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there are many ways to temporarily resolve the needs,
eg. self masturbation w/wo toys, finding other distractions, cybersex, etc...

Like you mentioned you are not keen on ONS, or fuckbuddies...so be it. Its perfectly fine. Everyone has different moral yardsticks. Its cool and whats most important is to find the balance.

No point finding a fuckbuddy and get guilty over it later right? The psychological guilt is not worth it.

I used to have a very good minah friend. We were sort of friends with benefits but we didnt really fuck each other except handjobs and blowjobs. We went on until we mutally agreed to stop once we have someone else in mind for a r/s.