Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[HoundDo9]

Originally Posted by Darga

...i just want to thank all the people who have helped me and given me usefull recommendations especially to hound who have patiently answered all my questions so once again thank you dude!

Don't mention it, I'm happy to hear it was helpful. It's a different world, a awesom place to explore and it's easy to miss or go wrong. But once you find what your looking for you will find that everything is better in Japan ( especially sushi ). I leave you with a anime opening which reminds me of Japanese woman. I'm sure you will find an "excuse" to return soon.



HD.
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Enjoy your traveling more with the Hound Dog exotic Destination Agency

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by Darga

So, finally I got to meet both Mistress Ayatsuki and Nina in Tokyo. It was a session that I never will forget and Im glad that I went to La Siora. They were both very skillfull and respected my kinks. As you said Hound, you should really be carefull what you wish in front of them and I heeded you call when I filled out that formula. Still when I saw what stuff that they pulled out I was thinking for myself "wtf did I write on that paper". The session started intesively and they quickly managed to tie me up pretty good without being able to move and then all the fun began. I got strapped, humilated, spanked/whipped and much more. Also, the 160 minute went by so quickly that I was surprised when it was over. I just regret that I didnt know more Japanese words because they were mostly having the convesation in their language and sometimes Mistress Nina translated but it was a bit hard for me to say something. At the end of the session Ayatsuki told me that I indeed was a kinky man. In overall, I had a great time with them and I will surely return to my country with a big smile. They really marked me for life in a good way and now im addicted to Japanese femdom. The only sad part now is that Im leaving Japan and I dont know when I will come back again. Im therefore a bit depressed over this situation and unfortunately for me there are not so many good pro dominas where I come from at all and the one I used to serve have just retired. Most of them even looks bad. Regardless, I will finish this trip by going to a nice tempura restuarant to calm down a little bit and do some reflection over the session. In two weeks time I will be going to Amsterdam for only 3 days and any recommendation for any BDSM activites are much welcome since I really need a new fix to overcome my sadness of leaving Japan and La Siora but I doubt I will be able to meet anyone close to Nina and Ayatsuki. It will be a long trip home.....but before i log off i just want to thank all the people who have helped me and given me usefull recommendations especially to hound who have patiently answered all my questions so once again thank you dude!

Bro,

I am happy you enjoyed your experience in Japan.

I experienced some of the dommes at Sweet Devil. Very good sessions

B 'n' Y

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by rharlan

I am tempted but think her rates are a little too high. Oh well, maybe I'll do a few less trips to Geylang and save up.

She does look hot.

Dear Bro Rharlan,

Mine & other brothers rave reviews of a Mistress Sayako are well documented on this thread.

In terms of cost, Mistress Sayako's fees are very reasonable. I know of other Mistresses in the US, Europe & Japan who are charging $500 sgd an hour. Singapore is now a global city & I think her fees are reasonable when you compare her charges with other mistresses globally. Bear in mind also, there are costs incurred when she travels to SG.

Having a session with Mistress Sayako or any other amazing Mistress is not only a great experience but can ignite your imagination & dark desires for years to come.

B 'n' Y

[Darga]

Hound, this maybe sounds weird but to overcome my travel depression I have started to plan my next trip already to have something to look forward to. Now when I was in japan for two weeks I managed to do a lot of sightseeing and visit different towns and taste all that amazing food. All that was great but this time around I want to devote myself only to the art of bondage and food . Hopefully i can return next year and save up some cash to have several sessions with them and maybe try Sweetdevil also. It is just a shame that these femdom clubs dont have their own studio anymore due to the law. Also thanks for the links unfortunately this will be a very short work trip so i will only have time to do something in Amsterdam. There surely must be something good.

And to blacknyellow, thanks for your answers too . This thread is so good with friendly people that share a common intress for bdsm.

