Does conversation or breaking the ice important during massage?

[Habahaba69]

Hi brothers,

Is conversation impt during massage?

If the ML is solid in massage but not so chatty, will you RTM?

Somehow, I find that those who can chit chat make me want to go back for more. Massage is important, as well as sensual, but i cannot tahan the room is quiet or almost quiet with no topics to talk about during the session?

What are the common topics some of the brothers chat about?

I am amazed by some brothers who can talk until fucking the ML.. haha..

[Xgenre]

I got scolded before for not talking. I went to a confirmed clean massage place and was assigned a late 20s/ early 30s PRC lady. My body was aching from intense exercises and I booked a 90 min session. I slept almost the entire 90 mins.

Towards the end, she scolded me for not chatting with her. She said it is very difficult to pass time when no one chats with her and if I just wish to sleep, I should not be booking her in future. In the first place, she was assigned to me. I did not book her services. Sigh. A terrible end to a otherwise quite relaxing massage session.

[kombust]

i always take the chance to practice my sianning skills. not chio i also say i never get massaged by chio bu before. although it has backfired before with chao bin mls.

humans being humans, if they like you then can get better treatment. free extra 5-15mins if they got no booking.

but getting scolded for taking a nap during massage is seriously wtf.

[afterburn]

I prefer the massage joint to play the radio, not spa music, helps to fill in time when there's no conversation. Radio plays latest or classic songs also more interesting.

As for talking it's mainly out of curiousity to find out the circumstances of each ML. Or learn something new

[Cupping888]

It is important to me.

Maybe i like to talk.

I feel an ML has to have a bit of everything which my regular MLs have

She can do cupping, back stepping, ear digging, a little of juagen, and most importantly can talk to me about various topics in life which make me look at her more like a fellow human being than a ML.

And what I like is she never tell me she need $ la, family sick la, or ask me to buy her things, so it is not so commercial.

So it is just like coffee shop talk in an air con environment with closed door.. and yes, got light music too. Ending off with a HJ beats this feeling and release my stresses away.

I think talking helps alot. Initially, she do not let me touch her nipples, but after awhile, i start to tune her nipples every session, plus she do light pecks on the cheeks. We also start to talk on sexually related topics as well..so far never lead to anything, but I can say it is because we talk more often, and then the talking or chatting helps to bond.

So if u ask me, when I go to her, it is money well spent.. my body feel relaxed after the massage/HJ, and my mind well relaxed from the casual chats. I think such ML are rare because some ML conversation is fake, but when the conversation is genuine, I treasure the session more

[CHINYC]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I got scolded before for not talking. I went to a confirmed clean massage place and was assigned a late 20s/ early 30s PRC lady. My body was aching from intense exercises and I booked a 90 min session. I slept almost the entire 90 mins.

Towards the end, she scolded me for not chatting with her. She said it is very difficult to pass time when no one chats with her and if I just wish to sleep, I should not be booking her in future. In the first place, she was assigned to me. I did not book her services. Sigh. A terrible end to a otherwise quite relaxing massage session.

I encountered the a different experience from urs when I went for full body massage at Kang Jia @YCK.
Big Size PRC MILF was assigned to me.
Start with small talk with me, and slowly she talked none stop while massaging me.
I like her strength on my stiff back.

I did noticed that there are no male massauers.
All curtains type.

[234fries]

Talking is important, the more ML know about u and more comfy, the more they will give you.

Chemistry also counts

Will be surprised if any bro can sian a ML without breaking ice or talking. haha

[r.fowler]

depend... clean joint, nope.

Dirty joint, i will make small talk, 1. is to show that i know the market rate and what is on offer... 2. dont treat me like a carrot head.

[Samto]

Agreed talking is building chemistry and no matter what service you are looking for, chemistry is important and CNA earn you extra, so no harm trying, right?
But if I am really not interested in the masseuse, by looking or by figure, I can be quiet, and this is also a good test whether the ml is good at doing her stuff or just a time watcher.

[Fhappy]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I got scolded before for not talking. I went to a confirmed clean massage place and was assigned a late 20s/ early 30s PRC lady. My body was aching from intense exercises and I booked a 90 min session. I slept almost the entire 90 mins.

Towards the end, she scolded me for not chatting with her. She said it is very difficult to pass time when no one chats with her and if I just wish to sleep, I should not be booking her in future. In the first place, she was assigned to me. I did not book her services. Sigh. A terrible end to a otherwise quite relaxing massage session.

Can u pm me this? Hard to fine a good one

[whoizzit2]

It does in a way but in the end just be yourself cos if you're not that chatty why force to be one.
Just enjoy the ride.

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by whoizzit2

It does in a way but in the end just be yourself cos if you're not that chatty why force to be one.
Just enjoy the ride.

Actually when you "click" with someone, there's no need to force. If you feel forced to come up with topics to sustain a conversation, and the ML also not very interested to prolong it - shows there's not so much chemistry.

MLs are just like any people; some people you find easy to talk to, and conversation flows easily, no need to think of what topic.

Anyways these few days is a good time to talk more, make good friends and suss out the ML whether they are type that can and want to do "extra" secretly if CB 2.0 falls on us Be prepared this time instead of spending another "dry" months.

[Easyhero]

Personally I would prefer to rest and relax while enjoying the massage. Life is already so stressful, so won't want to go MP to entertain ML

[Thedeathknight]

It doesn't help when almost all the MLs don't speak English, for all the non-chinese speaking bros.

Sigh, still searching.

[rocket1128]

you need to unlock the conversation then can unlock her bra.