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Originally Posted by Indigoflashed
I know, and I appreciate that. My facts are all over the place and it is tough to get it in one post.
I am now just trying to figure out if she means it or just lying to me. Also not sure if she will do this again
I’m contemplating contacting the guy to ask for the truth (she said they are not in contact anymore) but honestly if they are cahoots their stories will match (ie only a month no sex etc)
Kinda at a loss, sigh
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Leave her and go and stay somewhere else for the time being. Just tell her you're giving her time and space to sort things out and make a decision what she wants to do with the marriage.
If she comes back to you begging for a second chance then you are in a position to call the shots. It gives you the upper hand. In the current situation she is playing you instead.
If she doesn't then it was obviously not meant to be.