Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[a2014]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...fantastic advice...give her small allowance monthly and let her bonked by others....great advice...haha....

so what if hit jackpot...you mean she will force you to marry her...dun be naive...do you know that abortion is so cheap and common in Vn...also there are so many single mother be it married or unmarried in Vn...

if any newbies will to listen to your advice then this is what VBs are exploiting and caling sinkee men soft hearted idiots...

If you don't agree also don't scold me but anyway good reasoning from you.

1. If she is making so much money in this small piece of land do you think she will take that small money ?

2. If it is in Vn do you think I care whether she hit jackpot or not ?

So it's basically, this is what I can offer, please leave. I just didn't want to say get lost. But if she take then maybe she is really stupid.

That is why I said if you have the stamina and some money, just offer very small token and see how it goes. I guess we all know which direction it will go.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by a2014

If you don't agree also don't scold me but anyway good reasoning from you.

1. If she is making so much money in this small piece of land do you think she will take that small money ?

2. If it is in Vn do you think I care whether she hit jackpot or not ?

So it's basically, this is what I can offer, please leave. I just didn't want to say get lost. But if she take then maybe she is really stupid.

That is why I said if you have the stamina and some money, just offer very small token and see how it goes. I guess we all know which direction it will go.

read my post carefully...which part did I scold you...

as for 2. HCM is just 2 hours away by flight with around 15 flights per day...

if you guess which direction it will go then why give such advice..

see simple...we have not read/heard of your story and then you appeared here giving advice...from your history in this forum...nobody will listen to your newbie advice...becos you have not shared enough stories here of your own...

[curious76]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

read my post carefully...which part did I scold you...

as for 2. HCM is just 2 hours away by flight with around 15 flights per day...

if you guess which direction it will go then why give such advice..

see simple...we have not read/heard of your story and then you appeared here giving advice...from your history in this forum...nobody will listen to your newbie advice...becos you have not shared enough stories here of your own...

hahaha.. thanks for the advice.. Anyway, I know what i am doing.. I have to take back the control... I have gone thru all this before.. Cock think before the head..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by curious76

hahaha.. thanks for the advice.. Anyway, I know what i am doing.. I have to take back the control... I have gone thru all this before.. Cock think before the head..

seriously I am bery tired to advise you any further...you are simply beyond redemption...pls do what you like...dun come here asking for advice when you dun listen..good luck to you...

[a2014]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

see simple...we have not read/heard of your story and then you appeared here giving advice...from your history in this forum...nobody will listen to your newbie advice...becos you have not shared enough stories here of your own...

nvm about all my comment. nvm about my history. nvm about if any people will listen. nvm about if I am a newbie.

I just said what I feel since it is a public forum.

Anyway thanks for your advise.

[damong777]

Originally Posted by curious76

hahaha.. thanks for the advice.. Anyway, I know what i am doing.. I have to take back the control... I have gone thru all this before.. Cock think before the head..

Just two cents worth of advice.

If it is affecting u too much, then just let go. No point to keep trying to salvage a relationship with a vb when her priorities are different from urs.

Once you understand their culture better and been to vn a number of times ( esp if u can go provinces and see how they live), then u will understand why h88 feelings on vb.

Technically I only pick up the language from mar this year and been to vn coming Nov 6 times this year making me a novice still. But talking to vb on fb, wechat and in personal shaped my thinking on vb. There are always more where they come from. Open ur options more. Like what bro milfcafe said, there are always more 5 mins away.

No one here is forcing to break up with her. Just honest and uncoated advise since there are so many cases in a year here. Me included. Options given and is up to u to decide your route.

[damong777]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

seriously I am bery tired to advise you any further...you are simply beyond redemption...pls do what you like...dun come here asking for advice when you dun listen..good luck to you...

Wow...sounded like me when I first talked to you...lol

Now look at me...tough advise but good advice.

[charming888]

Conclusion, all vb think we r money printing machine.life is short, enjoy the game.somtime we r also 有心无力呀!!!!

