Originally Posted by warbird
"The ABC's Of Great Sex"
"A" is for Anatomy.
Obviously, on the most basic level, you have
just GOT to know where things are on a woman's
body.
That means that you can confidently and quickly
locate things like the clitoris, the g-spot, the
cervix, the labia, etc.
If you don't have that part completely handled,
then you can very quickly find the information online
by typing any of those words into google.
This is basic, "must know" information.
The more advanced stuff to know about a her
anatomy is not universal for every woman-- so you
will have to do some exploring...
Every woman has her own erotic map of places
on her body that turn her on.
For example, some women will go wild with
lust if you nibble their earlobes... and some
women will find it annoying.
Finding the spots on her body that drive her
crazy is part of the fun of love-making.
Okay, next...
"B" is for Body Control.
In this case I'm talking about YOUR body.
Obviously there are many amazing things you
can do to her with your fingers and tongue. And
for giving a woman her first orgasm, the tongue
is probably superior to the penis.
But for the most amazing sex she's ever had
in her life, you will need to have control over
your erection.
Controlling your body is something that she
sees as a masculine and powerful characteristic.
And that, unfortunately, means that if you
CAN'T control yourself, that she'll feel that you
are a bit less manly... and this will affect her
sexual attraction to you... her desire to BE
sexual with you...
And that's true even if you can give her a
hundred multiple orgasms with your tongue.
If you happen to be a guy with challenges in
this area, I have some news for you that you may
find difficult to believe-- but it's a fact:
This is the EASIEST part of being great in bed.
Why?
Because it's the part that is TOTALLY in your
control. It's YOUR body, and YOU can control it.
If you are shaking your head and saying, "but
I CAN'T!" Please slap yourself hard across the
face and get a grip on yourself.
Yes, you can.
It may take some work, some practice, some
courage... but you absolutely can. Other men
have overcome this challenge and so can you.
I'm not going further into this now because
I've got to get to "C", but if this is a challenge
in your life, STOP reading now and go HERE
Okay, so moving along... the other reason that
controlling your erection is so important is
that while you can give her an orgasm with your
tongue-- when you give her an orgasm while you are
INSIDE of her body, and face-to-face it creates
a magic intimacy for her that can't be replaced.
And the feelings and emotions this creates
inside of her are what will release even more
powerful orgasms and take her to places that no
other man has ever taken her to.
And this is only possible through the final
piece of the puzzle...
"C" is for CONNECTION
This is both the most difficult and, by far,
the most important part of giving a woman her
most incredible experience in the bedroom.
If you are with a woman who has never had an
orgasm before...
THIS is how you will give her her first.
If you are with a woman who is very orgasmic
and can easily have multiple orgasms from any
sexual position-- this will EXPLODE her beliefs
about how much sexual pleasure she is capable of
experiencing...
And show her that while ANY man can give her
an orgasm, with you, she is in the hands of a
true MASTER.
"Connection" is a complex subject and a complex
skill and that's why so few men can do it... which
is why so few men are any good in bed... and also
why so many women have never had an orgasm.
Here's the thing that is so frustrating for
so many guys--
Even if she LOVES you...
Even if you are her best FRIEND...
Even if you have been together for YEARS...
She probably still doesn't feel the kind of
sexual "connection" I'm talking about.
In fact (and here's the real freak-show), often
these factors PREVENT her from feeling sexual
connection with you because her closeness to you
makes it scary for her--
Have you ever noticed that if some guy you
know tells you that you're doing something wrong
and corrects you, or tells you that your shirt
looks stupid-- it's no big deal. You forget
about it two minutes later.
But if the woman you love says these things
it hurts like hell... and may start a big fight?
We are emotionally raw with the people we
love the most.
And that's why it's so difficult for you to
build this sexual Connection with her.
She is terrified of being so completely
vulnerable with you because if you reject her,
it will emotionally destroy her.
But when you establish this connection,
she completely surrenders herself to you.
That is when you can make her orgasm,
literally at will.
There are very specific techniques and actions
you can take to create this connection-- it is not
just "luck" or "chemistry".
And likewise, there are very specific things
you can do to destroy it... And most men are so
completely unaware of these things that they do
them ALL THE TIME without realizing it.
But I guarantee, if you can do the simple
steps-- learn about her ANATOMY, and CONTROL your
own body... you can absolutely learn to do this
third, critical step...
And completely BLOW HER MIND in the bedroom in
ways that she never thought possible.
It's almost funny to watch how shocked she will
be afterwards-- because she just never suspected
that so much sexual pleasure was remotely possible.
And what's very hard to explain in the scope
of a newsletter is that this NOT some vague or
intangible thing... when you GET this, you will
feel it in almost exactly the way you feel it
the first time you dial in a good golf swing or
stand up on a surf board.
There's no question as to whether you are
riding that board or never got off your knees.
In the coming months I'll be sharing lots of
tips on how to build that connection in this
newsletter...
But here is the most important factor that
you can start working with IMMEDIATELY.
The key is in the first thing I told you, which
is confidently going for what YOU want.
Because your confidence is exactly what gives
her PERMISSION to open vulnerably towards you
and create connection.
For Passion,
Mr. Sexual Mastery Guru
P.S., Practice this TONIGHT. Make an effort
to notice what you feel when you are more open
about your desires with your woman... and then
breath through that feeling into confidence.
You will probably see a difference in her response
IMMEDIATELY. That's the first step on the road to
MASTERY
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