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Originally Posted by randyrockhard
She is basically doing damage control since you may not know what she is not telling you.
What are you looking for out of this interaction with a married woman? A fling? a future?
She wants it to stop. Then please stop. Respect that. Tell her that you would stop looking for her.
Let your terms be made very clear to her, no half-assed bullshits like let's remain friends or such.
I had a case where the woman I knew from an online dating app never said anything about her still being married and have a kid. I guess she did it for her own reasons.
I only found out about her situation when I did my own online digging. I try to stay away as much as possible with potential problems.
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well even at the time when she first confessed, she said she still want to be friends as she doesn't want us to be strangers or enemies. she confessed on my last day of work. she had been sending hints and signals thru whatsapp prior to that. even now she still want to be friends after stopping all the flirty and affectionate messages.
all this happened at the time where i felt that no woman will be interested in me as im a 39 year old chubby man. she proved me wrong. of course my self esteem boosts now that i have a cute girl interested in me. i admit i wish to have an affair with her but i cant do it as i dont want to ruin her life. she has so much more to lose than me. she also hinted she isnt happy with her marriage. i started to care more and more about her.