Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[Intimissimo]

Found another nice PRC Femdom video from xiaobai's collection
倾城女主's thread

Trampling in heels and stocking, golden shower
Trampling
Foot worship, anal play
Heels step until shoot
Trampling, heel fucking his navel until he shoots! Surreal
Golden shower & Scat, "red gold"
More golden shower more scat, 2 mistresses

Password: zxc2048

[Lundgren]

Field reports from Japan and some thoughts.

First some thoughts:

The motivations of the dominas I have met in my life can be placed somewhere on a continuum between two extremes. Lets call it "the motivations-scale".

In the sad end of the scale, you have the dominas (and clubs) that are doing their job only because of the money, because they have found a way to get a lot of money they could not get in another way. The horrible prospect of this is, that in effect, the girl is then sometimes doing something with us she at best find boring and annoying, and at worst is violating and traumatizing her, and which also supports some unscrupolous people behind the scenes. Here we also find "trafficing" and stuff like that.

On the happy end of the scale are the dominas (and clubs) where you sense that they have actively persued this field because they fell drawn to the bdsm world. Sure, they want to make a good living doing their jobs well (like we do in our jobs), but they could just as easily have persued another career and been succesful there also. And with these dominas you have to find the one with the right chemistry, because these kind of dominas will be choosy of their costumers and the sessions.

It is sometimes difficult to judge exactly what the motivations and true feelings of the domina is, but we are obviously concerned about this.

In Thailand I have seen many things that are near the bad end of the scale. Same here in Denmark because BDSM is often linked to prostitution. Not rock bottom like trafficking, but bad enough.

But in Japan there are many places and dominas who are very near the happy end of the scale. As far as I can judge.

La Siora is definitely in the last category. It is run by a real mistress (I have met her), and I have met many dominas there that obviously could persue other carreers in life, but actively chose this. I have not have good chemistry with all of them, but many of them. To have good sessions with these amazing, resourceful women is a true privilege.

For those of us who are 100 % slaves in our feelings toward women, this is the only chance we have to feel united in an authentic way with another person.

Normally when I visit Japan these days, I only visit mistress Nina. She is very clever, resourceful and extremely beautiful. She really want this job. She needs it for her soul as much as we need the sessions.
I am totally sure that she enjoys torturing me and that she respects me and cares for me in a mistress kind of way. I am eternally endepted to her: She saves my soul in those few intimate and painful moments we are together.
She is probably not for everyones taste, but for me she is a perfect BDSM-match.

This time when I was in Japan, she was unavailable, so I ventured other places.

I visited Mistress Rei from Fetishi-sm.com in Osaka.
She does not show her face in the pictures, but I can tell she look good. Not super beautiful, but good. Her figure looks exactly like I expected from the pictures, so she is a beautiful woman. I guess she is 30 years old.

As for the sessions, we had some very good moments. She had some interesting "sm-tricks". She was rather too soft than too hard pain-wise, but that could develop with trust.
It was very difficult for me to "read" what her feelings about our meeting was.

As for the club, I am still a bit unsure of the setup. I thought I heard a mans voice on the phone with Rei, and there are some other bad details: The suitcase the girls trolley around has "fetishi-sm" written in large letters on in, and the meetup place is in a very sad and seedy part of the town. The communication with them is good though. No problems there.
I may go back another time.

I also meet Angelina from Sweet Devil.
She was a gem! She totally took over the room when she entered with her charm and energy. She also quickly took over the session: No "topping from the bottom" there. She was very hard on me, but she seemed expert in knowing when to stop the torture, and when to proceed. She obviously enjoyed our session and it was a meeting I will carry deep in my heart.
She looks exactly as I expected from her pictures.
The clubs entry-system is very good and serious, and it seems to be a respectable club. Communication is excellent.
I do not know who runs the club. Ideally I prefer my sm-club to be run by a mistress.

Can´t wait to get back to Japan again. Most people there are extremely friendly, the culture is rich and interesting, and it is a safe-haven for us kinky fellas :-).


To Bro Totolim:

1: Thanks for the tip on Nagoya. I did not plan to go there in the future, but you may have changed my mind.

2: Yes, I think I may have helped both Nina and Tohka (and others) get up in the rankings in Siora…. Well deserved at that. And your post makes me realize that they are probably all reading this thread also. Don´t you think? (I would too).

Cheers

Lundgren.

[calbts]

Great reports Bro Lundgren.

