Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Am I correct to say then that if her a**hole of a husband decides to revoke her LTSVP, by virtue of her Work Permit, she gets to stay in Singapore? Are this two documents inter-related?

If not, then its a strategy that my bro can use to ensure that his "Basar" (well she got real "wet" and vice versa) stays in the little red dot despite what her husband do!

i think your bro dun know what he is getting himself into...first get involved with a married woman...of course its fun...but dun get caught...secondly dun think he understand Viet gal yet...not so simple as your bro and you are thinking...conflict of interest here...

ask yourself this..now that your bro call her baxa...means wife...see the thing here your bro is completely kc...do you really think she wants to go taiwan when she is already here in sinkie...most VB already knew that taiwan is a no go...sinkie is better...think she will start to ask your bro or already mentioned to him that she wants certain sum of money to send back to Vietnam...she mentioned Taiwan is just a ploy to gauge your bro kc level...

if you dun already know and let me highlight again...very common that VB had many diff bf...she may not like her sinkie hubby...but she will not give up her LTSVP easily...her motives are simple...who can provide more and better for her...dun think your bro or you know the Viet culture and scene well enough...for me, I had heard and learned for 6 yrs and still learning new things daily...

above is just my humble opinion...

[Honey Boon]

you are too humble la...

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

...for me, I had heard and learned for 6 yrs and still learning new things daily...

above is just my humble opinion...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

you are too humble la...

always remain humble...live life simple...no stress...bonk longer...

[Honey Boon]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

always remain humble...live life simple...no stress...bonk longer...

and live longerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

always remain humble...live life simple...no stress...bonk longer...

Sifu,I have a problem here, after breaking off with my ex, I know a vb recently about a month.I want to visit her in hcmc sometime end of this month or early next month.We chat/call everyday and she asked me to visit her mother.

Sifu, I know you are a very experienced man,what should I do now ? Does she treat me like a walking ATM? I don't want to get hurt again... you told me PAY AND GO and forget everything, but now it is GO AND PAY.

I want to follow your motto.. live life simple... no stress.. bonk longer.. but I can't.

Your advice is very much appreciated.Thank you

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Sifu,I have a problem here, after breaking off with my ex, I know a vb recently about a month.I want to visit her in hcmc sometime end of this month or early next month.We chat/call everyday and she asked me to visit her mother.

Sifu, I know you are a very experienced man,what should I do now ? Does she treat me like a walking ATM? I don't want to get hurt again... you told me PAY AND GO and forget everything, but now it is GO AND PAY.

I want to follow your motto.. live life simple... no stress.. bonk longer.. but I can't.

Your advice is very much appreciated.Thank you

ur case will just repeat and repeat and repeat until one day u have the honour to buy si fu a beer and he will show u some tricks...

meantime, to bonk longer, u already know there is this magic tablet....

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Sifu,I have a problem here, after breaking off with my ex, I know a vb recently about a month.I want to visit her in hcmc sometime end of this month or early next month.We chat/call everyday and she asked me to visit her mother.

Sifu, I know you are a very experienced man,what should I do now ? Does she treat me like a walking ATM? I don't want to get hurt again... you told me PAY AND GO and forget everything, but now it is GO AND PAY.

no shifu here...only friends...and friendly sharing...for those who listen...

this a simple case...i knew your background because we knew each other and shared before...my answer to you is dun bother to visit for your case...reason is very simple...what purpose it will serve...moreover just know one month...what do you hope to achieve....ask yourself then simple logic apply...unless you are telling me you haven't bonk her...

well to take you as a walking ATM then you need to answer yourself...what motives she want to bring you to meet her mother...think answer can be simple...you to pay for everything during the trip, dinner, gifts for the family, relatives, friends, etc...

after this trip...ask yourself what else next month, next next month, 6 months from now....one year from now...etc...how hurt you want to be...who can hurt you if you dun self induced...

bro deptrai advice also valid...

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

ur case will just repeat and repeat and repeat until one day u have the honour to buy si fu a beer and he will show u some tricks...

meantime, to bonk longer, u already know there is this magic tablet....

