Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[papillon30]

It's hard to accept that hubby slept with her

[Hurricane88]

MONEY MONEY MONEY...

I thought this is where all things happened...

The Pubs are opened for biz because to make money...
The Vn girls are there to work and earn money....
The brothers are there to enjoy and happily to give away money....

so who is complaining...

chiong with your eyes open...there are good apples and there are bad apples...this principle applies to all nationalities....as long as you enjoy yourself, you cannot complain....

[darkangel83]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I have posted several times before about the MONEY issue for viets. I will say majority of WL are for the money, but if you are lucky, u may just find 1 WL that is good. Everybody needs money, but earning it the proper way is much better than cheating others for it. bros have to learn to differentiate between the good and bad.. learn not to trust so fast and easily. Only Time Will Tell

I feel that the MONEY is an issue for everyone (for me too ), not just the viets and especially if they are from poorer family. (this doesnt mean that well-to-do people dont have the MONEY issue). For once let us see the things from the other side, the vn gal side. If you happened to be in relationship with a guy, dont you wish that the guy will be able to help you to lessen the financial prob? As we all discussed in the earlier thread, it's their family members attitude (lazy lazy and lazy) that force the girls to work. They really have a lot of pressure. And I do admit, if my happened to know and see that my gf need $$, I will help her, but of course in a reasonable amount.

However in every places, there are of course some black sheeps that taint the image of the vn gals by cheating money and love. I can accept the 1st one, but not the latter. Maybe they also understood that now it's the dog eat dog world, and they will do anything to get $$. (those "black sheeps). Of course if one wanted to be in a relationship with anyone regardless of their nationality, one must approach it slow and steady. Dont rush for it and let nature take its course.

Sorry for babbling so much, I just can't take it when so much people are condemning/labeling the vn gal.

[Honey Boon]

to them... asking $$ by using all kinds of excuses is not "cheating", is just a way to earn, and they think this is a proper way.

they said: I didn't cheat what? I tell a story and nobody forced you to believe. You believe, you give me money so I earn it by telling you a story. Is proper what?

Originally Posted by jackbl

The sentence strucks my mind "Everybody needs money, but earning it the proper way is much better than cheating others for it."

[Honey Boon]

no complain, no complain... every game has its own rules ...

happy, play more

no happy, don't play la

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

MONEY MONEY MONEY...

as long as you enjoy yourself, you cannot complain....

[toucher1972]

Originally Posted by darkangel83

I feel that the MONEY is an issue for everyone (for me too ), not just the viets and especially if they are from poorer family. (this doesnt mean that well-to-do people dont have the MONEY issue). For once let us see the things from the other side, the vn gal side. If you happened to be in relationship with a guy, dont you wish that the guy will be able to help you to lessen the financial prob? As we all discussed in the earlier thread, it's their family members attitude (lazy lazy and lazy) that force the girls to work. They really have a lot of pressure. And I do admit, if my happened to know and see that my gf need $$, I will help her, but of course in a reasonable amount.

However in every places, there are of course some black sheeps that taint the image of the vn gals by cheating money and love. I can accept the 1st one, but not the latter. Maybe they also understood that now it's the dog eat dog world, and they will do anything to get $$. (those "black sheeps). Of course if one wanted to be in a relationship with anyone regardless of their nationality, one must approach it slow and steady. Dont rush for it and let nature take its course.

Sorry for babbling so much, I just can't take it when so much people are condemning/labeling the vn gal.

agree with u bro.......as long the girl is telling the truth and no cheat the feeling,i will help...........the problem is they use they skill to make u fall in to they trap and then will chop u, to me better u r a friend but no lie than u r a lover but u r cheat the feeling, i will prefer help the 1st one..........hmmmmm sounds too sentimentil huh

[technofreak]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

at the end of the day, majority of the viet girls just can't be trusted lor.

It applies to WLs of other nationalities too...Not only Viets. It would be finding a needle in a haystick if a good one comes along...

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

One quick question to all bros here. If a Viet girl who works in the pub/ktv tell you she don't lam tinh with customers. Will you believe? What are the odds?

