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Originally Posted by Indigoflashed
Thank you. Truth is I don’t know how long it has been. I searched her phone thoroughly even after the incident and all I see prior to a month ago are rather platonic work emails. It stepped up after a while and they even had pet names for each other. That happened about a month before I found out which matched he timing she says
A few months ago I also caught her chatting with that guy and she was trying to matchmake him with someone else, so I honestly don’t think it has been a year.
Or am I just delusional
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I am basing my conclusion on your initial post :
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About a year ago my wife’s behavior started to change. She started to dress up a lot more, started clubbing and I could also sense her becoming more protective about her cell phone. I didn’t give it much thought initially, as I trusted her wholeheartedly and didn’t imagine she would have an affair, but turns out that I should have listened to my guts much earlier.
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If you noticed the change in her behavior a year ago she could have started seeing someone even earlier. Perhaps it was not the same guy. Of course I am only guessing but you asked for advice and I am giving it based upon the facts you presented.
If you revise the facts I will revise my assessment of the situation.
