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Originally Posted by jinwolves
I will pcc on my pants at night then in morning change new pants. Once shoot out, is the best to fall asleep
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Originally Posted by Summerhillt
wtf bro than the pants not sticky meh? the bed not sticky ah?  |
I do the same. Yes, the pants will be sticky. If the load is heavy, it may even smudge onto the mattress and bolster. The pants will have a cum smell next morning but, strangely, there wouldn't be anything anywhere else. After release, just hug the bolster to sleep. It's a good feeling
It's not something I can do with the girls because we have to wipe the cum off their bodies and I find that sort of "area cleaning" breaks the romantic pace and a bit mood killing.
Anyways, to add to the masturbation frequency data, when I was in my teens and early twenties, it was daily. Didn't jerk off couldn't fall asleep. Mid twenties till early thirties still needed to release (masturbate or sex) almost daily but there were some days when I was too tired and fell asleep without doing. As expected, this happened more frequently the older I got. Mid thirties around every other day. Now late thirties around 2-3 times a week because work became more stressful and tiring as I aged. That said, regardless of age, there are days when I feel so damn horny I will masturbate or fuck at least 4 times during the night. Just last month I jerked off 6 times in a night. My max record was jerking off 11 times from 11pm to around 4am when I was in JC. That night I mentally fucked all the prettiest girls in my jc
(I usually imagine fucking my friends and colleagues instead of watching porn when masturbating.)
And as for all the old wives' tales about the dangers or benefits of masturbating, I think overall it's good for health for three reasons.
Firstly, when I'm without a regular partner, masturbating will help to reduce the urge to have sex and I won't engage in the "dangerous sexual activity" of finding prostitutes and FLs. But of course sometimes buah tahan must fuck a real woman then will buy condom go fuck la (I always buy proper Durex Extra Safe condom rather than use the whore's god knows what brand no quality control condom).
Secondly, masturbation trained me to recognize the sensations at various stages of arousal. So I can control myself and slow down before I reach the point of no return. For me, there is always a "danger point" roughly 3-5mins into actual sex or masturbation when I can feel some build up of tension. That is when I slow down and let the feeling pass. Once I get past this danger point I can just anyhow go on for as long as my body can take it liao. I can also tell when I'm about to cum and withdraw before shooting. While not a full-proof way to avoid pregnancy, it has worked so far whenever I'm not using condom and the girl is not on the pill.
Finally, I find masturbating very therapeutic. With actual sex, there's always the human relationship complication (even for fbs) and the need to be mindful about avoiding pregnancy when going raw. All these take some bits away from the joy of sex. But with masturbation, I can imagine fucking any girl I want, we can be having sex for all sorts of reasons in all sorts of settings (my female boss feeling lonely, me punishing my subordinate for a mistake, sex with a horny colleague who's husband wasn't satisfying her, a sales rep offering sexual gratification, raping that innocent virgin intern, etc.) It is limited only by my imagination. And I can cum inside all these girls (this is where cumming inside the pants enters the picture, the sensations can be quite similar
) without worry of getting tied down with an offspring.
As for the dick head becoming desensitized, I don't think masturbation was the culprit. For me, during my early cheonging days, I used to cum quite fast. About 10mins like that done. Bought Durex Performa once. It was like putting deflam on ur dick. The dick head became numb for a week and rather desensitized thereafter till this day. This is why bj will never get me off (some KTV girls will challenge me to pay fj rate if they can get me off with bj, otherwise they drink. I always accept the challenge
) This is also why I can last as long as I want after the danger point. Give up some sensation for longer lasting sex. But sometimes I quite miss the more sensitive head as it took less stimulation to achieve the same shiokness.
[Omg, didn't realize this post had became so long
But I guess masturbation is a large part of my life. So I just wanted to share my "experience" with the kids.]