Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

how I wish I could have visited this thread before i paid a heavy price for those nonsenses before .....

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Bro, all of us have to go thru and learn....paid a price to get experience...important is at the end still chiong, chiong more...just enjoy and be happy lor...

Damn those KC tricks. If you cannot get over it. It will be hell and end up being a sad fuck yourself.

Yeah nothing beats cheonging fresh pussy. Old one don't go, new one don't come.

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by papillon30

Vietnam latest news - Thanh Nien Daily

"Meanwhile, 112 women, all from Mekong Delta provinces, were allegedly kept in a 15-square-meter room on the hotel’s third floor to wait their turn"

Among the Koreans were seven men, one of them a broker, and four women.

That's one hell of a meat market! I notice there're a lot of Koreans residing in HCMC. What are their vested interest?

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by darkangel83

Not all WL are bad, because i befriended a few (no sex and money involved) and sometimes we just poured out heart out. It is actually quite enjoyable to talk with them because of different culture and life experience.

As long as they don't take us for granted and carrot heads then just being good friends is fine.

[toucher1972]

i'm new in this forum and my english not so good,so sory if the pronounce is wrong....i'm indonesian,went to HCMC twice and meet one girl with group in apocalypse,now we r lover,she is divorced and have 1 daughter,husband was taiwannese so now her daughter must studying in international school,when i in HCMC i never gave her money directly but i gave her daughter "hongbao" because im afraid if i gave him direcly,maybe she will offended,so i gave to her daughter cause i know she need it....now we still in touch via internet chating,few days ago she asked me a favour that she need money to pay her daughter school,she said her daughter need to pay every year because is international school and its quite a lot of money she asked,now i'm confused want to give her or no,cause i dont know this is real or she just want to cheat me but frankly saying when i'm in HCMC,i saw her not like other girls,she really nice to me and i meet her daughter too,three of us went for dinner together and i can feel she is good mom......so i hope bros can give me some idea,what i should do?really thanks

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by toucher1972

......went to HCMC twice and meet one girl with group in apocalypse,now we r lover,she is divorced and have 1 daughter,....................never gave her money directly but i gave her daughter "hongbao" because im afraid if i gave him direcly,maybe she will offended,so i gave to her daughter cause i know she need it....now we still in touch via internet chating,few days ago she asked me a favour that she need money to pay her daughter school,she said her daughter need to pay every year because is international school and its quite a lot of money she asked,now i'm confused want to give her or no,cause i dont know this is real or she just want to cheat me but frankly saying when i'm in HCMC,i saw her not like other girls,she really nice to me and i meet her daughter too,three of us went for dinner together and i can feel she is good mom......so i hope bros can give me some idea,what i should do?really thanks

Bro, what's your ROI here?.... how much are we talking about?? .....it seems that you can afford to give and that's why you are asking us for opinion. BTW, who is paying the fees currently???

To give or not to give is yourself....just follow your heart.....the answer will be revealed fast which ever decision you make....

Likely scenario....if you give then there will be more request in future...then how again you will face another dilemma....if you dun give then sure somebody have to give or pay for the fees...so does it mean end of romantic love story....sorry for being blunt and direct....hahaha

Suggest you read all the previous posts to gain some knowledge regarding other brothers experiences......similar cases happened before...

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

One quick question to all bros here. If a Viet girl who works in the pub/ktv tell you she don't lam tinh with customers. Will you believe? What are the odds?

Likely scenario is no, the girl lied thru her teeths .....or yes, she has a brother who is supporting her needs...hahaha

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

That's one hell of a meat market! I notice there're a lot of Koreans residing in HCMC. What are their vested interest? :

I think not only Koreans, alot of other nationalities are residing in HCMC....think all interests should be similar ie. biz, work, cheap, fun, pretty Vn girls in abundance,,,,,,etc....hahaha

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

As long as they don't take us for granted and carrot heads then just being good friends is fine.

Bro, support you on this point...well said...