Was there a reason why you chose Rei over Kira or Saran? Just curious.

Did you attempt to get an appointment at Club Fin?

I totally concur with your thoughts on comparing Thailand to Japan.
There are few good Mistresses here in Thailand as the scene is really only been around for the last 10 years or so vs. an ingrained culture of SM in Japan.

Bottom line is if you want the best scene and Mistresses in the world - you gotta go to Japan.

The only thing Japan really lacks is large and plentiful dungeon spaces/environments like they have in Germany.

Originally Posted by Intimissimo

Found another nice PRC Femdom video from xiaobai's collection
倾城女主's thread

Trampling in heels and stocking, golden shower
Trampling
Foot worship, anal play
Heels step until shoot
Trampling, heel fucking his navel until he shoots! Surreal
Golden shower & Scat, "red gold"
More golden shower more scat, 2 mistresses

Password: zxc2048

cannot see! cannot open the file!

and what is this zxc2048 password? type in where?

[onsenmaster]

Good and honest assessment of Japan. I always had great sessions with all the mistresses there, but with the added element of chemistry, a few were simply out of this world. Yes, they do care about their clients, and ensure their clients are genuinely well taken care of and happy. It's a very Japanese thing to do.

Besides the clubs and mistress bars, other events worth attending are the fetish parties that are regularly held in many major cities. Used to attend some of those. Unlike those in other countries, these feel totally sane and safe. Go dressed in your fetish garb and you never know whom you might chance into there.

[leekwantew]

Originally Posted by osubken

Mistress Sayako will again be in Singapore from 4 March to 15 March. She will be putting up in the Tanjong Pagar area. Contact Mistress directly to arrange a session. Details can be found at

http://www.mistresssayako.com/hometravel.html

Does she have a price list? Cant find it

[Lundgren]

Hey Bro Calbst.

Thanks for your words.

I chose Rei because Saran was unavailable at the time (I really wanted to met her), and eventhough Kira is probably an amazing domina, I prefer younger dominas.

Another good thing about Osaka I forgot to tell: They had a quite decent bdsm-hotel nearby for the "rest" rate of 3100 Yen. The normal hotel they used was only 2000 yen. Not bad, and definetely part of the equation.
In Nagoya it was opposite: Super expensive lovehotels and no bdsm-rooms I could find.

I did not try to contact club fin.

Lundgren.

Originally Posted by calbts

Great reports Bro Lundgren.

Was there a reason why you chose Rei over Kira or Saran? Just curious.

Did you attempt to get an appointment at Club Fin?

I totally concur with your thoughts on comparing Thailand to Japan.
There are few good Mistresses here in Thailand as the scene is really only been around for the last 10 years or so vs. an ingrained culture of SM in Japan.

Bottom line is if you want the best scene and Mistresses in the world - you gotta go to Japan.

The only thing Japan really lacks is large and plentiful dungeon spaces/environments like they have in Germany.

[HoundDo9]

Originally Posted by Lundgren

Field reports from Japan and some thoughts.

Bro Lundgren,

I have a few comments, I agree with some of your conclutions. Yes quality is abundant in Japan but you and I as ganjins are only able to see the very top of the iceberg. There is a huge fetish fueled industry we can't access in the more basic delivery health and hentai services. At the top of this pyramid there are the Queens. That is why you find them devoted and at the top of the game, they are. While some catere to foreigners the majority of the industry +95% don't.

In Thailand, this whole fetish thing is against there culture. Sure there are sadists and masochists in Thailand too, but the culture for it isn't there. For many people in the industry it's a way to make a lot of money without taking of all there clothes. While some surely cater to the domestic scene I have a gut feeling its +80% for foreigners, but it's probably higher.

I'm not saying Thai mistresses are bad, some are truly excellent, they just lack the movies, magazines, anime, manga, books and an culture acceptance needed for it to thrive on its own.

Thank you for your reviews of Japanese adventures. You made me wish I was going there again.

HD.

[calbts]

Bro HoundDo9,

I believe some of your comments about gaijin access to Japanese adult services are not quite accurate.

Today especially, the number one determinate in being able to "access" the industry is Japanese speaking ability - irregardless if you are a foreigner or not.
Different types of services(and there are many in Japan) have different probability of success rates.

