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Old 14-06-2009, 11:01 AM
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Re: Guy who steal your gf. Forgive?

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Originally Posted by centaur View Post
Just want to relate a little bit about my past.
Previously I have an ex whom I love deeply. However she cheated and two timed me. Her old uni mate manage to court her using some underhand tactic. I confronted him and he say a lot of bull crap. Real piece of work. I would not go into details as it has been more than a decade already.
Deep in, I have already made my peace with my ex-betrayal. As they say all is fair in love and war. I have move on from her and dated many girls after that.
However I don't seem to be able to do that for that guy. Can't really forgive and forget. I always have the feeling of wanting to beat the crap out of him if we ever cross path.
Anyone have that sort of stuff deep in you or similar experience? Care to share?
Bring the cow to the river and it still won't drink if it does not want to. Your ex-gf is just as guilty as the other guy so if you can forgive your ex-gf, why you cannot forgive the guy ?

The answer is your pride. You have a badly bruised BIG ego to heal and that is the cause.