Hmmm on seeing your post, I recalled what my gal (whom I met on the plane to HCM) told me before...That she went hotel overnite with customer n was paid $200, only chatting but no lam tinh. Does anyone believe??

Originally Posted by vlover

Lost hope in finding a true relationship out of these girls. So the morale of the story is to just PLAY PLAY PLAY...

Don't give up...Must open eyes big big to look for potential candidates while continuing your sexcursions (CIM included) too...

Originally Posted by fullboost2bar

Bro, i beg to differ. I have come across 1 girl from vn, never take a single cent from me. I know her for 1 day then she go back vn. I call her in vn everyday, after 1 month i go hcm find her. When i go there, she never ask me buy anything for her, in fact, when we go out with her friends, i paid the bill she very angry coz why everytime her friend order the food ex !! On my last day in hcm, juz give her S$50 she also no angry or sad. (wanted to go take money but she say dun go) When she come sing for 1 month, every nite go pick her up, not to mention afternoon also hve go out with her. have 1 time 1 boy(knew him for 2 mths) sms her go out, she dun want because i coming to fetch her later. By accident, i saw the sms she noe i very angry. Guess wat she did, i'm also taken aback.

I experienced a situation similar to u (Known her on plane)...But her true colours was revealed 6 months later. Started to ask for a MOTORBIKE (S$3k for birthday), $2k for opening cafe there, air-tickets n accommodation etc. over a period of another 6 months. But I only bought her air-ticket once...N I dumped her soon!!

I did not get to know her in pubs, but onboard Tiger. So how do you see this bro??

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by technofreak

That she went hotel overnite with customer n was paid $200, only chatting but no lam tinh. Does anyone believe??

I believed. Becos I do that b4....not just once...to me sometimes doesnt need to always fark...hugging hugging abit chat chat...sleep also feel good....If not fark liao lose interest in the girl liao

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I believed. Becos I do that b4....not just once...to me sometimes doesnt need to always fark...hugging hugging abit chat chat...sleep also feel good....If not fark liao lose interest in the girl liao

Are u sure or not???

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Are u sure or not???

Very the sure. u want try ? give me money i chat with u whole night

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

...

Didn't mention any money mah... Without paying chit-chat in rm maybe can loh...

If S$200 quite a sum oredi, to chat2 perhaps there's some other specials e.g.

- can see-thro totally, she does strip-dance in rm, etc.
- superb SYT that can be tackled, but 'red' day - heavy petting only loh
- that day happened to be pretty low customer-rate/the AV just whacked the working area so the ger agrees to go elsewhere
- one knows the ger & she belongs to your close bro/fren; or she knows your ger!

.....lots of potential reasons.

if little money is spent - u offer the lady something else in rtn, perhaps this also another method. Others are overly drunk/spent, one is damn lonely but not hornee...

No worry lah, as long the person paying/not-paying is happy, enuf.

[toucher1972]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

............

- superb SYT that can be tackled, but 'red' day - heavy petting only loh

guess this reason is the best....kekekeke...........(many times happenned to me be4 )

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by toucher1972

guess this reason is the best....kekekeke...........(many times happenned to me be4 )

I reckon the better time to tackle is not month end or early of the month.. but indeed it's all luck. One week later u can loh...so, tackle first, fcuk later. Tackle spent $200, then fcuk cud be free...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I believed. Becos I do that b4....not just once...to me sometimes doesnt need to always fark...hugging hugging abit chat chat...sleep also feel good....If not fark liao lose interest in the girl liao

You sure hug and chat and sleep together u can control? If the gal is good in bed, i think there will be more interest.

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua

Very the sure. u want try ? give me money i chat with u whole night

you give me money i can hug and sleep with you also


For me I sure cannot control. Even over night never bonk (maybe due to tiredness), in the morning, cock sure marikita and need find hole to insert. heehee.
Further more now over night in hotel no cheap anymore. Thats why I like to go to the beach

[toucher1972]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

........ Tackle spent $200, then fcuk cud be free...

..or could be more