I would say that BDSM clubs ( primarily clubs with more Queens vs. subs such as La Siora, Sweet Devil, etc. ) accept all foreigners these days. They may not cater to them like a La Siora(which I do appreciate) but what does that really matter? I go to a club to interact with a particular Mistress and if I really want to see her I will not let anything get in my way. Some of these clubs will depend on your Japanese speaking to communicate on the phone to get appointments etc. . We have even had some reports here that the infamous SADS group that had a bad past reputation of being racist does accept Japanese speakers.

Now some of the other types of establishments that focus on sexual contact- delivery health, soaplands, etc, - I would guess today it is maybe 50% success rate for fluent Japanese speaking foreigners. How do I know this? Well I have some American friends living there and their Japanese is at a very high level - much better than me - and when they call delivery health services they ask right at the start if gaijins are ok. About half say yes.
Someone with no Japanese has no hope with these places because they cannot communicate.

I do agree that there really is no sex industry in Japan geared towards non Japanese like there is in Thailand. There are a few delivery health for English speaking foreigners in Japan like Asian Mystique but they are much more expensive than Japanese services and often with inferior looking girls.

Another unfortunate factor in determining access to the sex contact places is the type of foreigner you are.
At the top of the list are foreigners of Asian descent that can pass off as Japanese.
Next are Caucasians.
Then at the bottom are Negros, Indians, and Muslims.
I personally abhor racism of any kind but this is just the way it is in Japan.

Bottom line in all of this is that if you are fluent in speaking, writing, and reading Japanese - you will be able to access much of the entire Japanese sex industry. And unfortunately your race will determine your acceptance to the sex contact places but should not hinder going to any BDSM Queen.

And oh yeah-

I do not like Nagoya(especially vs Kyoto/Osaka) - does anybody notice that Club Absolute is down to only 7 Mistresses? Wonder what is going on there and who is that idiot webmaster of SMQR.com - the same for Club absolute ,Club Wise, and Mo Paradise that has that non Japan IP block and being able to view the full sites correctly. I have actually emailed them many times about this and just get ignored.

[HoundDo9]

Originally Posted by calbts

I do not like Nagoya(especially vs Kyoto/Osaka) - does anybody notice that Club Absolute is down to only 7 Mistresses? Wonder what is going on there and who is that idiot webmaster of SMQR.com - the same for Club absolute ,Club Wise, and Mo Paradise that has that non Japan IP block and being able to view the full sites correctly. I have actually emailed them many times about this and just get ignored.

Bro Calbts,

I beleive these websites are geared for Japanese Smartphones. If you add HTML they normaly work fine. But it took me a long time to figure this out, it's none obvious. As smqr and mo-paradise only sell to Japanese credit cards ( from what I remember ) they probably wanted to reduce the amount we freeloaders use up.

Works fine
http://www.club-absolute.com/Html/Index.htm
http://www.smwise.com/Html/

Only front page works, sorry
http://www.smqr.com/Html/index.htm
http://www.mo-paradise.com/html/index.htm

As to Absolutes number of mistresses, numbers always go up and down. I must admit I find all of them gorgeous, and with good skills. And Hibiki-san is defiantly A force behind the scene that keeps them focused.

HD.

[Lundgren]

Bro HoundDo9 and Bro Calbst:

I can only speak 20-25 words of Japanese. I am very friendly and feel very at home here in Japanese (that is actually also a big reason why I go there), but still there are loads of interesting places I cannot access. I mean really, really interesting places!

I have tried mailing and calling quite a few places during the last 3-4 years, but I am mostly rejected.

My local sushi-man here in Denmark has relatives that own some kind of "service" in Tokyo. According to him, they do not like to have foreign costumers, because we do not know how to behave towards the women.
That makes sense: There seems to be very many "codes of conduct" in Japan, and I am sure many foreigners could not do it right even if they really tried.

Luckily some truly amazing places are still open to us, and I am sure the people on this forum are not making them regret that they allowed us to have sessions with them.

Cheers,

Lundgren

[onsenmaster]

Unfortunately, a significant number of Japanese, especially the owners of the establishments and those with links to the yakuza, do discriminate against gaijin involvement to a certain degree. At the same time, majority of Japanese are also nationalistic. Most frown upon their best from falling into the 'wrong hands'.

Not to sound prudish here. But a Japanese native laying hands on a Japanese lady, is different from a gaijin or non-Japanese doing the same thing. The stagnant economy might have accelerated some of these establishments to open up and be more enterprising, but truth is the underbelly will remain inaccessible unless you know someone inside or just happen to get lucky. Otherwise, speaking the language and being Asian helps a great deal.