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by toucher1972

i'm new in this forum and my english not so good,so sory if the pronounce is wrong....i'm indonesian,went to HCMC twice and meet one girl with group in apocalypse,now we r lover,she is divorced and have 1 daughter,husband was taiwannese so now her daughter must studying in international school,when i in HCMC i never gave her money directly but i gave her daughter "hongbao" because im afraid if i gave him direcly,maybe she will offended,so i gave to her daughter cause i know she need it....now we still in touch via internet chating,few days ago she asked me a favour that she need money to pay her daughter school,she said her daughter need to pay every year because is international school and its quite a lot of money she asked,now i'm confused want to give her or no,cause i dont know this is real or she just want to cheat me but frankly saying when i'm in HCMC,i saw her not like other girls,she really nice to me and i meet her daughter too,three of us went for dinner together and i can feel she is good mom......so i hope bros can give me some idea,what i should do?really thanks

Hey Bro, this is very subjective.

It depends on you and the amount...

If you are earning $1k plus every month, and she is asking for $3-5K, dun you think it will be hell to you and of course dun say if it is not real and you kana cheated, then it will be real pain to you.

but if you are earning $20-30K every month, and she is asking for $3-5K, then you should use another method again, saying that you are not earning so much and do not have so much savings. But can only give $2-3K at the moment, since receive your next pay, then give her another $1k. In this way, to you, it would be peanuts to pay, but in her view, you are quite a nice guy, but also might be only a small carrot for her to chop on.. But even lost, also that a bit only.. Just try lor if you have the spare cash and the amount is minimal..

[Pele]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Have. Just that a faithful wife is hard to find from a Geylang or Joo Chiat pub.

Must look for wife in the correct places. Not in a bar.

Agree bro. There are good ones to choose from the correct places.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by darkangel83

Not all WL are bad

If u let me say, I would say all WL are bad, they only turn good when they managed to get something they want or something which be able to turn them bad from good forever.

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

f a Viet girl who works in the pub/ktv tell you she don't lam tinh with customers. Will you believe? What are the odds?

If u willingly, then I will get her lam tinh with me but the cost u pay. Everything comes with a price. if u willingly to spend a bit more money, then i guess it is only the mater of time that she break down her defence. If not then in the 1st place they come for what?

Originally Posted by toucher1972

husband was taiwannese....international school .....i saw her not like other girls

3 points to note:
1) she have husband already, then y u bother?
2) international sch is not cheap in vn, since she xixaxixon want to go international sch, then y u bother?
3) everyone who kanna such case will say she girl is not like other girl. So all WL is the same, then y u bother?

Originally Posted by Pele

Agree bro. There are good ones to choose from the correct places.

wah....even footballer Pele also love viets now.

[toucher1972]

[QUOTE=Hurricane88;2908243]Bro, what's your ROI here?.... how much are we talking about?? .....it seems that you can afford to give and that's why you are asking us for opinion. BTW, who is paying the fees currently???

To give or not to give is yourself....just follow your heart.....the answer will be revealed fast which ever decision you make....

Likely scenario....if you give then there will be more request in future...then how again you will face another dilemma....if you dun give then sure somebody have to give or pay for the fees...so does it mean end of romantic love story....sorry for being blunt and direct....hahaha

Suggest you read all the previous posts to gain some knowledge regarding other brothers experiences......similar cases happened before...



sory bro i dont know what is ROI?i never asked and dont know who is paying the fees currently maybe her mom because when i said have to wait to collect the money for a period,she said ok but maybe she can ask her mom to pay first,u r right bro maybe if i give this time i will face another favour more in the future but what can i do,so so dilemma,why all VN girls like that...sory i read a lot in this form so i think like that,dont be offended to bros who have PM there

[toucher1972]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

3 points to note:
1) she have husband already, then y u bother?
2) international sch is not cheap in vn, since she xixaxixon want to go international sch, then y u bother?
3) everyone who kanna such case will say she girl is not like other girl. So all WL is the same, then y u bother

yes but she is divorced and never in touch with the daughters father again,about the school,she said because the daughters father is foreigner so must go to international school,is it true?thanks for the comment

[ekemono]

What is "lam tinh" ?? to have sex izzit?

