[Need help] I have a friend who have problems having sex.

[3someking]

Guys, need your help on this friend of mine. Basically my friend has been married for 6 years and he does not have a child yet. He is 32 this year. He seems to have a problem having intercourse. He loves to masturbate on a daily basis and love watching porn. He is able to ejaculate while doing so but if having intercourse with his wife, he claims that his dick would start to harden but then turn back soft within a few seconds, hence he unable to ejaculate.

This happens outside too. When we chionging ktv, the viet gal would rub his dick and then turn soft within few seconds. The viet gal would ask why soft. It also happen when we went to lorong too. He cant seems to maintain his dick hardness. Even we went to this particular pinay pub, the pinay gal tried to give him a HJ and immediately turn soft and the gal was shock.

So we advice him to see a doctor and the doctor prescribed him with pills. After eating the pills, it wont work on him too. The Doctor told him that nothing is wrong with him, its just his mindset. We did try ask him to buy a pill from one of the bros here its called Menplus or something. It helps to maintain erection but still wont work. Anybody here willing to advice how to help my friend? Thanks in advance.

[Jebuschris91]

This is a case of too much damn porn.

Your friend has watched so much porn, too much porn, and his brain has simulated the pleasure he's seeing so much so that when it comes to the real thing it isn't good enough.

It's like watching Gordon Ramsay everyday cook steak, then you go coffee shop buy the 6 dollar one, not what you expect, cannot eat finish.

Ask your friend to stop watching porn and masturbating for two weeks, then ask him to go fuck something, if he needs to cum everyday this will help make him feel like fucking less desirable things.

[kuche95]

Originally Posted by 3someking

Guys, need your help on this friend of mine. Basically my friend has been married for 6 years and he does not have a child yet. He is 32 this year. He seems to have a problem having intercourse. He loves to masturbate on a daily basis and love watching porn. He is able to ejaculate while doing so but if having intercourse with his wife, he claims that his dick would start to harden but then turn back soft within a few seconds, hence he unable to ejaculate.

This happens outside too. When we chionging ktv, the viet gal would rub his dick and then turn soft within few seconds. The viet gal would ask why soft. It also happen when we went to lorong too. He cant seems to maintain his dick hardness. Even we went to this particular pinay pub, the pinay gal tried to give him a HJ and immediately turn soft and the gal was shock.

So we advice him to see a doctor and the doctor prescribed him with pills. After eating the pills, it wont work on him too. The Doctor told him that nothing is wrong with him, its just his mindset. We did try ask him to buy a pill from one of the bros here its called Menplus or something. It helps to maintain erection but still wont work. Anybody here willing to advice how to help my friend? Thanks in advance.

Probably his dick has been used to masturbation. Only reacts to handjobs and no other. Thats why even the pills cant solve his problem.

maybe ask him to stop masturbating and starts fucking.

[Retnar]

Yes ask him to stop PCC for 1 week and later try again.

[ah rat]

TS ,your friend use to much on hand masturbate.This might causes his performance during intercourse
If he want kid.The only thing is to ask his wife to standy,after watching porn, immediately ejaculate in her hole.

Stop PCC now,try to use his lanjiao is to fuck
If ready can't performance,his wife might give him green hat

[absoluu]

TS - read here

http://sea.askmen.com/article/3335/h...c-masturbation

4. Compulsive Masturbation Can Mask Anxiety Issues

Though definitely more rare and far less common, there could be some mental issues tied to why you’re stroking one out on the regular, up to multiple times a day. “Some men do have OCD or other mental disorders that masturbation becomes the outlet for and is used as the catalyst for other activities,” Michael explains.

From having so much anxiety about a particular period in your life -- losing your job, the passing away of a family member or other difficult events -- to becoming obsessive and out of control, here are some dangerous mental side effects to watch out for:
Your Penis Is Raw Because You Stroke So Much And So Hard

At times, chronic masturbation can become too frequent, creating conflict in the relationship or injury, causing a painful erection. In regards to injury, some men can masturbate too often creating rawness on the penis or injury to the soft tissues of the penis,” Geter says. “Typically, this compulsive behavior stems from an increase in anxiety or inability to manage anxiety with other coping skills.”
You Can No Longer ‘finish’ During Normal Intercourse

If you once enjoyed orgasming at the same time with your partner, but now you can’t seem to get there unless you’re doing it on your own, you might have developed a mental block due to masturbation. “Although not detrimental to a man's health, chronic masturbation can also impact enjoyment or pleasure of other sexual activities with a partner. The brain learns that masturbation feels good. When other equally enjoyable stimulation is introduced after long periods of masturbation, a man can have trouble with orgasm or ejaculation since the stimulation of a vagina, mouth, or partner's hand is not the same as that of the man's own hand,” Geter says. “Many men present to my office with this concern. After behavioral modification treatment, they are able to orgasm and ejaculate to different stimuli. One tool I suggest men utilize is a male masturbation sleeve. This sleeve helps stimulate a vagina, mouth, or rectum though they are not replacements for those body parts.”

