care of the sibling and parents. Just can't believe the outcome........

IMHO, it's still not too late to cut loss. Emotional loss is more damaging than
monetary loss. Take it as a trading loss; tuition fee.

[casannova03]

Actually, i had a chat with my wife some time ago about vietnamese gals. the question i asked her was.."Are vietnamese gals who chose to work as WLs different from normal vietnamese gals?" well, as expected , we had a long discussion from this question..

To my wife, there is only 2 types of VN gals - the good ones and the bad ones.

She dun see Vn gals as WL or non WL. For she sees the difference being a choice in jobs. And to add on, no Vn gals chose to be WLs as a career(life-long). Therefore there is no case to comment on a VN gal who has once or sometime in her life chosen to go the path of a WL. Instead the discussion should be on good Vn gals vs bad Vn gals.

Her argument is if the Vn gal is someone who belongs to the good category, she may have chosen to be a WL but ultimately that is short term solution to their short-term problem and more often than not, in their heart, they are still good vn gals.

On the other hand, the bad Vn gals will still be bad even if they did not work as Wls. These bad vn gals who are not WLs may be using the same tricks on guys they know at pubs, discos etc. They have the same motive as bad Vn gals who chose to work as WLs. Maybe only in name, they seemed more 'high class'. Thats about the difference.

During her times, when she was still working as a Wl, it was easy to know who were the 'suckers' of man. At that time, their community was small and news spread fast in their network, never mind that they are working in different places. Most of these 'suckers' usually are gals who came here to work because they want more money for themselves and their own desires of life. No underlying reasons such as family needs etc. And often, they belong to the gambling group who will spend more time at some places gambling than at pubs working. you normally only see them at work religiously like gals who needs the money, when they have a bad streak at the gambling sessions and needs nore money.

So during her time, things were not that complicated. However she did admit that some Singapore guys are real carrots! Super real carrots! They would offer to bring them shopping at expensive places like Taka and Paragon....without the gals asking...so if they meet with the good gals who normally dun know what Gucci are, then they are lucky for they may get away with just one or two purcahses..... but if they meet with one of these 'suckers', who's to be blame when these gals change Gucci bags like changing underwear?

Now, she thinks most Viet Wls will resort to KC-ing and getting more money because:

1.)things in Vietnam is getting much much more expensive unlike during her working days.

2.)Viet Wls are everywhere now. It is a case of supply more than demand thus every gal will have to fight for a share of our chionging population.

3.)The ppl that bring or intro them the kang tao to work are getting more organised and taking more cuts.

4.) it is no longer a case of this month earn less go back two weeks come again. Now its harder to come here cos of tight immigration rules.

Therefore she thinks that men have to be really careful now cos money has become a bigger issue than 5 years ago for Wls. Even good gals need money now to cover house rentals, tickets, agent fees...

So to cut a long story short, You have to be careful when you are out there! i think i took a lot of short cuts in writing this post but i hope that i was able to bring my idea across..

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

so far so good for me, but I really saw with my own eyes what happend to my cheong kakis who were so stubborn, ignoring the advices from the senior brothers here.

Should be ".. ignoring the ADVICE from the senior brothers here.".

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.