If so, then I would say it's a matter of the price one is willing to pay and with a bit of persausion when needed.

I have a viet gf of almost a month half and I believe she does that. Even her buddy does that. Some nights when after I am done with my booze friends I go pick her up during late nites and occasionally she told me mei mei go hotel.

As for my gal, the 1st time we had sex, she confessed that she did have sex with regular who supported her all the way. It's what the customers are after anyway. I didn't ask how many men and all that, cos it's not what they matters, it's what i matters.

I dun give her money unless she's really high and dry that week. And so far only 2 occasions. Small amount, just to cover her marketing and weekly rental. That's all she wants.
They have to work hard considering each gal have to pay almost $400 for rental, and probably $500 to TT home to feed child/parents monthy. And we haven't include her own expenses yet like some shopping for clothes and food, toilettries.

Unless we are talking about those super chio beauty queen, on average each pretty looking gal can take in at best $100 if she is lucky to have a few tables that weekend night. But on weekdays nights chances are slim. Some go home with nothing.

I bonk my gal many many times since we met. I dun know if this is the right way to gauge but on 2 occasion her pussy seems loose. The rest of the days they are tight. So could it be another dick has enter on those 2 occasions?
On deeper analysis it probably doesn't make sense.
This area I need some enlightenment

My standing with her now is that I am not her sugar daddy and thus she still goes to work. I am not bother with what she does while at work cos in actual reality, she does need money but not from me.
She said she wants to be with me and does not want to be in this line. I told her to reconfirm her decision.
last night we chatted abit on her line of work and she said she knows I won't like it so she choose not to sleep with customers.
What a deep KC trap.

But at least for now, she dun squeeze me of money and strictly insist she pays for her own shopping. Lately she told me mum called asking for money to TT home. I tot she will pop the golden question but instead, brought me to 81 for hugging and sex and said she doesn't wants me to be at JC area during night time cos when she sees me she no mood to work; and she needs to work for money.

So one occasion I was still not enough beer after with my kakis so called her to ask where she is. Upon reaching the pub, got my jug of beer. She saw me, immediately put her bag/cardigan at my table and later after a while came to stick to me. Whether her customer already gave her tips or not i dun know, but confirm she stick to me no tip one.

Her KC trap is truely deep, and she is very possessive of me. I sometimes like cannot breathe. She check on my sperm level, she check on my HP for call log, msg in/out box. Everytime after i see her home she will call later to check on me if I have reach home. Til the point sometimes when I was in a little naughty mood, she request I switch on radio and turn on fan to let her hear thru the mobile phone(something hotel81 dun have..)

Hopefully I can find some time to write up my encouters with her to share

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Her KC trap is truely deep

Only 2 words....good luck....

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by toucher1972

yes but she is divorced and never in touch with the daughters father again,about the school,she said because the daughters father is foreigner so must go to international school,is it true?thanks for the comment

For your qns, I do not know. But seem to be no logic unless the child is not considered vietnamese. Maybe SingViet will know better

[Scolari]

Originally Posted by Pele

Agree bro. There are good ones to choose from the correct places.

Wah, ex-soccer lengend also interested in viets now?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by toucher1972

sory bro i dont know what is ROI?i never asked and dont know who is paying the fees currently maybe her mom because when i said have to wait to collect the money for a period,she said ok but maybe she can ask her mom to pay first,u r right bro maybe if i give this time i will face another favour more in the future but what can i do,so so dilemma,why all VN girls like that...sory i read a lot in this form so i think like that,dont be offended to bros who have PM there

ROI = return on investment....you pay a certain sum and how much you want in return...

Not only Vn girls are like tat, all nationalities have their good and bad apple...you seem confused and alot of things you haven't found out about her....good luck....hahaha