[singlun]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

seriously I am bery tired to advise you any further...you are simply beyond redemption...pls do what you like...dun come here asking for advice when you dun listen..good luck to you...

He's still caught in the endless loop refusing to accept the fact. Let's try to be more understanding. It's just like a young chap refusing to accept the fact the his beloved gf had left him for another guy, and finding loads of excuses to convince himself of what the gal did.

Bro curious76, there's only that much we can do for you here. She's not the only vb in this world. Lots of cute sweet young vb waiting for you to support them in vn.... why insist on this tree when there is a forest out there for u to explore?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by damong777

Wow...sounded like me when I first talked to you...lol
Now look at me...tough advise but good advice.

Is always the same when you fell in love first time...nothing goes into your head till the VB "mia or told you straight you had been dumped becos you are an stupid idiot"...dun mind my language...but this is hard fact for sinkees to find out...so why waste my time on newbie who dun bother to listen...

Originally Posted by singlun

Bro curious76, there's only that much we can do for you here. She's not the only vb in this world. Lots of cute sweet young vb waiting for you to support them in vn.... why insist on this tree when there is a forest out there for u to explore?

exactly what you said...he has not ventured to the SOURCE (Vietnam) where loads of VBs waiting for him to pick and choose...he thinks what he had found is a gem...but sadly he will be mistaken...

[singlun]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

exactly what you said...he has not ventured to the SOURCE (Vietnam) where loads of VBs waiting for him to pick and choose...he thinks what he had found is a gem...but sadly he will be mistaken...

Before I first stepped into vietnam, i tot the vb in joo chiat are so young,sexy and charming... always looking forward to go there enjoy their company.

Now i have been to vietnam a couple of times, I'm more and more interested in that place..
And now jc don't interest me anymore.. in fact, i think they look rather ugly compared to the gals in vietnam...

You never know what you're missing until you get there...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by singlun

Now i have been to vietnam a couple of times, I'm more and more interested in that place..
And now jc don't interest me anymore.. in fact, i think they look rather ugly compared to the gals in vietnam...

You never know what you're missing until you get there...

we are on the same page now...dun bother with the VBs coming here since we often go to the SOURCE...many of my friends started to see my point when we visited Vietnam often...best travel around the Mekong Delta with a few guys and you understand what I meant...if you can get a kiss here...you can get 2-3 kisses by pretty VBs over there...

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by charming888

Conclusion, all vb think we r money printing machine.life is short, enjoy the game.somtime we r also 有心无力呀!!!!

not sure to what extend we are printing machine but the rest I agree
if the vb help us to help them, maybe it will last longer or even surprise ending ...

[devilcheong]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

we are on the same page now...dun bother with the VBs coming here since we often go to the SOURCE...many of my friends started to see my point when we visited Vietnam often...best travel around the Mekong Delta with a few guys and you understand what I meant...if you can get a kiss here...you can get 2-3 kisses by pretty VBs over there...

I agree that there have more Pretty SYT and very nice looking VBs there.. been there few times and there is 1 very very long weekend night market in Hcm which would be filled and crowded with tourist, locals and Vbs until nose bleed.. but nowadays cannot go due to wifey dun like Vietnam already coz she knows me like to see Vbs...
Been to certain places in Viet before and really missed their foodies and Vbs over there..
Somemore at nite can see some waitress wearing Ao Dai which is thin enuf to see through their inner beauties..

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

we are on the same page now...dun bother with the VBs coming here since we often go to the SOURCE...many of my friends started to see my point when we visited Vietnam often...best travel around the Mekong Delta with a few guys and you understand what I meant...if you can get a kiss here...you can get 2-3 kisses by pretty VBs over there...

Agree that there are many opportunities at the SOURCE, I met one vb age 25 rating 7/10 during a trip in Sept this year and we have been contacting for 2 months and just last week she asked me to be her bf and I rejected her due to my commitment with another vb.
So my point is it is easier to get a vb from the SOURCE rather than going to JC or GL to find your future bx/wife or companion.