[MoJoe313]

TS,
Atm, it looks like a wrestling match. You are trying to UP her. She is trying to avoid closeness by bringing her nephew around. If she is really into making this work, she should have spent time with you alone. To know you and understand you better. Looks like a failed trip and you are losing the wrestling match.

This is the mental battles we go thru in relationships. TS, teach you a neat trick. Dun give in to her all the time. Sometimes, show your disappointment. Withdraw and ignore her. Establish the lines. Else she will be used to getting things her way all the time after married. Even if this marriage is not of love, it should be of mutual respect.