[warbird]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

As the old saying goes, one man's meat is one man's poison. Likewise for women, they come in all shapes and sizes, so are their preferences. Rather to to potency to be someone you are not, might as well just be yourself and find the ladies who like your type.
In short, be sincere. You need not tell them the full truth but try not to lie. No one likes a liar.

Bro, tks. Well said.

Sincerity is an important trait.

Originally Posted by moneymoneycome

Thoughts become words, words become actions. Subconcious belief is indeed very real.Never be put down by negative remarks or actions from anyone, men or women. Just move on when encounter these type of people, there will always be someone that will appreciate the character one possesses. Remember 天生我并才有用。

Bro, tks for your post.

Yes, your subconscious beliefs and mental frames will determine how successful and happy you're in life.

Originally Posted by atbs

Bro WB

Thank you for the nice post above. Also for past 11 years of contribution.

Gal was rather fake when they said don't want.

Guy must be able to distinguish the difference and be patient to see. Best is have a set of preset actions and words.

Women will be able to decipher the messages and in their sub-conscious mind will be able to make the best decision.

Sometimes women get attracted for some slightest detail example handsome dress well, nice talker, big money spender, etc.

Many r/s are complex and variations.

Just enjoy the ride.

Happy weekend.

Bro, good post.

Very good advice, tks.

Originally Posted by preciousfire

Fully agreed, gals always say the opposite.

Very nice thread by bro WB, thanks.

Cheers.

Tks, bro.

Originally Posted by eveofxmas

BRO WB

I agreed with your rules above.

Best let her talk and guy listen. If she interested she said it and if not interested nothing guy do will improve the situation.

Just that in many cases money can settle matters and that is not the point.

If any relationships depend on money to resolve then very transactional. Although money is key to any relationship because no money no honey too.

What I stated above is guy still need to have money to spend to go on meals, movies, trips and so on.

Hope can learn from WB master here.

Thanks and cheers.

Bro, tks.

I'm no master. Just a guy trying to learn about life, happiness and women.

Originally Posted by McCannOppo

Excellent thread here, thanks bro WB.

Cheers.

Tks, bro.

Originally Posted by girlassassin

Agreed to the rules too, hoping to learn more from bro WB in this great thread.

Have a good weekend.

Good rules to follow, tks.

Originally Posted by DBSTeller

Well said bro, give a LIKE!!

Tks, bro.

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Good evening!

Here is an interesting article about disagreeing with girls/women of your type.

The Power of Disagreeing With Women

by Anti-Dump

It is disastrous to validate a woman's feelings and agree too much with her.

When you first meet a woman, she looks for strength and confidence FIRST. She is basically looking you over. She is not concerned at that time if you support her ideas or feelings.

She wants a man who can handle this world. "Can he take it?" she asks.

In the beginning she is not interested in your relationship skills.

She is interested in observing you in action.


The First Thing She Looks For

How does he handle people?

How does he handle his car breaking down?

Does he pound walls? Does he lose it?

These are the FIRST things she looks for.

In the first three months if you act too agreeable, or validate her feelings too much, she interprets this as being SOFT.

A tough man has a gentle side, but it is crazy to present the soft side in the very beginning.

Why?

Because a woman will think you are ALL SOFT.

You must be confident with a touch of compassion for others.

That's about it for the first year of dating.


Why You Should Disagree with Her

I make it a point to disagree once on each date.

It's a test.

I want to see if she can handle small disagreements.

Many men go along all the way for the first month or two. This is a mistake.

Validating and defending a woman comes later on in the relationship. You get respect only later on.

After one year validating becomes GOLD to a woman.

In the beginning, it is relationship destroying.

I am not saying treat her badly. Please don't post me back saying that.

You give her basic respect. You are friendly, etc.

But you are careful not to support her too much when you first meet. Because she will interpret it as a character flaw called WEAKNESS.

Now all women are going to disagree. But that is the truth.

That's why nice guys get rejected.





I can't agree w/ the above more.

The most attractive, high quality girls/women of your type are most attracted to a man's masculine character and his awesome emotional/self mastery.

But don't disagree just to disagree. Disagree only when she is wrong.

Never forget that LESS is MORE w/ women. And never forget you're the PRIZE. Otherwise, you will fail miserably w/ girls/women of your type.

Cheers!

Bro WB