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Originally Posted by vivianward
If I may be honest, the sugar industry has been brought down by people who are not supposed to be in it. Low ballers, escorts, agents, free riders, etc. Men who does not fit in are in it, women who does not have what it takes are in it.
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This is why sincere SD/SBs might wanna try going to seekingarrangement.com for their fixes instead of SBF. Just gotta watch out for cat-fishing and scams.
Seriously man, most adverts here look like glorified FL/escort services. IMO the SD/SB dynamic is akin to cultivating a proper relationship. There shouldn't be the "meet x times a month" caveat you see on practically every thread here nowadays. How is that any different from visiting the same prostitute 4 times a month on a fixed schedule?
Now I'm not saying that the SB should be at the SD's beck and call 24/7. But putting a hard cap on the frequency of meetups is just too transactional. The SB should -
within reason - do whatever it takes to fulfill the SD's desires. He is taking care of your financial needs after all. If your SD wants you to binge watch Game of Thrones with him, it shouldn't be a "session". You should do it because you want to make your SD happy (and if you like dragons and titties).
On the other end of the equation, what is with all the flaming and complaining we see here when some SBs post relatively high expected allowances? Like c'mon dude, this is not some wet market where you can haggle over the cost of poultry. Every SB has her price. Can't afford it? Don't low ball, don't haggle, don't slut-shame, don't cry "spoil market", don't be bitter - just walk away with dignity.
Too many losers whining about sour grapes these days. Its ok to be poor. Nobody will judge you for that. But if you're gonna bitch about the product just because you cannot afford its price, that's just pathetic. And if you can afford it but think the SB isn't worth her asking price? Why trash the SB? She's just trying to make this shit work on her terms. If you think its a bad deal, just go get your kicks somewhere else man.
Just my 2cts on this topic. Stay cool, and have a great weekend ahead.