[Orchinno]

Yes, I will stay in such a marriage unless her goals in life changes, ie want kids..

This forum is for all the highly sexed people out there.. or otherwise you'll not be coming to this forum in the first place (?except curiosity).

Man and woman evolve very differently. Man thinks with their dicks. Woman thinks about their status in the social hierarchy. Maybe she has low sex drive or opprobrium over certain sex acts, so her husband is satisfying his own needs without threatening her social status by keeping it discreet.

And trotting out the old saw about marriage is more than sex. From the sound of the way the TS put it, her physical needs are all met and her husband is already providing her emotional and financial needs, then why get hangup over this strange thing about monogamy in marriage?

The loser is the other woman unless all the other woman is sex (which imho, very rare).