[Lundgren]

Originally Posted by Darga

Hound, this maybe sounds weird but to overcome my travel depression I have started to plan my next trip already to have something to look forward to. Now when I was in japan for two weeks I managed to do a lot of sightseeing and visit different towns and taste all that amazing food. All that was great but this time around I want to devote myself only to the art of bondage and food . Hopefully i can return next year and save up some cash to have several sessions with them and maybe try Sweetdevil also. It is just a shame that these femdom clubs dont have their own studio anymore due to the law. Also thanks for the links unfortunately this will be a very short work trip so i will only have time to do something in Amsterdam. There surely must be something good.

And to blacknyellow, thanks for your answers too . This thread is so good with friendly people that share a common intress for bdsm.

Hey Darga! Welcome to the Japan fanclub! I am happy that you also found the True Home of the Masochists; Japan.
It is truly intoxicating and heady to finally be with the elegant, intelligent, beautiful mistresses of our dreams, and on top of that, to often experience mutual feelings from them. Even though I am just a normal guy, I have often experienced true sadist intensity and connectedness on a personal level (in a mistress-slave way) from the mistress. Amazing.

...Of course, all this is a perversion of love that is leading nowhere fast. Being in a relationship with a mistress probably is not wise (I have tried and failed), and being submissive in a relationship with woman does not work either. So for the long run, we should probably find "normal" love in our home countries... In many ways (also with food, people and culture) Japan is an addiction many of us cannot (or will not) quit from :-).

Good luck out there and thanks for the FR ("field report").

Lundgren

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by Lundgren

Hey Darga! Welcome to the Japan fanclub! I am happy that you also found the True Home of the Masochists; Japan.
It is truly intoxicating and heady to finally be with the elegant, intelligent, beautiful mistresses of our dreams, and on top of that, to often experience mutual feelings from them. Even though I am just a normal guy, I have often experienced true sadist intensity and connectedness on a personal level (in a mistress-slave way) from the mistress. Amazing.

...Of course, all this is a perversion of love that is leading nowhere fast. Being in a relationship with a mistress probably is not wise (I have tried and failed), and being submissive in a relationship with woman does not work either. So for the long run, we should probably find "normal" love in our home countries... In many ways (also with food, people and culture) Japan is an addiction many of us cannot (or will not) quit from :-).

Good luck out there and thanks for the FR ("field report").

Lundgren

I have never been in a romantic relationship with a mistress myself. Despite the dominant characteristics, I reckon most of them are fairly submissive in bed.

B 'n' Y

[Lundgren]

Originally Posted by blacknyellow

I have never been in a romantic relationship with a mistress myself. Despite the dominant characteristics, I reckon most of them are fairly submissive in bed.

B 'n' Y

Hey B 'n' Y.
I do not mean to sound expert on woman (really!), but in my opinion I think you are right. The dominas I have been close to, and lived with, have wanted both sides of my manliness: They have accepted my submission, but have also wanted me to worship them in bed like "normal" woman, and also sometimes wanted me to take charge in the "traditional" manly way in the relationship.

But in my opinion, the reason they are dominas are, that they have issues with normal relationships. They become easily annoyed, have short tempers, and their reaction to being annoyed, is taking charge, and wanting to subdue others.
I love them to death for this reaction. It is very sexy, connects us on the deepest level of our souls, and I am very happy they will share this part of themselves with me.
But though we love and need this part of them, it is just not a good gut-reaction or attitude in a marriage or relationship between equals in the long run in my opinion. You could also easily make a good case that our submissive reactions are not productive either.
Alternatively, we could try to be in a 24/7/365 relationship. I do not believe in that either.

So I think Ninas (from Siora) blog-title is very telling for the situation me (and maybe many of our bros, and probably many of the dominas) are in: It says: "Ninas life-long nap. Please dont wake me up from this BDSM-nightmare". It is a lonely nightmare partner-ship wise, but with the dominas, we have such a deep and sexy connection, that we may not want to "wake up" and quit.

Anyway, all this could be broad generalizations that says more about me than it does the world, and I would be happy to hear if any of you guys have had better luck integrating the two parts of you in relations to women.

Cheers,

Lundgren.

[otherOne]

What do you guys think about Missbluesky on Collarme? anyone had session with her b4?