I am Asian and non-Japanese, but can easily pass off as one as I do speak fluent Japanese due to my frequent travels and postings there in the past. I can say that although most people around the world will have the impression that Japanese men are jerks, they are still the preferred clientele. Back during the days when I was still grappling with the language, I have asked and researched on this many times, and people have told me that 99% of foreigners simply do not behave in the appropriate manner in Japan, as they just cannot understand or comprehend subtlety in body language and culture.

I can see this slowly being eradicated, but not within the next 10-15 years. Fortunately, for the people of this thread, the best is already open and accessible to us. Most of the other mistress clubs are not that well run compared to the ones already mentioned here. Having a head mistress as owner of the establishment makes a significant difference to the quality of the ladies there.

For Thailand, I have had limited exposure. But I have to agree that there are 2-3 really good ones that I have had in the past year. First thing that came to mind was Lorita who was here last Dec.

[okiepoke]

Originally Posted by onsenmaster

Unfortunately, a significant number of Japanese, especially the owners of the establishments and those with links to the yakuza, do discriminate against gaijin involvement to a certain degree. At the same time, majority of Japanese are also nationalistic. Most frown upon their best from falling into the 'wrong hands'.

Not to sound prudish here. But a Japanese native laying hands on a Japanese lady, is different from a gaijin or non-Japanese doing the same thing. The stagnant economy might have accelerated some of these establishments to open up and be more enterprising, but truth is the underbelly will remain inaccessible unless you know someone inside or just happen to get lucky. Otherwise, speaking the language and being Asian helps a great deal.

I am Asian and non-Japanese, but can easily pass off as one as I do speak fluent Japanese due to my frequent travels and postings there in the past. I can say that although most people around the world will have the impression that Japanese men are jerks, they are still the preferred clientele. Back during the days when I was still grappling with the language, I have asked and researched on this many times, and people have told me that 99% of foreigners simply do not behave in the appropriate manner in Japan, as they just cannot understand or comprehend subtlety in body language and culture.

I can see this slowly being eradicated, but not within the next 10-15 years. Fortunately, for the people of this thread, the best is already open and accessible to us. Most of the other mistress clubs are not that well run compared to the ones already mentioned here. Having a head mistress as owner of the establishment makes a significant difference to the quality of the ladies there.

For Thailand, I have had limited exposure. But I have to agree that there are 2-3 really good ones that I have had in the past year. First thing that came to mind was Lorita who was here last Dec.

I have had one experience in Japan at La Siora with Akiho and it was excellent. My problem is that I rarely make it to Japan. As for Thailand, I have been there several times and have had numerous sessions there, normally with 3 Mistresses at a time. No, they are not as experienced as the Japanese Mistresses but it is a fun change of pace to have to answer to 3.

My favorite in Thailand is Mistress Christy, who moved to Italy a few years ago but recently announced travel for a few weeks to Bangkok. She is very beautiful, experienced and kinky. She trained Lorita who I believe may be related. Mistress Christy's sister Aria also used to session and a combination session with her and Christy is one of my all time favorites. I believe Aria has moved to Australia.

I have had sessions with Synee and Suniya and enjoyed the time with both of them. I have also enjoyed sessions with Jasmine, Bella and Nikki at Thai Domina. I have not had a chance to session at Mistress Midori's but plan to at some time. I find Jaa to be very interesting but have not had a chance to session yet.

For the money, Thailand is hard to beat. Accomodations are much cheaper and it is a pretty kick ass town.

[blacknyellow]

Hello Brothers,

Mistress Sayako is back in Singapore from 4th March until 15th March. She will be located around Tanjong Pagar area. For further details, check out her website here

Personally, I have experienced numerous sessions with Mistress Sayako. Globally, she is one of the most professional & beautiful dommes & we should appreciate her upcoming visit.

B 'n' Y

[raygoat]

Thanks BnY, I also received email from mistress sayako. Already schedule a session with her. Yes, she is that good everytime she returned ,I will sure to see her for a session. Actually, I feel she is very good in her session. When I am with her, I felt I belong to her. Only after the session then I start looking at serving her again and mostly I have to wait for at least 3 months before she return. Unless I schedule another session with her before she leave Singapore but that is too hard on my pocket. So far I been with mistress sayako ever since she started here. Already been 2 years and so far I haven't find someone that good. For guys that haven't try yet, take the first step and I am sure you will be like me being her regular slave. Cheers for the coming weekend and awaiting mistress arrival. ��