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Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

Agree on height and dress sense being the main thing more than muscles. But I'm frankly skeptical about the "20s to 30s girls go for dad bods" claim. I'm 26 and I see girls my age and younger or older till their early 30s still go into a tizzy for guys who are Insta-fit and muscled.

Look at it this way, insta-fit muscle guys are jus eye candies But they are deem as unapproachable cause normal ppl tend to believe they have to be on equal status to match.
Jus like if a Super hot guy approach me I would think it’s probably a bet / he has cataract and if a Super hot girl approaches an ave normal guy, he would think she is a scam / has hidden agenda..

Anyway, it is a major turn off to date guys who are narcissistically over their muscular body, taking selfies all the time in the gym, showing off their six pack etc etc.. no doubt they are proud of their hard work, have to acknowledge the effort. Everyone is entitled to their own preference