[Darga]

Im only in my late 20:s and I have not had any experience with having a domina as a gf. Have always though about the idea but the idea of living a 24/7 as a submissive seems like a bad idea! I Used to have a domina which I met regulary for 2 years and I could tell that she had very strong opinion how things should be and could easily be annoyed if I told her differently (would be punished later for that so it was really not a problem hehe). But as you said Lundgren beeing a submissive is not really productive either. In all my relationship I have always kept it as a secret including all persons that I know. It is always a little bit awkward when I hear my friends or someone joke about being dominated and humilated as something strange and weird. Cant really tell them that Im one of those guys.

[rharlan]

Originally Posted by otherOne

What do you guys think about Missbluesky on Collarme? anyone had session with her b4?

Have written to her, she does not respond.

[blacknyellow]

Originally Posted by Darga

Im only in my late 20:s and I have not had any experience with having a domina as a gf. Have always though about the idea but the idea of living a 24/7 as a submissive seems like a bad idea! I Used to have a domina which I met regulary for 2 years and I could tell that she had very strong opinion how things should be and could easily be annoyed if I told her differently (would be punished later for that so it was really not a problem hehe). But as you said Lundgren beeing a submissive is not really productive either. In all my relationship I have always kept it as a secret including all persons that I know. It is always a little bit awkward when I hear my friends or someone joke about being dominated and humilated as something strange and weird. Cant really tell them that Im one of those guys.

I think I have sent this link out a few months ago. However, if you haven't read it before, read it here.

http://www.blog-mistressnatalie.com/...-breaking-him/

Just imagine if you were Mistress Natalie's permanent slave

[Darga]

That was an interesting read and I agree with previous post. I dont know If I should envy him or feel sorry for him .

[onsenmaster]

I did have one or two relationships with a mistress that can be called romantic. Didn't find it particularly fulfilling long term wise. At first, you will feel like you have achieved something most guys and submissives can only dream of. That's satisfying the egoistic part of me. Slowly, as the relationship developed, I find it increasingly unsatisfying as I am unable to relate to her on a normal level. Yes the sex was simply terrific but at the end of the day all guys need someone to return home to talk about everyday problems. Many of these mistresses are in this line because they have been introduced to it by a friend, and it's another way of making good money. I tend to always take it with a pinch of salt whenever a domme tells me she is in this line due to her interest. The interest is just something that hopefully grew with each passing session until the domme accepts this as a way of life and living. I'm speaking from an Asian perspective. Not sure if that is the view in the west.

Falling in love with a domme or trying to impress her is never wise. Other than to satisfy one self's egoistic tendencies I do not see a reason why these dommes should be treated differently from the FLs or other girls that one goes to for sexual release. Of course I'm not likening dommes to pros. Rather, the same rules of engagement apply. For pros, f and F off. For dommes, enjoy and F off. It really should be a business transaction although most guys will be clouded by self made excuses like...she really knows what I want...so sexy to submit to someone half my age...

I have been thru this stage before so I thought I'm in a better position to comment but of course you are free to think otherwise. Most Japanese men too regard such transactions as business-like. They do bring gifts but these come from the perspective of a tribute. It is easy to get withdrawal symptoms after fantastic sessions in japan. Call it the lack of culture and quality locally. I reckon singapore girls can be just as sexy or sexier than most Japanese girls. It's a pity that they do not pro domme.

Originally Posted by Footsubby

The pic of the four mistress attending the foot fetish party

http://imgur.com/i1g1v7m

http://imgur.com/PIbnMWe

http://imgur.com/JWposuM

http://imgur.com/If85NxR

Any updates?

The above PRCs dommes look attractive

I'm quite keen

[Jimm]

Hi Guys,

I have a question with regards to Mistress Sayako's services, hope those who know Mistress Sayako well can advise.

I have a fetish for crossdressing and pegging which I would love to experience with Mistress Sayako, I am not into pain or scat or most of the parts that go with BDSM. I know some Mistresses are fine with milder play but not others who are into the more hardcore activities.

Just wanted to find out if anyone can advise if what I have in mind with be suitable with Mistress Sayako's sessions?

Thanks Guys