Married man surviving as single guy overseas

[justwanadoit]

My situation is different. I am in Europe alone and my family in Singapore.

To survive, I am torn between dating single ladies and fkin them, I do get emotionally involved.


Or just pay for sex. I ever try also Sugar daddy site but a bit too expensive


I am also one of those who feel I married a person i not love but out of obligation,i have a child. So that adds to my frustration

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by Eequalsmc2

14 yrs later and after many many fkk visits I'm assuming ud have figured out this moral question for yourself haha

Not really. Fkks are basically prostitutes but having a relationship is so much more satisfying as you go for dinners, trips together

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by Eequalsmc2

Simple solution just like if you crave pho you go to Vietnamese restaurant if you crave steak you go to steakhouse. You want dinner trip you go with platonic female friend best no need to pay for her, the. If want sex you go to fkk. Engage in specialisation rather in jack of all trades types

You wan continuous girlfren sex, and also sex after dinner type. Lidat how

[BushTracker]

Slippery slope. But I guess it doesn't matter if you are living in the same household or a difference continent. If you married someone you do not love, the temptation will always be there.

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Slippery slope. But I guess it doesn't matter if you are living in the same household or a difference continent. If you married someone you do not love, the temptation will always be there.

Yes it is. Its so difficult. What makes it harder is , I never really fallen in love she is first "gf" I had

[Charlie130X]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

Yes it is. Its so difficult. What makes it harder is , I never really fallen in love she is first "gf" I had

Hi bro, pardon me asking. Why you still married your girl friend when you are not even fallen in love with her. You would have avoided your misery if you have not done so. Just curious....

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by Charlie130X

Hi bro, pardon me asking. Why you still married your girl friend when you are not even fallen in love with her. You would have avoided your misery if you have not done so. Just curious....

I made the decision too hasty...and she cried when we try breaking up. Anyway now I am unhappy person but still need carry responsibility

[hock19]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

I made the decision too hasty...and she cried when we try breaking up. Anyway now I am unhappy person but still need carry responsibility

I guess there are alot of couple that ends up like this. They marry the first girl friend, have kids and still are together even they dont really love the wife. He cares for her like a sort of brother sister love. They will take responsibility for the household but then they look elsewhere for love and affection...........they might have a few gf or even form a relationship with hookers and develop a very close relationship with them

I guess that is happening with the arrival of a lot of China girls to our shores........thats why wifes hates these gals!!

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by hock19

I guess there are alot of couple that ends up like this. They marry the first girl friend, have kids and still are together even they dont really love the wife. He cares for her like a sort of brother sister love. They will take responsibility for the household but then they look elsewhere for love and affection...........they might have a few gf or even form a relationship with hookers and develop a very close relationship with them

I guess that is happening with the arrival of a lot of China girls to our shores........thats why wifes hates these gals!!

Thank you bro for understanding my situation.


What is slightly different for me is I am overseas alone.

I am not looking for relationships with hookers but I do wish I could be satisfied with just hookers.

I guess the crux of problem is I haven't had a serious mid to long term relationship before and the curiosity is like unsatiable itch.

But I did have "girlfriends" overseas for short period, initially I pretended be single but i cannot hold it anymore when I see the girl is serious about me. I just had to own up and tell these girls the truth and they left me. Of course!

So yes maybe sugar baby arrangement is right way but they demanded too much and I cannot afford it.

So at times I can go crazy.

[iluvbreast]

I thought you wanted to set up another family in Europe and was asking other samsters for their opinion some time back?

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

I thought you wanted to set up another family in Europe and was asking other samsters for their opinion some time back?

Thats correct. I have a few girlfriends at same time in Europe

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

Thats correct. I have a few girlfriends at same time in Europe

And then what is your problem? You want to do it then do it, Bigamy may be punishable up to 7 years' prison and fine, under Singapore's law but if you don't marry your European gf then no problem what.

[bignehneh]

Actually quite shiok lei. I worked in US, Thailand, Malaysia. Sibei song….almost lots of free fuck

[hock19]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

Thank you bro for understanding my situation.


What is slightly different for me is I am overseas alone.

I am not looking for relationships with hookers but I do wish I could be satisfied with just hookers.

I guess the crux of problem is I haven't had a serious mid to long term relationship before and the curiosity is like unsatiable itch.

But I did have "girlfriends" overseas for short period, initially I pretended be single but i cannot hold it anymore when I see the girl is serious about me. I just had to own up and tell these girls the truth and they left me. Of course!

So yes maybe sugar baby arrangement is right way but they demanded too much and I cannot afford it.

So at times I can go crazy.

I think to save problems down the road, you need to be upfront with them and say that you are married!! SO if the girl enters into a relationship, she knows what she is getting into and that you are not conning her!!

Off course this might not come out good if she really falls in love with you and want to keep you and ask you to divorce your wife!! So I guess it all comes down on the relationship with the girl and how the girl feels about the situation going in.

Different girl has different ideas on all this......

[limking]

What you wanted is unattached companionship with sex throw in as a bonus . Am sure there are quite a numbers of them ladies with the same mind set over in Europe . Look through the dating apps like tinder ...ect .There are bound to be some , milfs in particular .