[yemingling]

Originally Posted by absoluu

TS - read here

http://sea.askmen.com/article/3335/h...c-masturbation

4. Compulsive Masturbation Can Mask Anxiety Issues

Though definitely more rare and far less common, there could be some mental issues tied to why you’re stroking one out on the regular, up to multiple times a day. “Some men do have OCD or other mental disorders that masturbation becomes the outlet for and is used as the catalyst for other activities,” Michael explains.

From having so much anxiety about a particular period in your life -- losing your job, the passing away of a family member or other difficult events -- to becoming obsessive and out of control, here are some dangerous mental side effects to watch out for:
Your Penis Is Raw Because You Stroke So Much And So Hard

At times, chronic masturbation can become too frequent, creating conflict in the relationship or injury, causing a painful erection. In regards to injury, some men can masturbate too often creating rawness on the penis or injury to the soft tissues of the penis,” Geter says. “Typically, this compulsive behavior stems from an increase in anxiety or inability to manage anxiety with other coping skills.”
You Can No Longer ‘finish’ During Normal Intercourse

If you once enjoyed orgasming at the same time with your partner, but now you can’t seem to get there unless you’re doing it on your own, you might have developed a mental block due to masturbation. “Although not detrimental to a man's health, chronic masturbation can also impact enjoyment or pleasure of other sexual activities with a partner. The brain learns that masturbation feels good. When other equally enjoyable stimulation is introduced after long periods of masturbation, a man can have trouble with orgasm or ejaculation since the stimulation of a vagina, mouth, or partner's hand is not the same as that of the man's own hand,” Geter says. “Many men present to my office with this concern. After behavioral modification treatment, they are able to orgasm and ejaculate to different stimuli. One tool I suggest men utilize is a male masturbation sleeve. This sleeve helps stimulate a vagina, mouth, or rectum though they are not replacements for those body parts.”

You like very experienced, got this problem too?

[MaraGuru]

Strongly agreed with some bros comment here.

Too much porn and self release. Keep porn and self release for a week or 2, should be able to improve the condition. Porn and actual sex are 2 different ball game.

[alec]

I've encountered it before thou not as serious... so I took a break and be busy for awhile before letting others instead of my hands do the work.

[freezetheDB]

porn induced ED. Seems like many young men are encountering it.

can youtube some ted talks videos about it

all it requires is a reboot (stop porn and masturbation) till the mind goes back to default.

[firepost]

Originally Posted by Jebuschris91

This is a case of too much damn porn.

Your friend has watched so much porn, too much porn, and his brain has simulated the pleasure he's seeing so much so that when it comes to the real thing it isn't good enough.

It's like watching Gordon Ramsay everyday cook steak, then you go coffee shop buy the 6 dollar one, not what you expect, cannot eat finish.

Ask your friend to stop watching porn and masturbating for two weeks, then ask him to go fuck something, if he needs to cum everyday this will help make him feel like fucking less desirable things.

Agreed. Too much porn and the body cannot work properly.
Stop the porn and exercise more. The problem will be gone.

[abovetheline]

agree with everything said above

just out of curiosity what if he watch porn while doing his wife....will that work

or just go do it with a porn star

or maybe his wife is not that hot.

[bill9]

actually he should go on abstinence for a few months
don't watch porn, don't diy, go exercise too
get back to normal life

[gran]

Originally Posted by absoluu

TS - read here

http://sea.askmen.com/article/3335/h...c-masturbation

4. Compulsive Masturbation Can Mask Anxiety Issues

Though definitely more rare and far less common, there could be some mental issues tied to why you’re stroking one out on the regular, up to multiple times a day. “Some men do have OCD or other mental disorders that masturbation becomes the outlet for and is used as the catalyst for other activities,” Michael explains.

From having so much anxiety about a particular period in your life -- losing your job, the passing away of a family member or other difficult events -- to becoming obsessive and out of control, here are some dangerous mental side effects to watch out for:
Your Penis Is Raw Because You Stroke So Much And So Hard

At times, chronic masturbation can become too frequent, creating conflict in the relationship or injury, causing a painful erection. In regards to injury, some men can masturbate too often creating rawness on the penis or injury to the soft tissues of the penis,” Geter says. “Typically, this compulsive behavior stems from an increase in anxiety or inability to manage anxiety with other coping skills.”
You Can No Longer ‘finish’ During Normal Intercourse

If you once enjoyed orgasming at the same time with your partner, but now you can’t seem to get there unless you’re doing it on your own, you might have developed a mental block due to masturbation. “Although not detrimental to a man's health, chronic masturbation can also impact enjoyment or pleasure of other sexual activities with a partner. The brain learns that masturbation feels good. When other equally enjoyable stimulation is introduced after long periods of masturbation, a man can have trouble with orgasm or ejaculation since the stimulation of a vagina, mouth, or partner's hand is not the same as that of the man's own hand,” Geter says. “Many men present to my office with this concern. After behavioral modification treatment, they are able to orgasm and ejaculate to different stimuli. One tool I suggest men utilize is a male masturbation sleeve. This sleeve helps stimulate a vagina, mouth, or rectum though they are not replacements for those body parts.”

Tks for sharing

[abitex]

Originally Posted by MaraGuru

Strongly agreed with some bros comment here.

Too much porn and self release. Keep porn and self release for a week or 2, should be able to improve the condition. Porn and actual sex are 2 different ball game.

Seems like this is the problem