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I know a VB, who did not ask me for money. Instead she keeps pestering me to give her a baby, I �� scared, chua tio.
She is a orphan and has a 8 year old boy already still want one more.
In Vietnam, she works very hard with very long hours for 300sgd (Is it reasonable there?) and don't like to depend on others for money. She had bought a house, paying off soon in 2 years time.
I give her money but she says NO. I guess I will wired a little over to be fair to her. Known her for coming to a year only though.
you think she stupid...once she has your baby...you willingly listen to her...include handing over $$$....
I have the same thought. I told her I am too poor to help/have anybody. Pay only for her food see if she run far far away. Till now, have not run. Don't know what steps to take, see how first.
She knows I cannot marry her and bring her here. Don't know what's her thoughts.
$200 very little liao. I advice you not to give when she ask. Later father sick, mother sick, house destroyed, child schooling all come out.
LOL i dun want to give for now, and she dun want share her family probs with me i dunno why.... she scare bring me trouble(hopefully lol).... she always go drink with me i give tips reasonable right? somemore i give malaysia ringgit in johor so i think ok lol. or dun give tips like kinda bastard? lol....
bro blue, ur gal wif the baby thing is super kc trap imo = one fast track to PR and working chance in sg!
LOL i dun want to give for now, and she dun want share her family probs with me i dunno why.... she scare bring me trouble(hopefully lol).... she always go drink with me i give tips reasonable right? somemore i give malaysia ringgit in johor so i think ok lol. or dun give tips like kinda bastard? lol....
bro blue, ur gal wif the baby thing is super kc trap imo = one fast track to PR and working chance in sg!
No PR, she knows. Don't know what's on her mind. Pestering baby constantly.
Bro, don't be upset if I give you an assumption......
Maybe there are no family at all.... she make it up.....
Next time ask her to call her mother...... when she speak to her mother you will know..... they speak differently.
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Originally Posted by mackewell
LOL i dun want to give for now, and she dun want share her family probs with me i dunno why.... she scare bring me trouble(hopefully lol).... she always go drink with me i give tips reasonable right? somemore i give malaysia ringgit in johor so i think ok lol. or dun give tips like kinda bastard? lol....
bro blue, ur gal wif the baby thing is super kc trap imo = one fast track to PR and working chance in sg!
Never ask you to be a bastard..... just telling you this one no good just find a better one... no need to be sad.
By the way; you must be a Chinese.... only Chinese will think "if a gal let you F; it is a big deal."
The truth is; SEX is nothing to a lot of VBs. So don't over read a VB with your emotion.
Maybe you seldom for in love........ hence you so emotional. That can be a death trap.
Bro i am a singaporean chinese who speaks hokkien, but i disagree that i am traditional i dun have taboos and tell myself i must get married. SEX is nothing lol i can fuck and forget, but when towards a girl i like its a different story, i deserve that space and i deserve to choose the kind of r/s i want with her, there is no right or wrong. If you think you can like ang moh just flirt and flirt and move on, good for u, not for me llol....
I seldom in love cuz i choose my girl, i dun blind blind choose chio, big breasts or what, emotional connection more impt imo.... lol i not xin jiao leh y all think i like blur blur....
Bro mackewell; I bet you never read the first 300 pages of this thread.... since you say you are lazy.....
You should...... and you will see what you mention now is not new.
already read over, but still choose to stick to my faith unlike typical singaporeans who are afraid to move out of their comfort and think marriage nia.... I am lazy to read signature but i like to read stuffs and watch taiwan variety shows on r/s so i know the chinese languge and culture well but to me i am not 'cheena' if u get me , i am not, i dun have the 'give me face' ' i scare i heng suay' all this bs.....
No PR, she knows. Don't know what's on her mind. Pestering baby constantly.
BTW what happened to your Thai GF, no more Liao?
Since when i got thai girlfriend? i dun have before, i go patts is chiong one. No gf lah , actually wanted to go into thai pooying but scully this viet girl come into my life first.....
think you are very sick...more like tio gong tao...haha...but so many years gong to Wetnam I never heard of gong tao....kkkk....
lol... gong tau i should have kena when i am in thailand but scully tio by viet girl, see how lah my gong tau super budget leh... nothing to lose, cry abit more lor... shave less i suppose....
Not saying you greenhorn also..... just that when you meet VB; the method to use is implemented differently.
They are good mother; good lover and can be very very good wife.
You method of choosing is what I use 1 year ago. You are choosing who you love.
I am choosing the one who love me. Just like my SIFU H88.
Even I like my girl; I cannot show too much. Pretend to be binh thuong. (normal)
When she do thing I don't like; I ignored her. Don't answer her call for a few days.
My personal record is 27 miss called in 1 hour and total over 100 miss call from a VB for 4 days.
Let them jump up and down. She love you more.
If you felt all this are so strange...... don't be. Just like you; it sound very strange to me when H88 teach me how to handle my girl when I start to panic.
bro, i like ur breakdown, u are not typical chinese, mi LIKE! LOL.... same as me
I think you get it wrong, i introvert even till today, i not like the uncles shout or grab girls by the hand and ask to sit with them, i give eye contact to girl and smile abit, if she want come, she come lor, if i think she not bad, i will ask her sit down when i at lorong 13. My girl insisted to sit with me she suddenly pop out from nowhere when i drinking teh o at lorong 13 during late aug 2013.
Next, i din give her tips also , she never ask LOL. Scully everytime we makan she feed me fries at macdonalds, feed keropok, wipe my mouth. I never ask her do leh, she veri happy to do that. in car or tax, hug me like glue sia i also never ask her do that cuz i tt time i knoe she lao jiao so i dun believe.
But her kc trap(hope not) super no returns one, till today i also hardly give her money, buy her medicated oil lah give her tip in malaysia ringgit when we drink lah, fair lah. So bottom line is she came into my life for some reason, she say i good heart she like, she lao jiao see all kind of men, when i say why dont u find a rich ong xa in sg and marry, she become dulan with me lol. I not bastard, i know she want a better life and if i cant give her , i tell her. I din like her first, but i am willing to let her go if she is happy tt way....
bro, i like ur breakdown, u are not typical chinese, mi LIKE! LOL.... same as me
I think you get it wrong, i introvert even till today, i not like the uncles shout or grab girls by the hand and ask to sit with them, i give eye contact to girl and smile abit, if she want come, she come lor, if i think she not bad, i will ask her sit down when i at lorong 13. My girl insisted to sit with me she suddenly pop out from nowhere when i drinking teh o at lorong 13 during late aug 2013.
Next, i din give her tips also , she never ask LOL. Scully everytime we makan she feed me fries at macdonalds, feed keropok, wipe my mouth. I never ask her do leh, she veri happy to do that. in car or tax, hug me like glue sia i also never ask her do that cuz i tt time i knoe she lao jiao so i dun believe.
But her kc trap(hope not) super no returns one, till today i also hardly give her money, buy her medicated oil lah give her tip in malaysia ringgit when we drink lah, fair lah. So bottom line is she came into my life for some reason, she say i good heart she like, she lao jiao see all kind of men, when i say why dont u find a rich ong xa in sg and marry, she become dulan with me lol. I not bastard, i know she want a better life and if i cant give her , i tell her. I din like her first, but i am willing to let her go if she is happy tt way....
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