Sometimes it really depends on what a person look forward to... No matter how hard a guy 'play' he will need a 'base' to rest. Most guys outside chiong to look for 'sex preys' and quench their lust. But among so many chiongsters I met, most of them feel empty. I guess gers are getting more westernise and they can 'chiong' more fiercely than guys. I believe most guys who chiong looks for a sense of excitment, conquering every prey they encounter and most of the counterparts dress and behaved to be 'upped'. No matter how good a guy is, there is still a 'soft spot' which can be explained. The woman who is able to complement your 'soft spot' might not b one u consciously know... This is my humble opinion... Correct me if u bros dun think so...