No problem lah beer,bottle also cheap right ? The price of coke or mineral water only ma.

What you like ? I can spend you end of this month if you are in hcmc ?

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

no shifu here...only friends...and friendly sharing...for those who listen...

this a simple case...i knew your background because we knew each other and shared before...my answer to you is dun bother to visit for your case...reason is very simple...what purpose it will serve...moreover just know one month...what do you hope to achieve....ask yourself then simple logic apply...unless you are telling me you haven't bonk her...

well to take you as a walking ATM then you need to answer yourself...what motives she want to bring you to meet her mother...think answer can be simple...you to pay for everything during the trip, dinner, gifts for the family, relatives, friends, etc...

after this trip...ask yourself what else next month, next next month, 6 months from now....one year from now...etc...how hurt you want to be...who can hurt you if you dun self induced...

bro deptrai advice also valid...

okok... will think again.. need to pay consultancy fees

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

That's what I want to prove to her as she want to listen to her friends in Taiwan! Got any articles and story to help me make my point?

Got her cousin there who wants her to help out in the food business. I want her to know that this is illegal and therefore dangerous!

if she is determined, nothing can change her mind lah, that is vietnamese for u. no matter how many facts u try to prove with. U think she will listen to u who is only her "bf" brother or her cousin?

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Okay - she is my Brother's (the real flesh and blood type, same mother) lover. Its not me. I am happy and contented with my small neh neh like roti prata fiance!

The way u post, u dun seem to be happy n contented with yur fiance.

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Seasoned brothers help me out here:

My Viet friend is thinking of going to Taiwan to work. She is frustrated that her LTSVP does not allow her to work as she has trouble getting her husband to support her monetary wise.

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Lobang picha oreidi. What to do, my brother really gila for her. Lup her deep deep ......

1 advise for u and yur brother, if she can do this to her current husband, she can do the same with yur brother in the future if yur brother cannot support her monetary wise.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Anyone knows what is the implication of getting Work Permit on LTSVP? Any repurcussions?

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i think it is just a pass for her to stay in sillypore longer. But apply work permit means must work in the factory/shop that employ her. If she quit, work permit also cancel.

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

Am I correct to say then that if her a**hole of a husband decides to revoke her LTSVP, by virtue of her Work Permit, she gets to stay in Singapore? Are this two documents inter-related?

If not, then its a strategy that my bro can use to ensure that his "Basar" (well she got real "wet" and vice versa) stays in the little red dot despite what her husband do!

there is no implications in getting a WP. Like KT said, it is also a pass for her to stay in singkie for the period mentioned in the WP, ususlly is 2 yrs and she has to work only in the place that is stated in the WP.

Once u got yur WP, yur LTSVP is no longer vaild and have to surrender to the Minstry of Manpower. In any point in time she cannot hold 2 passes. So they r not related.

BTW, what did the husband do that made u call his a a**hole? u only hear her side of story, did u know of the whole big picture of what is going on? Always listen with a pinch of salt! My 2 dongs.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Greatking

When I read tru Jobs Classified, I notice some posted "LTVP welcome" too. Hotels industry. Maybe you would like to check up on job classified more often?

From my knowledge, LTVP can still work, but it is on case-to-case basis. Call up the hotline, tell them this case, get the officer to call you back. No Email contact found.

Think u referring to LTSVP+. Only LTSVP+ holders are allowed to work but have to apply for a Letter of Consent to work. LTSVP holders are not allowed to work.

Yes, i have mentioned b4, there are lots of jobs out there, just that ppl lazy to look and have a misconception of lowly educated cannot work and earn much.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Greatking

Immigration Offender Reporting Form!

I scan tru ICA website...i notice something new... they have this Immigration Offender Reporting Form now...

Just for all your information.

It is for ppl to bao toh those overstayers. It is not new, has been there since 2008. Also know as Overstayers Report Form.

[asdfghjkl]

ok thanks.. seems ICA is getting tougher these days..

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

ok thanks.. seems ICA is getting tougher these days..

Thanks who sista?